YOUR POWER

In the natal chart, your idea of power and authority is found in Pluto and Saturn. Pluto often showcases the secret power and potential you possess. Saturn is the planet that gives that power an applicable and effective goal that leads to authority, a controlled way of using that power. Mars in the natal chart shows how you can access your potential power.

Your Secret Power

Pluto in the 1st: Your secret power is found through your self-expression. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who act similarly to you.

Pluto in the 2nd: Your secret power is found through your security. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by those who are highly valued and secure in themselves.

Pluto in the 3rd: Your secret power is found through your thoughts. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by intelligent and smart people who are confident in their words.

Pluto in the 4th: Your secret power is found through your past. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by the people in your past or a parent strongly affected your upbringing.

Pluto in the 5th: Your secret power is found through your creativity. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who are talented who aren’t afraid to express themselves.

Pluto in the 6th: Your secret power is found through your control of your conscious circumstances. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who enhance their daily lives through productivity and mindful living.

Pluto in the 7th: Your secret power is found through your one-on-one interactions. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who have a special awareness and ease with individual social interactions.

Pluto in the 8th: Your secret power is found through the self you choose to hide. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who wholly accept their positive and negative traits.

Pluto in the 9th: Your secret power is found through your evaluation of the world. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who are open-minded and cultured in the workings of the world.

Pluto in the 10th: Your secret power is found through your reputation and ambitions. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who have a strong reputation and have achieved their goals.

Pluto in the 11th: Your secret power is found through your group interactions. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who have a special awareness and ease with group social interactions.

Pluto in the 12th: Your secret power is found in your subconscious. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people in touch with their inner self who use their secret characteristics to show compassion and help others.

Applying Your Power

Saturn in the 1st: You ideally want to apply your power to yourself so that you can gain control and authority over your self-expression.

Saturn in the 2nd: You ideally want to apply your power to your security so that you can gain control and authority over your worth.

Saturn in the 3rd: You ideally want to apply your power to your mind so that you can gain control and authority over your words.

Saturn in the 4th: You ideally want to apply your power to your past and upbringing so that you can gain control and authority over your roots.

Saturn in the 5th: You ideally want to apply your power to your creativity so that you can gain control and authority over your talent.

Saturn in the 6th: You ideally want to apply your power to your circumstances so that you can gain control and authority over your everyday life.

Saturn in the 7th: You ideally want to apply your power to your one-on-one interactions so that you can gain control and authority over your relationships.

Saturn in the 8th: You ideally want to apply your power to your secret self so that you can gain control and authority over your privacy.

Saturn in the 9th: You ideally want to apply your power to your world view so that you can gain control and authority over your beliefs.

Saturn in the 10th: You ideally want to apply your power to your goals so that you can gain control and authority over your ambitions.

Saturn in the 11th: You ideally want to apply your power to your community so that you can gain control and authority over your group presence.

Saturn in the 12th: You ideally want to apply your power to your subconscious so that you can gain control and authority over what you’re not aware of.

Finding Your Power

Mars in the 1st: You can access your power by finding a way to express yourself.

Mars in the 2nd: You can access your power by finding a way to be secure with yourself.

Mars in the 3rd: You can access your power by finding a way to talk and communicate.

Mars in the 4th: You can access your power by finding a way to establish your foundation.

Mars in the 5th: You can access your power by finding a way to express your creativity and fun.

Mars in the 6th: You can access your power by finding a way to control your everyday life.

Mars in the 7th: You can access your power by finding a way to keep valuable one-on-one relationships.

Mars in the 8th: You can access your power by finding a way to access your secret self.

Mars in the 9th: You can access your power by finding a way to learn about the world.

Mars in the 10th: You can access your power by finding a way to establish your goals.

Mars in the 11th: You can access your power by finding a way to create a presence in the community.

Mars in the 12th: You can access your power by finding a way to understand your subconscious.

Example: Pluto in the 5th, Saturn in the 3rd, Mars in the 2nd. Your secret power is found through your creativity. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who are talented who aren’t afraid to express themselves. You ideally want to apply your power to your mind so that you can gain control and authority over your words. You can access your power by finding a way to be secure with yourself.

THIS MESSAGE IS FOR :

- 12H Placements,

- Pisces Venus ,

- Venus-Neptune

- Neptune in the 7H & 8H

- Neptune in the 2H

Explanation Below ⬇️

With the placements listed above, oddly enough If you feel bad for your potential person you probably shouldn’t be dating them. Alot of people use sympathy as a way to manipulate you. People can sense your willingness to give & your savior complex.They WILL take full advantage of that.

This goes for any type of relationship You need boundries AND discernment with these placements because you attract alot of different ppl and some do have ulterior motives. Save that grace and compassion for yourself & ppl that deserve it. The more you let these types of people in the more it becomes self sabotage. Your self worth & ability to be loved shouldn’t be dependent on your ability to give to others.

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boundaries1st

5 months ago

REQUESTED FROM @melodxii

Reminder: none of these notes are of my own, I copied these down from researches on the internet,Tumblr,Twitter posts to learn more about them so please don't accuse Me of copying content. I just noted them down to study them better.

And @melodxii I was In a hurry while writing these notes down so pardon the bad handwriting.ill share more with you later.❤🫂

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boundaries1st

4 months ago

VENUS IN THE SIGNS

find what your sign in venus is here

venus is known for being the planet of love and beauty. please ignore this if you’re aromantic because this may not apply to you.

venus in aries: when you’re in love you’re very straight forward and that can be a little bit overwhelming for some people. you’re extremely loyal and dedicated to your partners. you know the kind of love you want and you go after it. you may take on the “masculine role” in a relationship. when you see an opportunity you go after it. you need love and you’re always putting yourself out there. people with a venus in aries tend to either go through many relationships or none at all. you look for someone that’s spontaneous and has a good sense of humor.

venus in taurus: much like aries, you’re dedicated and know what you want in a relationship. you’re extremely attractive and desirable. you enjoy cuddles and snuggling up to your partner. you want to hold someone and be held. when you’re in a relationship, you usually date for a very long time. this may cause you to be in unhealthy relationships because you may feel as if you can make any relationship work. when you fall in love, you love someone for a long time. you’re not the type to date many people in a short period of time. when you break up with someone you’re either missing who you were dating or you’re going to stay single for a very long time. you look for someone who’s stable, but you’re very open minded in who you’re looking for.

