When I first realised I was a lesbian I wanted to lean more towards the fem label because I have been hypermasc for so long and I feel like I wanted to reclaim my femininity.
But now that I feel more comfortable with my sexuality/ identity I feel like I might be butch
Honestly I've always felt masculine to some degree and, my masculinity has always felt like a part of my identity but I don't rlly feel masculine in like a manly traditional masculinity/ stone top kind of way like I feel more effeminate (masc w some fem traits) or at least kina fluid but I don't see a lot of fluid butches so I don't rlly know if I would be able to claim the butch label
If other butch lesbians could give their opinion or some advise that would be great bc I am so lost ðŸ˜
Anyone who says chivalry is dead has obviously never heard of stone butch lesbians
Laura palmer is so comphet lesbian coded
And James was her secret butch boyfriend
they’re literally soulmates you guys
i swear these two can't get any butchfemme-er
sometimes i’m so hard on myself but then i remember i’m a human being and i can hold myself accountable while also recognizing that i’m still growing and learning new things everyday :)
I want to look like a feminine gay man but in a lesbian way
taissa openly calling herself a lesbian as a black teenager in the 90s amongst her team means SO much to me. people today treat the word lesbian like a dirty word (which is fucking horrible but that’s another conversation) and she felt so accepted and free with the yellowjackets she had no problem making a little joke and actually USING the word ‘lesbian’. i love how the show explores the concept of a group completely secluded from the world and its prejudices as a safe space to be yourself and have a wilderness lesbian relationship
I have 0 butchfemme friends and I would love to have ppl o can talk to about lesbian stuff or just ppl i can relate too and I'm probably not the only one I would love to make a gc (probably on ig) so lesbians who don't know any other lesbians can make friends w each other
I'm 17 so this is mostly aimed at ppl 16-20
When I say I want a nerdy butch this is exactly what I mean