Photography by Jácint Halász
Erika Kamano
“Sadly, there is a certain necessity, a certain self-protection in silence. Statistically, bisexual women are nearly twice as likely to experience domestic violence… The trope of heterosexual men asking for three ones with their bisexual partners is an eye roll, an annoyance, but this kind of thinking, this equating bisexuality with complete sexual openness and desire to please men, possibly so they won’t leave you, can be much more serious.”
- Annie Dobson, The Bi-ble: New Testimonials, Further original narratives and essays about bisexuality
when the guy is cooking and his gf comes up behind him and gets her hands in under his shirt to run them up to his chest and kiss his neck the mood is frankly divine and the vibes are simply pristine
“Issues of shame pervade the difficulties bisexuals face in attempting to form a positive, well-integrated bisexual identity. Because an individual member of an oppressed group is frequently seen as representative of all the members of that group, a bisexual-identified person may feel a sense of shame when any bisexual person behaves in such a way as to reinforce negative stereotypes of bisexual people. Furthermore, a bisexual individual may feel a profound sense of shame when her own behavior happens to mirror one of the existing stereotypes… Individuals in such situations may feel that they are in some way betraying their entire identity group. Although some bisexual people do behave in ways that conform to negative stereotypes about bisexuals, it is actually the dynamics of prejudice that cause others to use such actions to justify their stereotyping and prejudicial behavior.”
- Robyn Ochs, Bisexuality: The Psychology and Politics of an Invisible Minority
“I am married and monogamous. Not much of a bisexual you say. Yet my bisexuality influences my perception and my decisions. More than having sexual relations with both genders, bisexuality is a mind frame, a reference point from which to view the world. Being bisexual has more to do with potential than actuality.”
- Amanda Yoshizaki, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out
“The person who believes (that there is no such thing as a distinct bisexual identity) does not deny the reality of bisexual experiences or feelings, but rather denies them any meaning by locating them as a temporary aberration in an otherwise heterosexual or homosexual individual.”
- Amanda Udis-Kessler, Bisexual Horizons: Politics, Histories, Lives