venus in gemini: when you’re in love, it’s very contradicting. one part of you wants to give yourself to your partner, but the other part of you wants to be single. you’re not the type of person to be sad when you’re single, you’ll most likely go out and have sex and you’re naturally very charming, flirtatious and care free, but when you’re in a relationship, you start questioning if this is what you really want. you have a tendency to question yourself if you’re really in love. many falsely consider people with a venus in gemini to be cheaters. you’re not a cheater, but if someone is betraying you, you’ll most likely go off and have sex with somebody else. much like an aries venus, you look for someone who’s spontaneous and has a good sense of humor. you need communication and if you’re not communicating with who you’re in a relationship with, you’re not happy. you want excitement and to do different things with your partner and you’re good at convincing people to be the person you want in a relationship.

venus in cancer: you just want to make someone else feel loved and you want to be loved. you don’t fall in love easily. you like to take things slow and steady and you don’t rush into things. you are very generous and you’re known for doing things for other people such as making them food, cleaning their house, washing the dishes, ect. you take on the “motherly role”. you’re 100% marriage material and you look for someone who you can come home to. you want stability and someone who will support you.

venus in leo: much like an aries venus you come off a little strong and that may frighten some people away. when you’re in love you’re extremely affectionate, but you expect the same from your partner. you want somebody that you can show off. you’re very attractive and have an amazing and royal-like aura. extravagant dates and gestures are something that you need. you want a dramatic romance and someone who meets your ideals in a partner. you don’t want someone who is plain and boring, you want someone who’s special and exciting. you want something in them that not a lot of people can say that they have in a partner.

venus in virgo: you know exactly what you want in a relationship. if someone has a quality that you can’t live with, then they are out although, you’re also extremely forgiving. possibly a little too forgiving. you’re picky when it comes to down to finding someone that you love, but if they don’t fit ideals then you will find a way to live with it as long as they don’t have a terrible flaw. you have a tendency to over-analyze who you want in a relationship, but once you find someone who is right for you, that’s all that you need. you wouldn’t give up someone who you truly love for anything. you want someone who you can care for and someone who will care for you, but if they don’t return the favor, neither will you.

venus in libra: when your intuition tells you that you want somebody, you go after them. you’re extremely flirtations and you’ll communicate with the person you have feelings for. you see the good in others. most people break up with someone if there is a bad quality in the person they were seeing, but if you find someone who has a bad quality, you will give them another chance because you see the good in people. you believe that deep down, everybody’s intentions are good. if you see someone being sad after a break up, you will show them love. your goal is to make sure that everybody feels good again to make sure that they’re feeling happy again. you have a tendency to fall for the wrong type of people because you want everyone and everything to be balanced. the only way you’ll ever find peace, is once everything is balanced out.

venus in scorpio: you’re attractive to so many people and everybody likes you. most people want to date you and maybe even have sex with you. people can easily become completely obsessed with you because of your attractiveness. your aura is extremely sexual. you’re very careful who you love, but sometimes you may even fall for the wrong type of people. normally, you don’t just want to have sex with anybody, you want somebody who you care for and who you connect to. you want someone who you can deeply connect to and most of the time, if someone connects with someone who you deeply love, you’ll go to a far extent to try to end their connection. you get jealous extremely easily. you really want peace and complete happiness in a relationship. you want someone who’ll be loyal to you no matter what.

venus in sagittarius: you’re adventurous and it’s unlikely for you to have only one partner your entire life. you’re not clingy and you can’t handle someone who is. you need someone who is adventurous and has dreams as big as yours are. you also look for someone who is intelligent, witty and has a good sense of humor. you want someone who will share their knowledge with you. you are often falsely considered a cheater, but what most people don’t know is that you’re extremely loyal if you find someone who meets your standards. it’s just that you fall in love very easily, but you fall out of love just as easy.

venus in capricorn: in the past you may have had your heart broken a lot and this is why you don’t like falling in love so, you put your walls up. love is always going to be difficult for you, but you need to find love. you may marry someone too quickly or take too long to marry. you’re attracted to someone with power, successful, strong and can take charge of things themselves. you need someone who has the same desires as you do. this makes you fall for the wrong type of people. you’re very loyal and careful when you’re falling in love. you try to please your partner and you’re extremely caring towards them.

venus in aquarius: you’re extremely individualistic when it comes to love. you hate everything about how love is “supposed” to be. it’s unlikely that a venus in aquarius will ever marry because you need to be independent, but it’s extremely likely that you’ll be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t come from the same background as you. that person may be a different race or a different religion, ect. you may even date someone who is extremely older or younger than you. you want to date someone who’s quirky, awkward, strange and extremely open. you don’t want to date someone who everyone else wants to date and it’s very likely that you’ll date someone who doesn’t fit in. you may date a lot of different people in a short amount of time and you’re known for being extremely flighty.

venus in pisces: you easily fall in love and you have strong feelings, even in the first part of a relationship. not that you’re the type to care about looks, but if someone is beautiful and gorgeous you’ll fall in love so deeply in love with them. you’re a hopeless romantic and you want a love story like in a fairy tail. you may have a tendency of lying to get someone to like you. sometimes you may even fall in love with someone else while you’re dating someone, but normally, you’re not a liar or a cheater. if a relationship just isn’t working for you then you will end it instantly, but since you’re forgiving then you may come back to that person. once you find that one person who fits your ideals, you will stick by them for the rest of your life. even if they betray you, you’re so forgiving and you’ll love them forever.

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3 months ago

Mercury’s Prophets🐍🪽

gemini & virgo

love, mythology, astrology observations✨

🌬️Mercury in the 1st house, 3rd house, 6th house,

🌬️Sun-Mercury Aspects, Jupiter-Mercury aspects

🌬️Gemini Sun, Ascendant, Rising, Venus, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Gemini Stellium

🌬️Virgo Sun, Ascendant, Venus, Mercury, Mars, Jupier, Stellium

🌬️Jupiter in the 3rd house, Jupiter in Gemini, 6th house

🌬️Mercury Dominant, 3rd House Stellium, 6th House Stellium

“She leapt from the Earth. The free winds of the skies coursed beneath her golden wings as she raced for the clouds… the burden of her omniscience left behind. Nothing but silence above the heavens.”

