Debnamcarey: You Tell My Husband That I Love Him. @.oliverstark

ALYCIA DEBNAM-CAREY via thepilatesclass on Instagram, May 11th 2024 for @butmakeitgayblog!

as much as i would love for you to have a break i selfishly want you to keep working, because girl i need new music. i need new jams to add to my summertime playlist. thank you! i don't think i could judge you for that. it's not the kind of movie everyone would enjoy, so i'll give it a pass. i do hope you watch this one though, if for any reason than to see me. did it?! i had no idea you were in a film. what's it called, i need to add it to my watch list asap.

i wish i would take a little break but i have been booked and busy. i can't wait for that quiet time during tour. look at you! i know you're loving that, character development is key but it'll be great. would you judge me if i admitted i've ever seen godzilla. my first movie did great and i'm very happy about it.

alycia: i told you i was a piece of shit, but i guess it's better late than never? i'm not a huge fan of watching a show of film when the hype is still be loud. it opens me up for spoilers and that's not the vibe i'm going for. we definitely support the latter because that leather? show stopping. ☺️ please continue to compliment me. i haven't had my daily dose of praise from you. but seriously, i am very proud of you. in case i don't say it enough.

jensen: wow. 84 years, glad you finally emerged from the cave, debnam-carey. i’ll take “hot” in any form — hero, anti-hero, guy-who-makes-bad-decisions-in-leather. you're hot as well, since we're complimenting each other here, i gotta be honest. appreciate you watching though, seriously. means a lot coming from you. and hey — you’re not a terrible friend. just... a very patient one.

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little black dress. 🖤

please tell me there is gonna be more of your face around hollywood once the whole outer banks hype dies down. i feel like it was such a good show to get your name out there, but you are definitely destined for greater things. do you have anything else lined up, or is that it for now? @drewxstarkeyx

you say that now. i'd happily give you time with my brother, because after a full day with his shenanigans you'd be begging to give him back. he drives me absolutely banana's most of the time, but i love him to the moon and back. i give you kudos for being able to grind in that career field. my self esteem would have been shattered. i have always been more on the curvy side. i've slimmed out a lot since i started doing pilates, but i still lean towards the more curvier side. people used to pick my body apart, but i don't dabble in gossip much and i try and avoid hearing all those things about me, so it's kept me at peace pretty much. do you plan to jump right back into work after having your little bean? or do you want to take some time off, like extended time off to be with your family? ahh, there is no need for actual fights. the little bean will have so much love surrounding them, no matter who it's from. i'll be honest i still want a big wedding. i've never been married before, so i hope that if the moment comes someday i'd love to have a big wedding. my dad is getting up in age and i know he'd love to walk his only daughter down the aisle.

i've got my fingers crossed for you! i won't lie, i wish i had had a brother sometimes. my parents only had the four girls. and i'm sure the four of us just drove our father absolutely nuts. modeling is a bit of a toss into the pond of luck. you're absolutely right, we have some of the most unrealistic standards to live up to. i lucked out if you ask me with those standards, i have always been tall and my metabolism is super fast. which works out well for the modeling career but terrible when it comes to gaining weight. which does sometimes comes as a complication with pregnancies. but it also means that i can jump right back into work almost instantly after having my little ones. you're absolutely gorgeous, though, and i'm sure you'd do just fine if you wanted to take the jump from actor to model. that they definitely do. i didn't think that i was ever going to find anyone again after Josh and now not only have i found Oliver but i have this little one to prove just how much love i was going to find. well, if i'm being honest, i think you only really have to fight with Luce, only because she's been my best friend for as long as i can remember. but i will be one hundred percent with you, darling. you don't have to get anything for me and the slice. just love, they're going to want all of it. that is so great for you, sweetie! i am so happy to hear that! it's less important to have a piece of paper than it is to have the love that you share. i found that out the hard way. don't get me wrong, i used to be the girl who always wanted to have the big wedding and enjoy marriage. but as i have gotten older and been divorced i now care so much less about it and all i want is love.

