Latest Posts by aestheticattentionwhore - Page 2
“Fuck it we ball,” I say as I lie in bed reading fanfiction for a disturbingly long time.
Show ellie is such a butch loser i love her
THE LAST OF US Season 2, Episode 4: Day One
imagine hating lesboys and he/him lesbians so bad and also having TERFs DNI in your bio 😭😭
brother take a look inside rq
I just put my hair in a ponytale and I still feel masc.
This is peak butchness
When I say I want a nerdy butch this is exactly what I mean
Reblogging so I can come back to this
becoming an adult cheat sheet!
learn to coupon
what to do when you can’t afford therapy
cleaning your bathroom
what to do when you can’t pay your bills
stress management
quick fix meals
find out if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill
resume workshop
organize your closet
how to take care of yourself when you’re sick
what you should bring to a doctor’s appointment
what’s a mortgage?
how to pick a health insurance plan
hotlines list
your first gynecology appointment
what to do if the cops pull you over
things to have in your car in case of emergency
my moving out masterpost
how to make friends as an adult (video)
how to do taxes (video)
recommended reads for surviving adulthood (video)
change a flat tire (video)
how to do laundry (video)
opening a bank account (video)
laundry cheat sheet
recipes masterpost
tricks to help you sleep more
what the fuck should you make for dinner?
where should you go for drinks?
alcohol: know your limits
easy makeup tips
find seat maps for your flight
self-defense tips
prevent hangovers
workout masterpost
how to write a check
career builder
browse careers
birth control information
financial management software & app (free)
my mental health masterpost
my college applications masterpost
how to jumpstart a car
sex ed masterpost
born to be boydyke forced to be "soft masc"
i need something really gay to happen to me soon or i’ll die
I want to look like a feminine gay man but in a lesbian way
cant dm my mutuals like a normal person so i have to think of ridiculous things to post so i can maybe get an Interaction from them passivestyle
“Butch is a trickster gender—and so, in a similar way, is femme. Lesbian gender expressions do not emulate heteropatriarchy, they subvert it. Femme removes femininity from the discursive shadow of masculinity and thereby strips from it any connotation of subordination or inferiority. Butch takes markers of “masculinity” and divests them of their association with maleness or manhood. Butchness works against the gender binary—the masculine/feminine paradigm—and reclaims for women the full breadth of possibilities when it comes to gender expression.”
—
Caroline Narby, “On My Butchness” (The Toast)
I thought this was so spot-on, thoughtful, and well-written.
sometimes i’m so hard on myself but then i remember i’m a human being and i can hold myself accountable while also recognizing that i’m still growing and learning new things everyday :)
Butches in crop tops
Butches with long hair
Punk butches
Nerdy butches
Poc butches
Big butches
Skinny butches
Cowboy butches
Androgynous butches
Vintage butches
Older butches
Baby butches
If you can't tell I love butch lesbian
i love my mutuals because we never talk but we still… like… follow each other……….. and i admire that we stick together even tho there is no communication in the slightest………u kno what i mean… hello…
i wonder if someone's ever stumbled upon my blog and was like-wow she's so cool-because i've done that to my moots more times than i've counted.
I have 0 butchfemme friends and I would love to have ppl o can talk to about lesbian stuff or just ppl i can relate too and I'm probably not the only one I would love to make a gc (probably on ig) so lesbians who don't know any other lesbians can make friends w each other
I'm 17 so this is mostly aimed at ppl 16-20
"Lwk wish Cannibalism was legal so I could eat her (out)"
- shauna Shipman probably
the thing I love the most about The Secret History is that like... so many readers fell for Richard's bullshit. Like anyone who legitimately thinks Henry is cool - no! That man didn't know about the moon landing and thought they could get away with a murder by fleeing to Argentina! He's stupid! But Richard loved him, so he wanted us all to love him too. And it worked!
This but peeta is femme and katniss Is butch
If Katniss and Peeta were lesbians they would be butchfemme.
Do we fw butches w long hair? Butches who occasionally wear makeup? Or butches who're in touch with their femininity or aren't completely hyper masc?
are we fucking with butches with anxious attachment? butches who are a little too clingy? butches that act like rescue dogs when they’re around strangers? maybe butches that act quiet and mysterious but inside they’re just really nervous around your friends?
we fucking with that?
lesbian visibility week and no butches are in my dms, what kind of world do we live in ????
This is a list of things I relate being butch with:
In primary school,being the only girl to carry the chairs even tho the teacher asked the boys to do it
Apple jack being your favorite
Cooking in a cabin in the country side
The entirety of Brokeback mountain
Getting called dyke (but instead of being upset your heart does a kick flip)
Being a horse girl growing up or loving how to train your dragon (which let's be honest is literally just a horse girl movie with dragons)
Having one specific male character that you are obsessed with and you treat him as an honorary lesbian (aka Logan from X-Men he's butch your honor)
Cooking mash potatoes
Wearing jeans and just being shirtless
Loving bears, bee's, wolves,dogs anything with sharp teeth
Fangs <3
Being the giver (even when you wish someone bought you the flowers)
Stealing dads Cologne or clothes
Late night drives
Me when I feel insecure and uncool but then i realise someone out there recognises that im serving butch loser realnes
i swear these two can't get any butchfemme-er
ME
clueless nerdy butch who’s kind of a himbo #needthat
"Cannibalism as metaphor for love" this
"Cannibalism in romance" that
Okay but what about religion tied with romance. Loving someone so much it becomes a form of worship. Being so infatuated with someone that it brings you pain because this is the first time you've believed in something more than your own god
i love when i can smell my perfume on myself like damn girl you smell delicious