Fascinating mythological history below! Please do not steal any of my original writing.

Voice of the Gods,

Soaring high above, with Godly knowledge ever-expanding… you are a magnificent being, Mercurian.

Gifted with wings to be free of the Earth 🌍 , one might confuse you for an angel.

However, Mercury blesses you with these wings to be a divine messenger, a literal VOICE of the Gods. ✨.

A prophet of sorts if you will. 💁🏾‍♀️

This energy makes you quite attractive, blessing you with divine looks and energy that is welcomed in any room.

When you speak, everyone listens. (Esp. 3rd house). This is a gift and a curse, of course, but it it still very powerful.

People can spot a Mercurian a mile away with your extensive knowledge and mallefluous way of speaking. You have a silver tongue. You could sell water to a fish in the middle of the ocean. (Pisces, I'm talking about you lol. Stop being gullible!).

The words you say leave a lasting impression and can cut someone deep to their core negatively, while also you could bless them greatly with your insightful knowledge and advice! (Because duh, Duality.💁🏾‍♀️)

You are always balancing two halves of yourself. Gemini of Air and Virgo of the Earth.

At your core, you’re both here to make connections and say what needs to be said!

With your planetary ruler being the fastest orbiting planet in our galaxy, you are always in constant, fast motion.

Ideas.. thoughts.. feelings… are always racing through the mind of a Mercurial being. Most are gifted with a natural claircognizance “clear knowing”, which can look different depending on the placement.

Why is this?

Mercury (Hermes to the Greeks, Thoth to the Ancient Egyptians) rules over commerce, communication, short travels, boundaries, intelligence, trickery, and thievery! 👀 LOL

GEMINI or the 3rd house apply these gifts in their natural settings: to the mind, communication, social activity, siblings (twins).

VIRGO or the 6th house on the other hand apply these gifts to their everyday routines and relationships. Less talking and more analysis & servitude. (The maiden).

The Duality of Mercury

Virgo vs. Gemini

Mercury was the messenger of the Gods. He was essential to the communication and diplomacy between the realms. Each one trusted him. So, of course he knew them all well... and their dirty laundry.

🐍 Is it no wonder why they seem to know just about everybody and everybody’s business? Do not deny it, Virgo. LOL👀

Although they held more power individually, Mercury held the power of being their collective voice! (Also rules oration) They entrusted him with how and what was said on their behalf… often being a literal translator. (Powerful!)

This is similar to situations many Geminis and Virgos find themselves in. Many will come to you for advice and insert you into their dealings.👀 (As the middleman.)

Geminis on a social level and Virgos often within the family and relationships.

The Gods' divine trust came with plenty of gifts, which you’ll also find true of lovers in this lifetime. People value you and your gifts, which gives you purpose. (A virgo's dream.)

The most significant gift given to Mercury, was perhaps his trademark wand or staff... known as

"The Caduceus"

Per the mythology, the caduceus was gifted to him by the Sun God, Apollo. A magical olive branch staff with two serpents intertwining around its base.

They say if it touched the dying, it blessed them with a gentle death. However, when applied to the deceased… they would literally return to life. (DUALITY!)

I like to believe these two snakes themselves are yet another symbol of Mercury’s duality.

One is good and the other bad. One yin. Other yang. One Virgo and One Gemini👀

🐍Mercury was also known as the trickster God or God of thievery!

This is essential to note because I have a theory (possibly far-fetched, but makes so much sense) that this may have a connection to a certain Garden of Eden… where a certain serpent spoke to a certain woman and convinced her to eat the fruit of …. KNOWLEDGE. 🤯

They say that before the caduceus had it's powers, it was just a branch. Mercury was stuck in servitude to the God's.

But…what if… Mercury being the trickster God convinced the maiden (virgo) to bite of the the fruit of knowledge in the forbidden garden and gained a portion of the powers of Mercury that he did not want.

If Virgo took on the need to serve, then Mercury would be free to frolick the realms with his tricks and thievery. He was also remarked as a habitual line-stepper, or boundary-crosser. (This is unevolved Gemini energy all the way)

This really gets deep when you realize that Virgo's sister sign Pisces (whom in my Neptune post, I compared to Persephone) bit of the fruit of Hades in the same curious fashion and was in more or less words cursed!

This does not mean that being of service is a curse in any way, but honestly, the mythology behind this dual planet is fascinating.

I think Virgo actually bossed her side of the energy up to the max. She is the earthy incarnation of her own genius, often never showing just how intelligent she really is... so as not to reveal her cards.

Virgo can bring her wildest ideas to fruition within the Earthy realm! (After it's perfected to her liking of course.) A gift!

However, Virgo can also have some trickery within her nature… often appearing or putting on a more innocent act than she really is.

But, with Mercurian energy there is always the possibility for their beautiful thoughts to come out a bit... wrong.

This brings me to a very important note.

🐍Please beware of false gossip.

It’s inevitable honestly, as people can’t help but give knowledge to a heavenly messenger.

However, with the optional tongue of a serpent… be mindful of the power you possess Mercurians! (Think: Parsel-tongue in Harry Potter Universe.) It’s nothing to play with because here in this Earthly realm, Saturn is dominant and it is the ruler of Karma.

You are a divine PROPHET (or Prophetess). Please handle your energy as such. 🫶🏾

Mercurial Love Bites🐍✨

In love, they’ll have many admirers in several dimensions.

🐍I imagine a Gemini Mercurian as a sapiosexual, playboy of sorts. You’ll have your choosing of many lovers and will probably choose none… in search of new lands and ideas to learn and add to your beautiful collection.

You'll have an array of different tastes (in the bedroom as well) and will share passion with many, as you are a master of tricks.

🐍 It’s hard to lockdown a Godly intelligent being with the ability to fly away at a moments notice.

Many an earthly sign lover and watery soul will long for you and you will spin whimsical circles around them with ease, for you are too quick to catch.

Nothing too heavy or emotional, you must keep it light for this winged beauty or she’ll float away…

But, I do have to ask…my beautiful Geminis, 3rd housers if it ever gets tiresome to always be on the go?

