idk if this is a dumb question but how do you get yourself to actually accept and allow the shift to happen? i feel like im resisting it but idk how to NOT resist it😭😭
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baby steps! what I did was give myself a goal during an attempt. my only goal is to stay present in being in my dr so instead of thinking “why haven’t I shifted yet?” or “i’m so close to shifting” I take out “shifting” entirely from my process and only think about present dr me.
this helps me to not resist the shift (or feel it really) because I have a theory that really distracting shifting symptoms are only markers of you resisting the shift, not markers of you shifting. I’ll make a tiktok about it soon.
i'm waiting til i finish the archon quest to comment on a lot of stuff but can i talk about the part where we first see childe again in fontaine?? it had me so giddyyyyy if i was lying down i would've been kicking my feet up and giggling. it's rlly cringe and gross and i hate it (please give me more??)
childe zeroes in on aether, shoving one of the guys aside to get closer to him while sounding so excited ToT he ignores the dudes he's supposed to be dealing with in favor of talking about his siblings to the guy he's literally told his family about and ae is just so ready to listen?!?!?? theyre so cute??!?!!?
like do you remember all this???? because i do!! and it's cute as all hell!!!
more than anything, childe trusts aether enough with the knowledge of his family, wants him to be able to meet them one day, despite knowing that there's a chance they'll come to blows even outside of their sparring matches.
for a guy who's very protective of his family, he sure does love talking about them with him.
im rlly redundant but i love them so so so much
Getting romanced;
⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 .𖥔˚ BITCH, YOU NEVER NEEDED TO TRY.
Like, babe… you really didn’t. You were never meant to struggle, force, overthink, or beg the universe like some desperate side character in your own story. Law of Assumption? The Void State? Subliminals? They’re not hacks—they’re reminders. Reminders that you’ve always had the power. Always.
The universe (or subconscious, whatever you believe in..) doesn’t care how you get there. It just reflects who you are being. Not what you're doing. Not what you're hoping for. It reflects what you're claiming as already yours. So when you assume it’s yours—when you step into that energy of, “Duh, of course”—reality shifts. Instantly. Effortlessly.
People think the Void is some deep meditative black hole you have to fight your way into. No, babe. The Void is you. Pure awareness. All you have to do is relax, and just know. That’s it. It’s not hard. It’s not complicated. It’s not locked behind some paywall. It’s you.
Subliminals? Gorgeous tools. But they work because you believe they do. Because you already assume the change is happening, or better yet—has already happened. Not because the frequency is magical—but because you are. That playlist you looped last night while scrolling? It’s already done. You don’t need to monitor results. You don’t need to obsess. You said it, you felt it, it’s yours. Now move on and go romanticize your life like the glowing cosmic bad bitch you are.
The Law of Assumption doesn’t mean sitting alone in your room spiraling until something changes. It means knowing—deep down, without a single doubt—that what you want is already yours. It means sipping your iced coffee like your manifestations aren’t just coming—they’re already done. You're not manifesting anymore. You're simply receiving.
And the gag is? You never had to earn it. You never had to prove yourself. You were always the version of you who has everything. The only thing that ever needed to change… was your awareness.
So no, you don’t need to try. You never needed to try. All you needed to do was know, embody, and let reality catch up.
HIII ilyysm i was just wondering some things
So im a shifter that has been trying to shift since 2021 but took a hiatus for about two years. I recently rediscovered it and feel like it's really going to happen this time. The thing is I want to reeducate myself on these topics bc ive been plagued by misinfo. Sooo if you could help a sister out and link a few things for me from ur or other ppls blogs that you think I should check it id really really appreciate it but you don't have to. I understand if you don't
Anyways tysmmmm lyly
hihi i love u too!!
