Ariel Rebel and Nikita Bellucci
“As bisexuals we have to create a safe supportive atmosphere in our lives. We have to sometimes ask for it from people we don’t know, and yes, demand it from people who love and respect us. How can we feel secure or have self-respect if we are closeted from our friends and allies? How else do we change the stereotypes and the media image? How else do we get the respect we deserve if we are hiding from it? What does our community look like? We are the ones who must define it.”
- Loraine Hutchins and Lani Ka’ahumanu, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out
Cuddling up under a blanket while watching a movie with friends…sliding a hand up your thigh, resting it between your legs. I can feel you getting hard...your breath is getting quicker...but we have to keep this a secret.
Can you cum if I squeeze it enough? If I stroke it nice and slow?
Do you think you can stifle all your little noises so nobody can tell I'm playing with you?
“Nothing needed to matter, whether I was straight or lesbian, masculine or feminine, butch or femme, because I was none of it. The point was to remain in that state of realizing that I was none of it and would never have to be.”
- Chandini Goswami, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out
it's funny how tops/doms are viewed as insatiable forces of lust when it's so obvious that that actually describes most bottoms way better than most tops
“Many of us feel threatened when the categories we believe in are challenged, especially if they shape our sense of who we are. Not only do bisexuals contradict a primary set of cultural categories - our culture calls us “decadent” because we refuse to play by the rules, thereby undermining the social “order” - but we challenge many people’s personal sense of what constitutes sexual identity. Whether we threaten by introducing a third category or by undermining the notion of categories altogether, we cause enough discomfort that many people deny our existence.”
- Lisa Orlando, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out