Connecting too much to your air and neglecting your earthly connections through Mercury could leave you afloat for all eternity… alone. (This can of course be counter-acted with other placements in the natal chart.)

🐍Virgo Mercurians on the other hand are much more Earthy with their approach to love. This is the person who has thought very intricately about what the lover of their life will look like, smell like, and even their speech cadence. She eagerly awaits to be a perfect wife, organizing the home, teaching the children, etc.

Many will try to win her, as her innocent.. maiden-like energy is very attractive. While she may appear innocent, she is not naive! All of her daily beauty routines, outfit curations, and perfected speech will not be wasted on just any man.

The Virgo's analytical eyes has surveyed many a suitor who tried to win her heart. She is looking for the perfect man. The one whom she can serve and assist while being provided for in return.

Better believe, if she chose you.. you have checked all of her boxes. For, she wants an Earthly promise...(AKA, Where's the money? If you ask me, the perfect suitor is perhaps a Capricorn or Taurus dominant. ) But, my Virgo queens... do not neglect your airy influences of Mercury as well. Life can be more rewarding than the material world.

This was a bit longer than i intended! But, I have never seen an in depth explanation of these dual energies of Mercury!

Thank you for reading! Wishing you blessings! 🪽✨

Neptune Observation♓️✨

Pluto Observation ♏️✨

Other planets coming soon!

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boundaries1st

4 months ago

WHAT’S YOUR PERSONALITY?

I am SUN, and MOON is what makes me feel emotionally happy, but I express myself in MERCURY way. When it comes to love, I will be VENUS, but when I get angry, I become MARS. Though people see me as RISING.

Life systematically challenges me to SATURN. My sense of humour is JUPITER. I’m URANUS when it comes to changes and I have the imagination of NEPTUNE. My secret energy and individual powers are aimed at PLUTO.

Oh, and not to forget, I’ll be absolutely successful as MIDHEAVEN.

My deepest inner self can be compared to DOMINANT PLANET/DOMINANT SIGN.

SUN:

Aries: A REBEL Taurus: A GUARDIAN Gemini: A MASTERMIND Cancer: A ROMANTIC Leo: A RINGLEADER Virgo: A HEALER Libra: AN ARTIST Scorpio: AN ENIGMA Sagittarius: A WANDERER Capricorn: AN OWNER Aquarius: AN INNOVATOR Pisces: A DREAMER

MOON:

Aries: CHALLENGES Taurus: STABILITY Gemini: COMMUNICATION Cancer: CARE Leo: PRAISES Virgo: SECURITY Libra: INDIVIDUALITY Scorpio: POWER Sagittarius: EXPERIENCES Capricorn: AUTHENTICITY Aquarius: FRIENDSHIP Pisces: ART

MERCURY:

Aries: A DIRECT Taurus: A PRACTICAL Gemini: A LIGHTHEARTED Cancer: A SENTIMENTAL Leo: A DRAMATIC Virgo: AN IMPATIENT Libra: A TACTFUL Scorpio: A PIERCING Sagittarius: A PLAYFUL Capricorn: A CONCISE Aquarius: A LOGICAL Pisces: A VAGUE

VENUS:

Aries: PASSIONATE Taurus: RELIABLE Gemini: REASONABLE Cancer: NURTURING Leo: GENEROUS Virgo: HELPFUL Libra: THOUGHTFUL Scorpio: INTENSE Sagittarius: FLIRTATIOUS Capricorn: PROTECTIVE Aquarius: INTRIGUING Pisces: COMPASSIONATE

MARS:

Aries: AGGRESSIVE Taurus: STUBBORN Gemini: DESTRUCTIVE Cancer: NASTY Leo: LOUD Virgo: DISTANT Libra: CRITICAL Scorpio: VENGEFUL Sagittarius: INDIFFERENT Capricorn: VIOLENT Aquarius: SARCASTIC Pisces: SELFISH

RISING:

Aries: THE FIGHTER Taurus: THE MASTER Gemini: THE CHARMER Cancer: THE HELPER Leo: THE INDIVIDUALIST Virgo: THE PEDANT Libra: THE AESTHETE Scorpio: THE SCEPTIC Sagittarius: THE COMEDIAN Capricorn: THE VINTAGE SOUL Aquarius: THE ADVISER Pisces: THE ANGEL

SATURN:

Aries: BE TOLERANT Taurus: LOSE WHAT I LOVE MOST Gemini: MAKE QUICK DECISIONS Cancer: FACE LONELINESS Leo: SACRIFICE MY DIGNITY Virgo: DEAL WITH DISASTERS Libra: FIGHT Scorpio: CONTROL MY INSTINCTS Sagittarius: BE STUCK IN A RUT Capricorn: FACE FAILURE Aquarius: BLEND IN Pisces: FACE OVERWHELMING STRESS

JUPITER:

Aries: TEASING Taurus: GROSS Gemini: BONDING-IN-THE-MOMENT Cancer: PARODIC Leo: HYPERBOLIC Virgo: DARK Libra: IRONIC Scorpio: DRY Sagittarius: ANECDOTAL Capricorn: SELF-DEPRECATING Aquarius: WITTY Pisces: QUIRKY CULTURAL

URANUS:

Aries: ENTHUSIASTIC Taurus: CAUTIOUS Gemini: FLEXIBLE Cancer: IMPATIENT Leo: PUSHY Virgo: PASSIVE Libra: CURIOUS Scorpio: DISTRUSTING Sagittarius: ECCENTRIC Capricorn: ANXIOUS Aquarius: IMPASSIONED Pisces: UNPREDICTABLE

NEPTUNE:

Aries: A MADCAP Taurus: A STRATEGIST Gemini: A SCHIZOPHRENE Cancer: A CHILD Leo: A POET Virgo: A SHAMAN Libra: A DAYDREAMER Scorpio: A MANIAC Sagittarius: AN IDEALIST Capricorn: AN OCCULTIST Aquarius: A VISIONARY Pisces: A PROPHET

PLUTO:

Aries: SEXUALITY Taurus: IMPROVEMENTS Gemini: INTELLECTUALITY Cancer: EMOTIONAL INTENSITY Leo: DOMINATION Virgo: OBSESSIONS Libra: RELIGION Scorpio: BLACK MAGIC Sagittarius: EXPLORATIONS Capricorn: AMBITIONS Aquarius: MANIPULATION Pisces: INTUITION

