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🥀 Write letters to your ancestors. Seal them in envelopes with dried flowers or other small offerings, and burn them.
🥀 In lieu of flowers, delicately cut apple slices, orange peels, or other fruits in floral shapes and leave a bowl of them as an offering.
🥀 Read some books/watch some movies that are popular in your family.
🥀 Write little poems or letters to the Fae, roll them up and put them inside cinnamon sticks with a blob of honey or some milk, then leave them in the woods.
🥀 (Gently!) Put googly eyes and tiny paper hats on your plants to make modern Jack o’ lanterns.
🥀 Wear things from people in your life, family jewelry, clothes that a family member has purchased for you,
🥀 If you can, visit the grave of a loved one or someone in your family. Talk to them for a bit.
🥀 Charge candles with crystals Lapis Lazuli, Rhodonite, Citrine, or hematite to burn at your altar.
🥀 Write a list to your deities of the things you are proud of having accomplished together. Bury it with an offering.