KISSES! Kisses for everyone!!
Spicy-brained friends, I would like to propose an update to the very useful ‘if you hate everyone, eat, if everyone hates you, sleep, and if you hate yourself, shower’ mantra to live by
Have you suddenly become a petty, hateful little gremlin who thinks people should face the firing squad for (checks notes) leaving teabags on the counter, breathing loudly, or daring to exist in the same space as you? Perhaps mundane and reasonable requests like ‘hey, we agreed to hang out now, let’s hang out’ make you want to scream and move to a yurt in the woods.
You. Are. Overstimulated.
People talk a lot about being overstimulated, and the physical/mental effects of it. What I haven’t seen is people talking about what it does emotionally, and it took me an embarassingly long time to link up those nitpicky, resentful emotions with the state of overstimulation/meltdown/shutdown.
These feelings do not mean that you’re a bad person! They probably aren’t how you actually feel about the people around you. They probably do mean that your nervous system is at its absolute limit and any request/demand/stimulus is Too Much and taking you into fight or flight territory.
Go lie down in a dark room for an hour, or find somewhere safe and familiar to stim for a bit. If it’s happening a lot, schedule yourself regular low-stimulation shutdown time
Signed: someone who moved in with their nearest and dearest only to have a massive crisis of faith about Suddenly Hating All of Them. I don’t hate them, it’s just overstimulating living with people. If I can spare anyone else a similar 9 months of suspecting that they may actually be a bit of a shit person, then this post is worth it!
How the night changes or whatever One Direction said
"My dearest friend in the world has shed a tear over you and I will not leave without satisfaction."
(Aka I am still a wreck over the Rue-Wuvvy dynamic and tragedy of sorts from episode 2-3)
((Edit: Alt text added to the image + now available as a print: here))
Someone so aptly pointed out that I forgot andhera in my onion headlines post and I already had one for him that I forgot to put in the post so now I made an extra special post just for them because they’re the specialest boy
“Everytime I laugh, I pray you’re watching. Hoping that you’ll fall for my smile just as hard as I fell for yours.”
— I Fell / Unrequited Love
No I didn’t instinctually chant, “come on provolone” when ordering a subway sandwich that would be crazy calm down
this is the best fucking show
AMFKSKKCJFGKKSKCJDNSGS
Paring: Garage band leader! Donghyuck x Retired choir member! reader
Warnings: Swearing
Genre: Fluff, Angst
Word count: 8012
It was Saturday again, the clashes of symbols and guitar strings wrapped up in a melodic harmony ringing into your ears as you woke up. It was Saturday again, and that Donghyuck kid hadn’t left your mind for a week.
happy bday @aquinoa !!!
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