MIDHEAVEN:

Aries: AN ATHLETE Taurus: AN ARCHITECT Gemini: A TEACHER/PROFESSOR Cancer: A WRITER/POET Leo: AN ACTOR/A FILM DIRECTOR Virgo: A DOCTOR Libra: A DISIGNER Scorpio: A PSYCHOLOGIST Sagittarius: A POLITICIAN Capricorn: A LAWYER/JUDGE Aquarius: A SCIENTIST Pisces: A MUSICIAN

DOMINANT PLANET:

Sun (Solarian): A MAJESTIC Moon (Lunarian): A TENDER Mercury (Mercurian): A FATAL Venus (Venusian): A FASCINATING Mars (Martian): A POWERFUL Jupiterian (Jupiter): A CHAOTIC Saturn (Saturnian): AN ANCIENT Uranus (Uranian): AN IRREPRESSIBLE Neptune (Neptunian): A WAVERING Pluto (Plutonian): A MYSTICAL

DOMINANT SIGN:

Aries: LIGHTNING Taurus: FOREST Gemini: NORTHERN LIGHT Cancer: SEA Leo: HEAT Virgo: FOG Libra: RAINBOW Scorpio: TSUNAMI Sagittarius: WILDFIRE Capricorn: VOLCANO Aquarius: STORM Pisces: MARSH

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boundaries1st

3 months ago

Why You Should Always Use Your Best Now Instead of Saving it for Later

🌹 Because you deserve to feel your best every day, not just on occasions.

🌹 Because "later" rarely comes.

🌹 Because you're just wasting your own money if you buy some high-quality makeup or skincare products just for them to expire barely used because you wanted to save them for an occasion.

🌹 Because life is unpredictable. What if a guest drops by unexpectedly and you're eating from a chipped plate or a tupperware container? What if you see your ex, or your crush, or meet the love of your life, or see your boss, or see someone who was mean to you in school, and you're wearing a worn-out hoodie and sweatpants with a hole? Many of us would feel self-conscious if something like that happened, but it can be avoided if you wear nice clothes and use your good china instead of keeping it hidden away for some possible future special event.

🌹 Because what's the point in having beautiful floral china, just for it to gather dust while you eat off of chipped plates and mismatched mugs? What's the point in owning silk blouses and cashmere jumpers, just for them to stay in your closet for months or years while you wear ratty t-shirts and sweatpants? What's the point in buying high quality makeup, just for it to spoil while you wear cheap stuff that's hard to put on and makes your face look cakey? Why own beautiful belongings just for them to never see the light of day?

🌹 Because using your best every day will show that you genuinely live well, instead of coming across as a phony when you meet the Joneses.

🌹 Because it's sad, after someone passes away, to see their fancy china, beautiful clothes, and other treasures in storage, rarely or never used, always waiting for an occasion that never came. If you won't use your best, who will? Life is short.

🌹 Because using your best everyday doesn't have to mean that special occasions will feel less special. Instead of only bringing out the good dinnerware for guests, use it everyday, but make occasions feel different with a spectacular floral arrangement, or with classical music on in the background instead of the TV. Wear your good foundation and mascara everyday, but wear a bolder makeup look for an event.

🌹 Because people's tastes change throughout the years. What if you buy something, keep it for later, and by the time later comes, you don't like it at all anymore?

🌹 Because special occasions still feel special even when you don’t use your best for them.

🌹 Because using beautiful items instead of settling for mediocrity elevates a normal day from feeling mundane to feeling decadent and luxurious.

Wear your good makeup. Wear your chic clothes. Put on your good skincare products. Doodle in your pretty notebooks. Burn your fancy candles. Spray your expensive perfume. Drink the expensive gifted wine. Eat the gourmet chocolates. Live in the now, not the uncertain future. Honour yourself by allowing yourself to use these special treasures.

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boundaries1st

3 months ago

8th ruler in 10th ~ "They prefer to work on their own or have a leadership position", like how did u know that XD ~

Rulers of the 8th in the houses

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 1st👥

They may find it difficult to show their emotions, and it may be difficult for them to accept their emotional side. The natives are very carried away by their emotions even if they pretend not to. It is very likely that your early environment was somewhat tense and somewhat conflictual, especially if the ruler is Mars or is afflicted by Mars. They are people who may have experienced very tense situations either physically, emotionally or psychologically. Individuals with this placement tend to have a very high sex appeal, likewise, they have a very high sex drive. Sex can be very important to them. They are people who are very in touch with their dark side, they are not ashamed of it, on the contrary, they accept it and try to include it little by little in their life. (Unless the ruler is the Sun).

These people can have a highly developed sixth sense, a very acute intuition and, if the ruler is the Moon or is well integrated in the chart, the native could develop psychic abilities or learn about esoteric subjects, such as the tarot. The native is a very reserved, observant person and is guided mainly by his intuition. They have a very sharp perception and can appear to be quieter than they really are. Death is a very important issue for them. They can directly fear the idea of dying (especially if they have Retrograde Pluto) or on the contrary, they could see it as something normal. Natives with this placement can be quite extreme, they can love you with great intensity, but they can also hate you with the same intensity. For them there is no "maybe", it is a "yes" or a "no". Throughout their lives they will experience many "rebirths". Life guides them through a path full of changes in which the lessons are the reward. These natives are often involved in tense situations and in which they must act decisively.

These people can be very in contact with their spiritual side and are usually very devoted to whatever their belief is. Their sexual style is passionate, fiery, spontaneous and it is definitely something very important to them. They may like topics like domination, hair pulling or role playing. They are able to "read people", to read their intentions, motivations, fears and aspirations. Their excellent ability to really pay attention to someone is impressive, they are excellent listeners and have excellent memories. They are people who do not talk much about their private life, they like to go unnoticed and the more people know about them, the safer they will feel. These natives may have a hard time letting go, they are people who do not forgive or forget easily. Betrayal is a very serious matter for them and they don't let it be overlooked. People can easily become obsessed with them and they can attract a lot of envious people into their lives. In the same way, they attract people who admire and respect them a lot. They also have a certain charm and an evident attractiveness (Marylin Monroe had this placement).

