I Was A Female For 18 Years, Then I Was Genderfluid And Now I Resonate More With Just Being Nonbinary

I was a female for 18 years, then I was genderfluid and now I resonate more with just being nonbinary things are allowed to fluctuate and change, human identity and sexuality are allowed to be fluid, life is ever changing so let people choose how they identify they鈥檙e not telling you how to identify so you shouldn鈥檛 try to do that to them.

don't use "ftm" it's outdated and offensive. it implies that the trans person was their agab, which we never were. i was always a boy, never a girl who became a boy.

i'm 35 years old. i've been IDing as trans or something similar to trans for nearly 20 years. i was probably calling myself FTM while you were playing tag during recess, anon.

i WAS a girl. i IDed as a girl early in my life. i recognized myself as a girl, called myself a girl, lived as a girl, and was a girl. who then IDed as a man. hence, F t M.

spend more time worrying about yourself instead of strangers on the internet, anon.

sorry not sorry if this comes off as needlessly hostile, but i've been getting a lot of shit from a lot of teenage trans kids about the language i use to describe my own goddamn experience, and i'm growing real fuckin weary of it.

i have elder trans friends who call themselves transsexuals and transvestites and trannies. are you going to seriously go to a 60-year-old trans person who survived the reagan years and tell her she's not allowed to use certain language to describe herself because it might offend the delicate sensibilities of some teenager on the internet?

do yourself a favor and log off, find some real-life trans people who are over the age of 20 or 25, and spend time talking to them instead of getting all holier-than-thou at random strangers on tumblr.

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Theo: Why Do I Get The Feeling This Kid's Tougher Than He Looks?

Theo: Why do I get the feeling this kid's tougher than he looks?

Stiles: Only when we let him off his leash.

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1 month ago

honestly theres always been something really wrong with me but whatever

6 years ago

This is incredibly important

Farewell online privacy

1 year ago

You are the sweetest and such a delight to work with. I really hope we get to work together again. 馃挆馃挄馃挏

I Can Never Be More Thankful To The Outstanding @always-mimits For Being My Last Minute Pinch Hitter
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I can never be more thankful to the outstanding @always-mimits for being my last minute pinch hitter in this years @stacksonreversebang. I am so glad that you were able and willing to create such a perfectly sweet fic among all the other things you have going on (I don't know how you do it, darling). Thank you for being a wonderful partner and a phenomenal writer. I hope we get to work together again sometime!

Everyone bow to the SunflowerQueen and pay her the love she is due.


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2 years ago

No one had a problem with Derek kissing Erica, who is the same age as stiles, or parish and Lydia almost dating but people shipping derek with stiles is grooming. Why is it okay if it's straight but not if it's gay?

2 years ago

SIGN-UP FOR PROMPT 525: RAGE

SIGN-UP FOR PROMPT 525: RAGE

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This is scary

Hey, please stay safe

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3 years ago

I didn鈥檛 know I needed to know this but I really did. I鈥檒l have to remember this. Such useful information.

when you don鈥檛 do a warm up and go straight into lineart and your hand does the thing

When You Don鈥檛 Do A Warm Up And Go Straight Into Lineart And Your Hand Does The Thing
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SIGN-UP FOR PROMPT 545: SHOCK

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My name is Sunflower, SunflowerQueen when it comes to my art, Always_MimiTs on AO3 I'm 26 years old and I'm a shy outgoing person as weird as that might sound together. And if anyone ever needs someone to talk to I'll be here for them no matter what. :) Pronouns are they/them

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