i would hope so. then again it took the longest time for me to convince my dad to get rid of his iphone 5. he was stuck to that thing like glue. this is why you are among one of the very few artist in this world who deserve to be famous. you care about everyone above the money and the ticket sales, and it definitely shows. i wish there was a way to group everyone into the same room. i know people wouldn't mind standing shoulder to shoulder for a chance to watch you perform. stop— you are so cute! to have a hug from the legend herself would cure all of my seasonal depression. that is so kind of you. i would definitely love to bring her along, and i'm sure she'd more than thankful to be anywhere. she's not a hard woman to please, even if she does hate crowds. i knew you were cool, and the fact that you love jazz and blues just cements that. i grew up on it too, mainly because of my dad, so he'd be pretty excited to know that others feel the same way. he's convinced that old school is dead, but it's very much alive, and you can see it in a lot of newer music these days. wait until he finds out you know of his band. my apologies in advance if he tries to persuade you to let them open for you. tell me about it. the 80's was such a great era, and i'm so sad i wasn't born during that time.

Thankfully, I think most of us are beyond the age of 3G in the so-called free world. It's hard to say what is and isn't happening beyond closed doors, what with the amount of NDAs that we all have to sign, but hopefully we'll turn a corner where people feel they're being treated more fairly in the ticket queue. I wish I could fit all of my little monsters into the one room, arena, stadium – whatever. !!!!! Oh my goodness, that's so exciting. Let me know if it happens and we can finally hug in person and you can let me know if the show lives up to the hype. If your mom isn't big on crowds, we can definitely make sure you're in a non-crowded area, lovely. Blues! I love it, and I love old school. A lot of people don't believe that but I grew up loving jazz, myself, although really I loved all music. Oh, Cosmic Spice? What a great name. You know, I think the '80s might have been our best era of music. I can't wait to meet him! All of them, honestly.

you have a castle? i'm jealous. i've always wanted to live in a castle. to be a princess of my own castle would be the dream. i love hearing you talk about her in such a positive light. i know she is the most loved with you and your little one, and the fact that you feel so complete now is so romantic. i think moving back to australia full time and settling down would be a full circle moment for me. i want to be able to do a lot more work back home, so i'm working real hard to get aussie media back on that map so that becomes a reality.

I don't know, you may know, you may not but Dakota and I got a castle this year. I made sure it checked every last box for her and as well me. I still getting use to it, but Im liking calling myself the lord of the manor. You might think this is very braggard of me and you are right but I swear there is a point. I grew up on the grounds of a abandoned castle with my single mom and brother, barely meeting ends meet. Now my life has come truly full circle. Beautiful and talented wife and well the most beautiful little one. Anything you've played the long game on? Whether it's a goal or something that came full circle in your life?

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maybe i should come to you the next time work gets a little scarce, because i just landed a role in a major franchise. i never thought i'd be the major film kinda gal, but here i am and i couldn't be more proud. i can understand that. i think people sort of find themselves in this job by accident, and then they realize they don't enjoy it quite as much as they do all the other aspects of show business. i definitely want to start dabbling more in the behind the scenes life as well. i've developed quite the love for that side of things. that's so cool! i'll add that to the list of things i didn't know about you. is season four going to be the very last season? like the final hooray? maybe once i get settled somewhere long term i'll think about it. things seem to be blowing up for me right now, so it would be selfish to get all of these animals with no time to spend with them.

Well, I'm keeping everything crossed for you. All it takes is one person to say the right thing to the right person and it opens up so many opportunities. I feel so much more comfortable behind the scenes, I think I became an actor by accident but writing is my wheelhouse. Directing and producing second, then basketball, then probably acting. Not many people know, because I don't talk about it, but I run my own production company. I hope you enjoy it, I really thought we were done - I think everyone on the team did - but I kept hearing from everyone, the fans, saying they wanted more and... here we are. Season 4. It's definitely a lot of hard work keeping farm animals, it's so rewarding, but it ain't easy!

ELEONORE TOULIN, LAURA HARRIER & ALYCIA DEBNAM-CAREY Photographed by Amanda Charchian for her new book "A Very Bad Man"