I have a lot of posts i love, pls dont feel overwhelmed honestly you dont even have to read all these!! i just find them helpful <3
here are my best recs!:
"accepting the shift" by @h1ghergirl
"things i’ve learned as a shifter who has shifted both awake and asleep" by @benniefranky
"how to embody your dr self" by @livvivviss
"I know some of you are scared in the back of your mind" by @salemlunaa
"stop with the neediness" by @salemlunaa
"don't worry, your success is inevitable" by @salemlunaa
"you are more powerful than you know" by @salemlunaa
"emotions are fleeting, fact is forever" by @salemlunaa
"First the mind must change, and then the world" by @salemlunaa
"how to shift : your all-in-one guide" by @hrrtshape
"becoming the laziest manifestor & shifter" by @hrrtshape
"the anti method" by @hrrtshape
"never listen to an anti-shifter" by @hrrtshape
"stop putting pressure on shifting and loa" by @hrrtshape
"do less than nothing. get more than everything" by @hrrtshape
"How to' shift in a nutshell" by @littlemissshifter
"A shift is never physical" by @littlemissshifter
"How I shifted, and how you can too" by @saintspeils
"Reality Is Not Solid. You Are Not Stuck" by me!
"how to shift like it’s second nature" by me!
"I assumed and nothing happened" by me!
"how to shut your mind up" by me!
"Shifting is Not a Test" by me!
"How I Shift On Command + How You Can Too" by @cloverapple
"overthinking is a chronic disease" by @starsreality
"the hardest pill to swallow . . if you don’t assume, it won’t work" by @hrrtshape
"stop focusing on your senses" by @viennaswcrld
"dream self kit masterlist" by me!
"shifting help masterlist" by me!
"themed packs" by @melshifting
credits to .shiftiinx on tiktok for some of these!!
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people often see you in their dreams
youre always finding hidden/cool things (secret paths, four leaf clovers)
people always ask you to give them tarot readings and theyre always accurate
you have a unique birthmark that represents sonething about you (you can design it)
your eyes have a slight hint of an unnatural color
you have a slightly visible aura and leave a trail of it behind when you walk (glitter, perfume)
you collect strange things and everyone knows about it so theyre always getting you new ones
your (singing) voice is so beautiful it almost hypnotises people
animals always come up to you and love you
everyone is always interested in what you have to say
you always have the best stories to tell
people are always gifting you cool things
people often feel like theyre drowning in your eyes because of how beautiful they are
you always wear mis-matched/silly socks
your presence feels like a magical dream
model agencies often randomly hit you up to have you model because they find you so beautiful (even tho you arent even a model)
you make people want to create art about you like youre their muse
youre always in your own world, people always wonder what youre thinking about
you have a secret hangout that you go to when you need to be alone
you give off such a magical vibe that people often wonder if you came from a fairy tale
you always give the best, most thoughtful gifts
your lips are the shape of a heart
when random people pass you, they often glance back being so mesperized by you
your style is super original
people always pray that they get paired with you in group projects
This is is what I did the time when I was closer to shifting (I'm currently in a break, since like a week after that attempt), and it's also how many people shift.
It's actually pretty simple. I'm going to explain it in steps to make it even easier to understand, although it's not supposed to be a step by step method.
LAY DOWN AND RELAX: Breath deeply, meditate, count your heartbeats... do whatever it works for you. take a few minutes, till your mind is as calm as possible.
IMAGINE: Start imagining the exact place where you'll wake up. It's not necessary to visualise, I personally don't do it. I just imagine everything in first person as I were there. If you feel like it, try adding more and more details, like the breathing of your roomies, the texture of your clothes, etc. However, this is optional.
THINK AS YOUR DR SELF: What are you doing tomorrow? What's that thing you can't forget to do? Do you have to finish your homework? Think in first person, as you were you other self. Daily basic things. Think what s normal person would think before going to sleep.
ENJOY BEING THERE IN IMAGINATION: Once you've imagined it, you're there. So, go on, enjoy it.
