Be The Creature You Want To Be

me with Legos

Trauma is not always gigahyperultra bad things that happen to people. What's traumatic to one person might not affect another person in the slightest. Trauma is individual to the person experiencing it. If you have memories of something traumatic that you have been told repeatedly can't be traumatic because its "too tame", this is your sign to start accepting that trauma

Hi! I'm nonhuman in every way. Including, but not limited to, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, physically, and biologically.

"But you know you're actually human, right?"

... no.

happy Holliday's to everyone 🫶

I felt like this was a reminder worth saying due to some stuff I see lolz

Not all transspecies people are physical nonhumans, not all physical nonhumans are holotheres, and not all holotheres are transspecies

You don't have to be one thing to be the other(s) and being one doesn't automatically make you the other(s)

You choose what labels fit you

Transspecies ≠ physical nonhuman ≠ holothere ≠ Transspecies

You don't have to transition to be transspecies

You don't have to have dysphoria to be transspecies

You can already be your -type and use transspecies

Being transspecies doesn't just mean becoming an animal

I think I'm the freaking sun (or something cosmic)

you can only reblog this today

my gender is funky, like I don't feel like there was really anything there when I was born (gender wise), but because I'm also physically not a human, my gender is like a man who doesn't know what a man is and is really trying but is still confused, just trying to fit in but sometimes I find things that make me feel really good about being a man

that's basically what manhood is to me

Wanted to draw a little more than this but now my head hurts. Shrugs. Whatever

nom munch crunch :3

do you have sensory issues and hate forks? me too!

** I did include some cultures I am not a part of, if I am spreading misinformation or anything wrong please tell me and I will correct it **

everything is under the cut :)

• this one is always a hit or miss but just use your hands !! now this obviously won't work for everyone, or for every food you eat, but it works for more things than you expect! I personally also do not care if I get messy hands while eating, but I know a lot of people do. almost all snack food I eat with my hands, of something has like bread or lettuce with what I'm eating I'll pick it up with that and eat, etc

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• chopsticks !! now I know not everyone knows how to use them or can learn how to use them but they make these things called chopstick helpers, you can get the basic plastic one or ones shaped like animals, then they are basically just an extension of your fingers. once you get used to them it becomes pretty easy to use and quite effective

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• something I recently started using is Japanese soup spoons, they have a big handle so easy to old and a bigger "basin" for food and liquid so it doesn't spill as easy as normal spoons. they come in SO MANY designs and colors they also have a BUNCH of like designs and shapes, some have a deeper or more shallow spoon part, different shaped handles, and they aren't super expensive to buy a set of them either

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• another type of spoon is a spoon from Russia! I am not entirely sure of their origin other than they are functional art pieces, from just an observing point of view they also can serve as the same function as Japanese soup spoons. I've heard a few names for them and I'm not sure which is the correct one so I'll just list what I found :') (khokhloma, lozhka, melchior, cherkassky) these also tend to be on the more pricey side. remember! they are also art and part of a culture, same with Japanese soup spoons