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 2nd👥

Something that these natives hates is owing money and much more, that others owe them money. They tend to handle their money very well and be responsible for their purchases. These people may have an interest in psychology and a natural ability to make people feel comfortable enough to talk about their emotional problems. Dressing well, shopping, brand new things, eating / cooking / buying food are things that tend to lift their spirits when they feel bad about themselves. They could have a lot of money due an inheritance. (If the Ruler is harshly aspected, the person may have trust issues or be very jealous of their partners). I have noticed that these natives really like to wear black or they tend to look very good in black clothes.

Their way of dressing is usually very attractive to other people, their style is very sexy, so it is common that they like to wear or that they like their partner to wear lingerie. These natives usually have a lot of financial support from other people, to know who can provide that support, it is necessary to check the Ruler. If it is Venus, the couple will provide economic stability to the native. If it is Sun, the father. If it is the Moon, the mother or some grandparent. They are people with a very attractive and sensual voice. Many could enjoy singing and could do well if the Ruler is well aspected. These natives tend to attach great importance to sex in their relationships. Their sex style is more sensual, slow, seductive and romantic. Your erogenous zones can be your neck. They could also scratch a lot in sex. Many of these natives meet many generous people throughout their lives. The natives can be the typical ones who others always invite to eat or those who receive many gifts from acquaintances / friends / partners, and it may be that when the native wants to invite someone to eat for example, the other person insists on being the one to pay.

Do you want to make them feel safe or comfortable? Trust them. Trust is everything to them, show them that you trust them and their solidity / loyalty, in the same way show them that they can count on you. Share your experiences with them, share your secrets, but also allow them to do the same. These natives can earn money working as: Economists, Entrepreneurs, Accountants, Notaries, Tarotists, Astrologers, Psychologists, Psychiatrists, Doctors or Therapists. It is very likely that these natives become very attached to some of their things because of the emotional value that they can find in those things. I have noticed that they also tend to associate things such as smells for example to specific situations, persons or moments. They can be attracted to people with seductive/deep voices, a thick neck and wide backs. Also, it is a plus if you wear perfume and have soft skin (according to some that I’ve met).

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 3rd👥

These people may enjoy reading or writing erotic novels. And as a bonus, they tend to like dirty talk a lot and are quite good at flirting. I have noticed that many of them tend to be very competitive, distrust or dislike a cousin or brother. They have a very frank and direct way of speaking. They tend to have a sarcastic, ironic, crude, or even dark sense of humor. Individuals with this placement have no problem talking about sex, in fact they may really like to talk about it. In the case of having a blog, they can talk about these topics directly and openly. They have a natural interest in everything unknown. They may be very interested in: tarot, magic, astrology, witchcraft, and have a particular interest in prediction.

They are people who can have a tic, such as involuntarily moving one of their feet while talking, biting their nails, constantly touching the sleeve of their sweater, etc. They tend to be sexually attracted to intelligent, capable and independent people. Large or veined hands may be very attractive to them. Topics such as psychology, crime, horror stories, supernatural anecdotes often enchant them and they can spend hours talking about it, making you forget how possibly quiet they looked when you first met them. You really like to talk about deep topics and have existential conversations in your day to day. Your mind is very deep and you often question many things. They may be nervous or may dislike speaking in public or when there are many people. If the ruler is Mercury or is harshly aspected, the native may suffer from constant anxiety or nerves. Individuals with this placement can easily become obsessed with what they like or with their hobbies. They may even forget to eat by doing such an activity.

They can have siblings or cousins with Scorpio traits, placements or with a strong Pluto. They have detective minds, are naturally curious, and like to get to the bottom of things. Their memory is excellent and they tend to pay a lot of attention to small details that may go unnoticed by other people. They have a tendency to overthink things, even when they already know the solution. These people care a lot about mental health, they can know a lot about it. They are excellent counselors to many people and have a knack for getting people to "open up" to them.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 4th👥

They are very loyal friends / partners, they will respect you and it is very likely that they love you in a very intense and unique way. Many people tend to remember these natives a lot, since their loyalty makes them stay in the hearts of many for a long time. These natives are emotionally very intense people, for them it is everything or it is nothing. They hate wasting their time on people who have no clear intentions about them and believe me, they will always be honest with their intentions. Their intuition is very strong and they should trust it more. They know how to see "behind other people's souls" and tend to know a lot about a person even when they have only known them for a very short time. Family life may have been very tense and it is very likely that they do not constantly talk about their childhood or their family in general.

On many occasions they tend to be unaware of their own emotions, which is precisely why they question a lot about it and can be very analytical with their emotional world. They are very reserved people, and very rarely you will see them deliberately talking about their private life. They know how to keep secrets very well and people often approach them for advice or simply to feel heard. They have a great desire to become independent or to put some distance between them and their family. It is very likely that they have experienced the death of a relative at a very young age, in the same way these people could have matured before their time. These natives may have a neutral relationship with their family, but if the ruler is Mars or is afflicted, it is very likely that they do not trust a certain member of their family, especially one of the parents. The native's eyes can express fatigue, sleep, or even have a very fixed and intense gaze, (especially if the Ruler is Saturn or the Moon).

Something that I have noticed is that these natives tend to sleep a lot when their day is going wrong, they take a lot of shelter in their room and they may prefer to stay at home in their free time. These people need to feel cared for or protected in sex. They are quite loving and touchy. They can have a daddy / mommy kink and without sweat they can have partners with whom there is an age gap. These natives are very introverted and have extensive wisdom. They are curious about themselves and always like to discover themselves a little more. They are usually emotionally independent people and many of them are self-sufficient and may have been mentalized from an early age with not needing anyone. In case the Ruler is well aspected it can indicate that the native can receive an inheritance. Many of them need to be very much in love or at least connect emotionally with someone to have sex, they do not take sex lightly and are less likely to have one night stands.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 5th👥

These natives are people who can become obsessed with their hobbies, spending too much time on them regardless of whether they ate or not. They are usually very intense when something they are passionate about / like / or catches their attention. They really like "hard to get" people and someone who is not so open. They may like bad-girls / bad-boys and something they really like is that there is a certain tension / drama / teasing in their relationships. It is very likely that these individuals have a natural attraction for supernatural, esoteric themes or things that others might define as macabre. They like witchcraft, tarot and many other things that are considered taboo. These natives tend to attract or be attracted to Scorpio placements, traits, 8th house stelliums or people with strong Pluto/Lilith. Their romances are usually intense or passionate, and many of them tend to be long-lasting, especially if the Ruler is Saturn. There is the possibility of attracting or seeking jealous, intense partners. In some cases, the native is the intense one in the relationship.