That's basically all. It's not a method. You don't have to do it in order. You don't have to remember the steps. Do it naturally, enjoy the process. Do what you feel like to do.
I'm going to tell you the KEY to this.
FORGET YOU'RE TRYING TO SHIFT. Focus on the 4d (imagination) to the point you don't remember you're not there, but attempting to shift there.
And remember, it's not a step by step method (it's like the fourth time i say it i know), but more of a "do what you feel" method. So do it in the order you like the most. If you rather first start thinking as your DR self, do it. If you rather mix imaginacion and thoughts, you're free to do it. The important thing, is that you feel there, and forget you are (not) there, but you are attempting to shift to that place.
Hope this was clear enough :)
Happy shifting
ok hear me out.
you’re not trying to make it real. you’re remembering that it already is like… the version of you who has it? already exists. you’re not building her from scratch and yes at first it’ll feel weird, fake. your brain will fight back with doubts, logic, fear, but start being stubborn with your mind.
it tries to bring up doubts? ok cool, shut it down
“nope, i said it’s mine.”
“nope, i already have it.”
“nope, that’s not my story.”
you’ve been conditioned to believe the 3D is the final truth, but it’s not. it’s just a reflection of your past assumptions. so, if you’re seeing shit you don’t like, congrats it’s just old news(your past assumption).
law of assumption isn’t about lying to yourself or pretending. it’s about realizing that there are infinite versions of you and the version of you who already has your dream life? it already exist.
you don’t have to force a feeling.
you don’t have to be delulu 24/7 or journal for 3 hours or convince yourself.
just decide. decide it’s yours.
“i got into that college.”
“he’s obsessed with me.”
“i have that life.”
period.
you don’t wait to feel ready. you don’t wait for a sign.
you just be.
you’re the version of you that already has it. right now.
not later. now.
cuz if you’re the one creating your reality…then who tf is gonna stop you?
- etherepaar
⋆.˚ 𖥔˚ FUCK THIS SHIT, WANNA INDUCE THE VOID?
Listen up, you little drama queen. Wanna induce pure consciousness? Here’s the deal, you don’t need some cosmic, cryptic, mystic nonsense to figure that shit out. The void isn’t some mind-boggling, spiritual awakening you have to struggle with. It's simple. Too bad you’re making it way harder than it needs to be.
The void is simply just... You. That’s it. You’re over here drowning in your own thoughts, acting like figuring out your existence is some grand puzzle. Spoiler alert: it’s not. So stop acting like you need to crack the code, because you’re just stalling.
So how exactly do you get there? It's easy as fuck. It's not even a separate state, cause it's literally you.
𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ Step 1: Stop overthinking.
Yup, I said it. Stop fucking overthinking. You’re not some philosopher, you’re just a human with way too much going on in that brain of yours. Relax. If you’re stuck overthinking everything, guess what? You’re NOT gonna get there. So just quit it. For two seconds. Shut it down. Done.
𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ Step 2: Let go.
This is the part where you stop clutching onto stuff like it’s your last breath. The more you cling to the idea that you NEED to micromanage this entire shit, the more you’ll drive yourself into the ground. Let it go. Seriously. The moment you drop all that pressure, that’s when things fall into place. It’s not magic, it’s letting go.
𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ Step 3: Assume it works.
Here’s the thing. Don’t sit there waiting for the universe to wave some cosmic wand at you. Just assume it’s already working. Tell yourself, “Yeah, I’m in control,” “I can manifest this,” or even, “I'm already in the void bitch." Don’t overthink it. You don’t need a guidebook, you just need to believe it’s happening. Don’t sit around waiting for signs. Just decide it’s happening, and it will. It’s that simple.
𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ Why is it actually so easy?
Because you’re the one overcomplicating everything. Your brain is like a hamster on a wheel—always running, never getting anywhere. But when you just let it stop, guess what happens? You’re already there. Relax, stop being a control freak, and let it happen. The universe isn’t some game you have to figure out—it’s already giving you everything you want. You just need to stop being so dense and let it in.
