Be Her SAFE Place

Be beautiful for your husband. Personally, I'm on a diet right now, and starting a new exercise regimen. Look as sexy as you did when you met him. Men are visual. Be his eye candy.

One of the sexier dresses I’ve seen that cover a good girl to this extent.

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Being a dominant is an active process, and that’s one of the reasons most men are not well-suited to it. Most men, and indeed most people are, unfortunately, lazy within their relationships. They forget to pay attention to their partners needs, desires, and wants, they forget to be present. As a dominant man that will not do.

Dominance requires you to be ever present, ever vigilant. Dominance requires you to pay exquisite attention to your submissive, to notice the changes in her attitude, her appearance, in her behavior. It requires you to not write off the little things, when doing so would be easier. It requires you to take responsibility for the success of your relationship. It also calls you to be the dreamer, to be the one who imagines a better future and who paves the way forward. The one who coaxes the best out of her and inspires her to greatness.

These are not things that are well-suited to the everyman, these are the developed skills of a leader. They require patience, humility, integrity, conviction and phenomenal communication. Men are not born with these skills, they are developed over a lifetime of dedicated study, research, and practice.

My ideal evening, making food for my friends and family.

What is Domestic Discipline?

I know it can be hard to understand at times and this entry is an attempt to clarify things a bit. Domestic Discipline is:

Using reasonable punishments with loving intentions behind them as means to correct unwanted, dangerous, or detrimental behaviors.

Being patient, understanding, and forgiving.

Respecting one another at all times, in all situations.

Putting complete trust in your spouse.

Spanking on the buttocks and/or sit spot with self-control and appropriate loving intentions behind it.

Using reasonable, rational, and sensible punishments with self-control and appropriate loving intentions behind them.

Being fair and unbiased.

Confessing your mistakes to your spouse with remorse, respect, and contrition.

Taking responsibility for your actions.

Supporting your spouse in all situations and in all aspects of the marriage.

Communicating, communicating, and communicating some more.

Apologizing for mistakes made or poor judgment used with sincerity and humbleness. 

Displaying leadership. 

Setting a good example. 

Showing admiration and affection towards your spouse. 

Using encouragement and reinforcement to build your spouses self-esteem and improve their overall behavior.