No matter how calm the person seems, inside they have a deep desire for emotionally intense experiences. They tend to like adventures, feel the adrenaline rush through their body and many that I have met exude a lot of confidence and courage. Individuals with this placement have a lot of charisma and are quite passionate. People quickly become intrigued and obsessed with them. They can be quite flirtatious and they are quite aware of their power of attraction. They are usually attracted to people with intense gaze and medium-small eyes. Wavy hair seems to appeal to many of these natives and someone who is taller than average certainly catches their eye. Maybe someone that likes dressing in black and fashionable/elegant. Despite how flirtatious they may be, I have noticed that many of them need intensity and emotional connection with the other person to have any type of relationship.

These natives like sex very much, many of them may be interested in topics such as domination, role play. Many of them tend to be very dominant in sex, but I have also noticed that they like their partner to be dominant as well (they don't let them so easily). Loyalty is everything to these natives, regardless of the type of relationship they have. If you betray them a few times, don't expect them to give you a second chance. The same applies to lies, if you ever lied to them or hid something from them, I guarantee that they will pretend you had disappeared from Earth. These people can be extreme when it comes to thinking about having a child. Either they see it as something they want to do in this life and want to be excellent and protective parents or they totally dislike the idea of having children. It is very likely that they do not express their "true self" or their inner child often, however, they often use hobbies for that. They will always insert a part of their soul in what they do.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 6th👥

These people do not usually like being told what to do, they prefer to be their own boss and do things their way. These people can interact with animals when they feel bad, it can even help them calm down and increase their serotonin more than average. They may have an obsession or they may want to "always have a plan" or "have everything under control." They are prone to stress and anxiety if the ruler is badly aspected, if it is Mercury or Saturn. These natives may have a school / work colleague who is envious of them, who they distrust, or who they do not get along with. These people are very ambitious and hard-working, they take their work very seriously and it is essential that they work on something that they are passionate about. These natives often find it difficult to take breaks, they demand a lot from themselves. If the Ruler is afflicted they can become workaholics.

They can work as: Doctors, Nurses, Psychologists, Nutritionists, Psychiatrists, Teachers, Criminologists, Writers, Tarotists or Healers. For these people, the satisfaction of their partner is their satisfaction, sex with them can be addictive and become somewhat more constant than normal. No matter how calm they look, they have very high sexual needs. Individuals with this placement take their physical care really seriously and can be very supportive of the body positive. They can enjoy exercising or at least have good physical condition.Natives can have sex as a way to free themselves from their day-to-day occupations or to remove or ignore their stress. They see sex as a way to relax. There is a possibility that they have hormonal problems, for example an irregular period.

Individuals with this placement usually recover quickly from any illness they may have throughout their life. People may consider that they are people who are very demanding when it comes to choosing to be with someone, but regardless of whether it is so or not many of them naturally attract quite attractive people. Many of these individuals tend to be attracted or attract Virgo placements, traits or people with a strong Mercury. Although it may be difficult for them to admit it, they are very competitive people and will always seek for their work to obtain the recognition that they deserve. These natives recognize the value of their efforts. These people have a very special ability: to listen. I have noticed that many people can feel comfortable telling them their things, let's not forget to mention their useful and great advice.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 7th👥

Many tend to envy these natives, especially "friends" or colleagues. Their magnetism sadly also attracts very negative people. These people fear being betrayed and may have trust issues. Infidelity scares them and in fact they neither understand nor see it as logical or "understandable" regardless of the context. These people may prefer to work independently as it can be difficult for you to interact with other people. Sex is very important for these natives, however, many of them tend to prioritize other things when having a stable relationship. These natives have a very extreme idea of marriage. Either they want to get married so badly and find the love of their life, or they totally dislike the idea of marriage.

These people may have few relationships throughout their lives, however those they do have will be long and intense. Many people tend to be interested in these people, they can admire them from afar, or stalk them constantly. Your future husband may have a lot of money, this will obviously make the native's lifestyle improve significantly after getting married. Individuals with this placement can meet their future spouse after going through a huge inner change, after the death of someone or after taking an important decision. They can attract / be attracted to people with Scorpio traits, placements, or with a strong Lilith/Pluto. These people are like spies, they tend to know a lot about many people, even very personal things.

Many big changes await you after marriage. It is very likely that you know a lot of people who are important or who can be of help to you through your husband. It is very difficult to lie to these natives, since they have their sixth sense quite developed. They know how to read between the lines and people's words, they tend to quickly understand indirections and know who they are addressed to. Their partners (ex partners too) may get obsessed with them a lot and many can consider them memorable and irreplaceable. They are very romantic people in sex and they can make you feel that they are the person who loves you the most in the world, but of course, they hope you make them feel that way.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 8th👥

Sex with them is memorable, you will touch heaven and hell at the same time and they will make you experience and feel many things that you have never felt before. I have noticed that these natives are often afraid to reveal a lot about themselves, they tend to think that others can use the information that the natives gave against them. They are somewhat suspicious. They see sex as something very intense, necessary and transformative for them and they tend to have a high sex drive. I have noticed that many of these natives tend to like people who appear to be unreachable. People with a very unique skin color (either pale or very dark). And black hair. Low voices are a plus.

They are very intelligent people and they tend to have a lot of knowledge in many things. These people are very knowledgeable about sex, they may even give advice to their friends. These individuals can easily become obsessed with things or people. Death can be a very significant topic for them. They may have a great dread towards the idea of dying (in fact I have noticed that many are interested in immortality). It is very likely that they have experienced the death of more than one person close or important to them at an early age.

