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Female masculinity and femininity in a marriage

Masculinity and femininity are imbued in men and women. Neither one is bad but can have negative and positive traits. For a woman being her masculine can help her have drive and motivation. It can strive her to do better things and work hard especially for her family. But then she gets married and if she's traditional that masculine role eventually shifts over to her husband. But there are things that happen and make women hold on to that masculine role.

Giving birth and instead of helping, your husband decides to play video games. You're struggling with the kids and instead of helping your husband continues sleep on. You need groceries but your husband needs a list and not a normal list, a list of where every single item is in the store. You need to go on a trip but you can't even leave outside of the house for a single day without everything falling apart because her husband doesn't even know your child's routine.

Incompetence. Neglectfulness. Then the expectation to be a sex machine after the day is done. Situations like these are what causes a woman to stay in her masculine and not let her husband take the lead. Why? Because he is shown that he can't lead, everything would fall apart if she wasn't there and that is terrifying

Do I love washing dishes? No.

Do I love doing laundry? Oh fuck no.

Am I always 100% enthusiastic to pleasure my husband after a long day of cooking, cleaning and raising babies? Of course not.

But do I do it anyway? Hell yes! Because…

Do I love not having to wake up and haul my ass to work every day? Absolutely!

And do I love having my credit card bills paid every month. Yes, I do.

And I love my hair appointments and nail appointments and lunch dates.

And above all else, I love seeing the satisfied look on my husbands face when he’s fed, fucked, and relaxing in a clean home, and the adoration in his eyes when he looks at me, because I am the woman that did it all for him💕

Such a simple thing.... but yet seems to be provocative these days.