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Stud vs Butch: A Breakdown

Let’s talk about two terms that often get thrown around in queer spaces: stud and butch. They’re sometimes used interchangeably by those unfamiliar with their histories, but these are distinct identities, deeply rooted in culture, race, and gender. Understanding the difference isn’t just about vocabulary; it’s about respecting lineage, honouring communities, and not erasing people’s lived experiences.

✨ So, who is a stud?

The term stud originated in Black queer communities, especially among masculine lesbians. While it's often associated with African-American culture, the identity of a stud isn't limited to the US. Black Caribbean lesbians and beyond have also shaped and claimed this term in ways that reflect our own experiences of queerness, gender, and survival.

A stud is a black masculine-presenting lesbian or non-man, often (but not always) dominant in presentation or relational dynamics. Studs tend to reject femininity, embrace a masculine or androgynous energy, and navigate the world in ways that are inseparable from the realities of being Black and queer. That means you can't understand what it means to be a stud without understanding the racial, cultural, and gendered experience that forms it.

❗Who can’t be a stud?

This part’s important: white people cannot be studs. Ever.

Being a stud is more than looking masculine or having swag. It’s not just a “lesbian role” or an aesthetic. It’s a gendered and racialised identity created by and for Black lesbians, particularly those of us who’ve had to carve out space where queerness and Blackness meet. It’s embedded in our culture. When white people try to claim the term, it becomes cultural theft ... stripping the identity of the very meaning it was created to hold. The same goes for non-Black people of colour trying to co-opt it. This isn’t about exclusion; it’s about respecting where things come from, and recognising that some things are not yours to take.

💭 Okay, but what about butch?

Butch has a different history—one that comes out of mostly white lesbian and working-class queer communities, especially in the US and UK. Butch refers to masculine-presenting lesbians or non-men who don’t align with traditional femininity, often expressing themselves through clothing, mannerisms, and relationship dynamics.

Unlike “stud,” the term “butch” isn’t racially bound, though it’s important to acknowledge that it was popularised and made visible through white queer cultures. That said, plenty of Black and Caribbean lesbians do identify as butch, especially if the term feels more accurate than stud or if it speaks to a different kind of masculinity, one that isn’t tied to the cultural meanings embedded in being a stud.

Butch identity has grown more expansive over time. These days, it can include transmasc folks, gender-nonconforming lesbians, and anyone who aligns with a masculine-of-centre identity in queer spaces. Still, that doesn’t mean it’s a free-for-all ... claiming the label with awareness matters. Know its roots. Know its weight. Don’t just adopt it as a “vibe.”

✨ Why it matters

Calling yourself a stud or a butch isn’t just a fashion choice or a way to signal “top energy.” These are identities born from resistance—from the need to exist loudly and visibly in a world that told us we were too queer, too Black, too hard, too soft, too much.

If you’re white or non-Black and masculine? There are words for you. Masc, soft butch, stone butch, masc-of-centre ... hell, make your own. But you are not a stud, and claiming that word only contributes to the ongoing erasure of Black lesbians who already exist on the fringes of queer visibility. Respect isn’t just about intentions; it’s about impact. Studs and butches aren’t characters or archetypes. They are real people, with real culture, real pain, and real joy behind their labels.

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“Butch is a trickster gender—and so, in a similar way, is femme. Lesbian gender expressions do not emulate heteropatriarchy, they subvert it. Femme removes femininity from the discursive shadow of masculinity and thereby strips from it any connotation of subordination or inferiority. Butch takes markers of “masculinity” and divests them of their association with maleness or manhood. Butchness works against the gender binary—the masculine/feminine paradigm—and reclaims for women the full breadth of possibilities when it comes to gender expression.”

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Caroline Narby, “On My Butchness” (The Toast)

I thought this was so spot-on, thoughtful, and well-written.

As a queer person, specifically as a lesbian, its so comforting to just accept my queerness authentically and not have to water down my identity for other and to just be as weird about my identity as I want to be