These people are justicers, and many times they prefer to do justice by their own hand. They do not forget or forgive easily. They attract or are attracted to people with Scorpio placements, traits, 8th house stelliums or strong Pluto/Lilith. They are often very intrigued by esotericism and the dark side of life. They can have psychic abilities if the Ruler is well aspected. They are people who are very interested in learning and mastering such subjects to perfection. The tarot draws their attention a lot.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 9th👥

These natives are very open-minded, and you would be very surprised by the number of topics they are knowledgeable about and are not afraid to speak up. Individuals with this placement tend to think very deeply. There is a possibility that things are taken very seriously. And they will definitely get carried away by their intuition when making a decision. They love learning more about themselves through esotericism or practices like astrology. Many of these natives speak a lot about how deteriorated the educational system can be, and I have seen in some cases that the native may decide not to pursue any university degree.

They may have a great desire to travel the world and meet very different people. The idea of getting to know other cultures fascinates them to intense levels. These natives can experience something quite significant when they are in school. It is very difficult to make them change their minds, they are willing to debate with everything so that the one who changes their opinion is you. This native can have constant crushes towards teachers or people older than them who are very intelligent. They may have a tendency to obsess over foreign celebrities or projects. In general, you will always see them very interested in exploring the dark side of life, experiencing unforgettable adventures, entering the world of astrology, tarot or witchcraft.

They may be sexually attracted to foreigners, people very different from themselves. Physically people with sun-kissed, olive or beige skin catch their attention. They have a very acid, dark, ironic and sarcastic sense of humor. They are not easily offended. These people are introverts and are often very in touch with their emotions. If the Rules is well placed, the native will have a balance between reason and heart. These natives take their beliefs and religion (if they have one) very seriously. Many of them hold fast to their ideals. Sex with them will never be boring, they are very fond of experimenting and may like to include games or toys in sex.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 10th👥

They are quite ambitious people and in their work they can have some important position. It is worth mentioning that due to their work they can be highly respected and admired. People often think that they are very mysterious people. Many tend to add that the natives are not known because they are limited to giving a merely professional image instead of a personal one. These natives have a lot of magnetism and can easily attract people's attention. They have excellent power of persuasion and their oratorical skills are admirable. Possible jobs for these natives are: Tarotists, Psychologists, Psychiatrists, Doctors, Politicians, Paleontologists, Therapists, Musicians, Notaries or Economists.

It is very likely that these natives make a lot of money thanks to their work, their ambition and their work ethic is so excellent that it can propel them directly to success. They may have a difficult relationship with authority figures or even with their father. Many know them for their sharp intellect. People may have a lot of admiration for them, or they may feel slightly intimidated by them. If the Ruler is well aspected his life can change drastically and favorably after finding a stable job. They are sexually attracted to people they consider strong, maybe people that have been through a lot, outstanding, with an age gap and powerful. Even by people who play hard to get. These natives are usually easily remembered, they have a "something" that makes them irreplaceable and unforgettable.

Individuals with this placement prefer to keep their aspirations and plans secret, they are excellent strategists and they are quite perseverant. These people tend to feel sexually attracted to people older than them or with whom they have an age gap. Domination and daddy / mommy kink is very common with this placement.They prefer to work on their own or have a leadership position, it can be difficult for them to trust other of their coworkers or, in some cases, their bosses. If the Ruler is well placed, the native can have a lot of support of other when it comes to their work. The Ruler can tell us what kind of people, if it is the Moon, a woman or a member of their families. If it is the Sun, some man, the couple or the father. Mercury, siblings, cousins or close friends. Many may see the native as domineering, stubborn, fearless and very self-confident.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 11th👥

They are very stubborn people and it is very difficult to make them change their minds. It is worth mentioning that they know how to accept the opinions of others very well. These people may find it difficult to fit into a group of people and may feel very lonely and somewhat misunderstood. Individuals with this placement have a very curious soul, they like to get to the bottom of things and have a detective mentality. They can spend a lot of their time on the internet, they can even be addicted to it and feel that they cannot be without seeing their social networks as many times a day. These people are very attracted to topics such as psychology, crime, the supernatural, the esoteric or sex.

They often have difficulty with "friends." They can attract many toxic, negative or obsessive friends throughout their life. If the Ruler is badly aspected, their "friends" may become obsessed with them. They tend to like books, series or movies of the genre of: horror, suspense, criminalist, drama or science fiction. They tend to trap others with their unique, independent and rebellious attitude. People are usually very attracted to them and it is very likely that they have a lot of followers. These natives are quite selective with their friends and do it with difficulty. They value meaningful ties.Individuals with this placement can attract por have friends with Scorpio traits, placements, 8th house stelliums or a strong Pluto/Lilith.

They may be attracted to some friends, or their friends may end up being very attracted to them. People with this placement are very likely to enjoy having existential conversations with friends. They may have friends behind their back who speak ill of them, envy them or want to be like them somehow. They can meet many significant people through the internet, and their lives can change after meeting them. These individuals often talk to themselves.

👥Ruler of the 8th in the 12th👥

This is without a doubt the most secretive placement. These people are excellent at keeping secrets, especially theirs, which is precisely why many tend to tell their things to them, due to the great respect they have for privacy. These natives can have constant nightmares, and I know of many who suffer from sleep paralysis who have this placement. They usually hide their dark side at all costs. They are people who avoid being aggressive or violent. They don't like people to see them as unfriendly people. They tend to know a lot about what is going to happen through their dreams, whether the Ruler aspects the Moon or Neptune, the native may be able to see the past or the future.

These people can take refuge in music a lot, especially when their day is not going well. Sex with them is addictive and they often get lost in their partner. These natives need an intense connection with the other person in order to enjoy themselves. They are much more sexual than they appear. Sex with them can take you deep. There may be a desire (repressed or not) to possess or be possessed by their partners. These natives are the typical ones who decide to take a nap when they don't feel good emotionally. They may also like to swim or put on their headphones and listen to some music while looking at the ceiling. These people are introverts and are immersed in their own world, they have a tendency to daydreaming.

These people can have frequent nightmares, and I know several who have this location and suffer from sleep paralysis. They are spiritual individuals who take their beliefs seriously. They will not hesitate to confront you in a dispute if you disrespect something they care about. Individuals with this placement may seek solace in sex to alleviate their unhappiness or anger. These individuals, on the other hand, detest looking or being regarded as weak or fragile, and they generally mask much of who they are, what they truly desire, and what they think.

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