𓈒ㅤׂㅤ𐙚 ࣪ ⭒ Now, here’s the real talk bitch.
Cut the crap. You don’t need some cosmic epiphany to make things happen. You don’t need a ritual. You don’t need a guru. You just need to stop acting like everything has to be so damn hard. Just stop. Stop overthinking, stop stressing, and start living like you actually know what you’re doing. The more you try to control everything, the more you’ll screw it up. It’s not a mystery. You’re overcomplicating the simplest thing in the world.
So, get with the program. The void’s been waiting for you. Don’t act like you’re too busy for it, ‘cause you’re not. You’ve got everything you need, but you’re the one stopping yourself. Knock it off, chill out, and let it come to you.
How do you get over the fear of never shifting
how to get over the fear of never shifting?
right, so you’re afraid you’ll never shift. you’re staring down the barrel of an eternal non-event, the metaphysical equivalent of a dinner party where the host never shows and you’re left nursing a warm gin and wondering why you ever put on shoes. the fear, then, is not just about shifting. it’s about stagnation, about the existential itch that nothing will ever happen to you, that you are, in the grand scheme of things, a closed-loop system with no exit ramp. it’s about the dread of being one of those people who say they want to do things and then never do them, like men who buy poetry books and never turn past the preface.
let’s establish something !!! this isn’t a you problem. this is an everyone problem. but listen. listen. that doesn’t mean nothing is happening. the want itself is movement. the yearning is proof of life.
but fear can be embarrassing. the fear is what stops you from talking about it in public. the fear is what makes you try to force it, and forcing it never works. this is a truth universally acknowledged, like how the people who tell you to “just relax” are always the ones who never have to try at anything.
so, how do you get over it? you don’t. not in the way you’re thinking.
you don’t kill it, or banish it. what you do is you turn the volume down. you remind yourself that shifting is not a limited resource, it is not an exclusive club. you reframe it, because fear, at its core, is a trick of perspective. if you treat shifting like a test you’re doomed to fail, then congratulations, you have built yourself a failure machine. if you treat it like a game, like a book you can open and step into at will, then suddenly it becomes something else entirely, something less cruel, less elusive. something possible.
and listen, i could do the whole inspirational speech thing, the "trust the process," "it happens when you least expect it," "insert comforting platitude here. you can do it, you're always doing it, bla bla bla." but that’s not what you need. what you need is this: shifting is a skill. sort of. it’s not a mystery, not some divine lottery where the lucky few get golden tickets to willy wonka's chocolate factory and the rest of us are left behind in the cold. it’s a skill, which means it can be developed, honed, mastered. and if you can accept that, then suddenly, the fear loses its fangs. it becomes background noise, static on the radio. it becomes something you can live with, something you can drown out with the sheer audacity of your wanting.
so, the next time the fear comes knocking, let it in. let it sit at your table. but do not let it drive. do not let it make the rules. because the fear, when you really break it down, is just this: a refusal to believe in your own capacity for transformation. and if there’s one thing i know about you, it’s that you’ve never been one to stay the same.
hii ! I love your acc a lot and I’ve been reading all your recent posts but I might need some advices. I know that circumstances don’t matter but it’s hard for me to shift when there’s noises and generally just stuff going on around me when I do my methods and unfortunately I can’t find a way to escape these lol. Do you perhaps have any advice on how to “ignore” these and learn to let go ?
Whatever is going on in your background, you need to incorporate it to your DR.
The constant want to "ignore" something might cause disturbances in your peaceful assumption that you're in your dr, all shifting is materializing your own dr, like how you're existing in your cr.
Someone snoring in the background? guess what, you have cows mooing in your dr now, somewhere, far far away.
If this causes some unfavorable things to manifest in your dr, then you can always reverse them when you reach your dr.