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How many people will this piss off?

Candace Cameron Bure

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Barefoot blonde

Do I love washing dishes? No.

Do I love doing laundry? Oh fuck no.

Am I always 100% enthusiastic to pleasure my husband after a long day of cooking, cleaning and raising babies? Of course not.

But do I do it anyway? Hell yes! Because…

Do I love not having to wake up and haul my ass to work every day? Absolutely!

And do I love having my credit card bills paid every month. Yes, I do.

And I love my hair appointments and nail appointments and lunch dates.

And above all else, I love seeing the satisfied look on my husbands face when he’s fed, fucked, and relaxing in a clean home, and the adoration in his eyes when he looks at me, because I am the woman that did it all for him💕

Being a dominant is an active process, and that’s one of the reasons most men are not well-suited to it. Most men, and indeed most people are, unfortunately, lazy within their relationships. They forget to pay attention to their partners needs, desires, and wants, they forget to be present. As a dominant man that will not do.

Dominance requires you to be ever present, ever vigilant. Dominance requires you to pay exquisite attention to your submissive, to notice the changes in her attitude, her appearance, in her behavior. It requires you to not write off the little things, when doing so would be easier. It requires you to take responsibility for the success of your relationship. It also calls you to be the dreamer, to be the one who imagines a better future and who paves the way forward. The one who coaxes the best out of her and inspires her to greatness.

These are not things that are well-suited to the everyman, these are the developed skills of a leader. They require patience, humility, integrity, conviction and phenomenal communication. Men are not born with these skills, they are developed over a lifetime of dedicated study, research, and practice.