Fuck social norms. Embrace animal
Reblog if you think trans women:
A. Are women
B. Can be lesbians
- DNI if your blog is NSFW/ABDL or any variation/dualcom, or if you interact with such content in a way that i can see from your blog - i will block you)
this is a self indulgent post nd what works for me a lot, but i hope it can maybe help others <3
and still do
𓇼 first, try at taking a deep breath - like, a Reeeeal big one. inhale for 5 seconds - hold for 7 seconds - and exhale for 5 seconds. try to pay close attention to how it feels as the air fills your lungs and your torso stretches.
take as many deep breathes as you like.
(if youre thinking "taking deep breathes has never helped me before, this is stupid, i dont wanna do that" - thats okay, i get where youre coming from, but i really encourage you to try.)
𓇼 now you can repeat to yourself these statements:
𓆝 i didnt do anything wrong
𓆝 theres nothing to be ashamed of
𓆝 i am not hiding anything
𓆝 i am not a liar
𓆝 no one is upset with me
𓆝 there is not anything for anyone to 'find out'
𓆝 i am good
𓆝 i am trustworthy
𓆝 i am able to learn from my mistakes
𓆝 i am not in trouble
take time to mull over a statement if you find yourself stuck on it, or having trouble repeating it to yourself. let the words sit in your mind for as long as you like, then move on to the next one
if you were a loom kid did you grow up into a Kandi kid cuz same
Tiktok therians piss me off SO BAD. beacuse why did I just see someone say "well!! You can't identify as a song! that's just stupid!!" We are in the same community, we aren't supposed to judge eachother,
also shotout to songkins! You guys don't get enough attention
To folks with gender dysphoria that is so specific, no combination of HRT and surgery could give you the correct body (at least with where medical science is now).
To folks with species dysphoria, who were straight up born as the wrong thing.
To folks who can't figure out why they're dysphoric. Something doesn't fit right, but why? What would be better?
To folks who struggle with depersonalization, who know that no matter what their body looks like, or how much they like how it looks, it'll never be exactly right.
I hear you.
i think love is stored in nighttime conversations and “did you eat yet” and books left outside your door and “i waited to watch this with you” and splitting something in half to share and “im proud of you” and folded towels and “you can pick” and heads on shoulders and “you’re right, that was shitty. im sorry” and knocks on doors and “DINNER!” and stupid jokes and “hey i got this for you” and coffee made just right and… there are so many ways people say i love you silently every day over and over again if you only listen
I think I'm gonna start using this :3
I forgot to post this here but some months ago me n my friends created the term adopthing/adothing (ado(pt) · adopt + thing) which stands for "term for something you feel that belongs to you (as something adopted/offspring/child of yours) in a nonhuman way".
For example, an adopthing could be a plushie you treat as a pup of yours, like a wolf plushie. Or a doll or object you really like; even an animal or something similar.
You know when someone says that a character is “their child”? I feel like that's adopthing, but for nonhumans™.
Feel free to use this term :)
might create a flag in the future. Not decided yet.
tiktok is actually killing me
i posted a video about wanting some weird ass gear (muzzle + literal dog food) and the whole point of the video was poking fun at me being strange about what i wanted and.
there are so many comments like "um i'm a therian but this is weird :/" or "i'm a therian but like i'm NORMAL" or "i'm a therian but i don't actually think im an animal lmfao"
OHBMY GOD AHUT UP IM GOING TO START HITTING PEOPLE WITH HAMMERS. like. OH MY GOD.
i'm actually gonna TWEAK i genuinely cannot do this anymore any time someone posts about therianthropy and they're not wearing a mask or doing quadrobics or something aesthetically pleasing that doesn't imply they actually identify as an animal kintok throws them into oncoming traffic
Non-therians with a big online presence don't talk about therainthropy without doing research challenge IMPOSSIBLE???
I want to make it painfully clear that I am in no way trying to "cancel" Pukicho and frankly I'm not even that upset with this post. With that being said, I do still feel the need to acknowledge that people outside our community are still painting this picture of us just being "kids just having fun playing pretend." Which is just...so incorrect...so very incorrect.