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it:s an explanation of why i like shinobu from chihayafuru & the peripheral people / moving-object that pop up sometimes 

09.01-22

Mornings like this.

- Vivera Rossi

chiho saitou’s revolutionary girl utena: after the revolution || さいとうちほの『少女革命ウテナ after the revolution』

I tried to hold a dying star,

I feel as if I’m made to understand but not to be understood.

cold

𝚜𝚞𝚛𝚟𝚎𝚒𝚕𝚕𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎_𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚛𝚐𝚢

ig: netto_comdoistes

Neurotypical: You should help me put more it's the nice thing to do.

Autistic: Okay, I'll do whatever you need me to do. Just tell me what to do.

Neurotypical: I shouldn't have to tell you what to do, just help.

Autistic: How can I help????

Neurotypical: You're so inconsiderate for not helping even when I don't ask directly for help.

This is a personal experience of mine and I can't describe how frustrating it feels!

I will literally do what you tell me to if you just say it!

I can't understand when you might want my help, so all you have to do is ASK DIRECTLY!

Don't do shit like "oh I wish someone could help me." Because I won't know if that'd a joke or not!

Just say, "Hey can you help me clean this?" Or "Hey do you kind getting the mail for me?"

It's not that hard.

I'm not inconsiderate for not helping you when you didn't ask.