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heyy guys, it seems that the beginning of the week has caught up with many of you, this place is empty haha. i need a little help with my second tarot reading. i'm between three topics! i'm taking suggestions via ask and y'all are free to leave your comments down below!

Hiiya there excited for participating in your tarot game :3

My initials: SG

I'm a saggitarius rising

My age : 18

I do not have any aries placements

My question: What are my shadow aspects which I need to work on in terms of romantic relationships

Thank you so much 💓

Aspects you need to work on in terms of romantic relationships

I'm inclined to believe that you are someone new to romantic relationships. Perhaps you've recently had one or were in the process of getting into one, avoided the inevitable and it was too complicated. You tend to have a desire to start a relationship but have a hard time taking the initiative to connect emotionally with people. There are vulnerability issues stemming from a lack of self-confidence. You think you are not capable of initiating something and being vulnerable, but the irony is that you are. There were times and occasions when you could have used that ability to connect, but you resisted. The potential was there, but in the past you had a hard time sustaining a relationship because of that inability to open up on an emotional level. Your insecurity clouds your ability to make a deep emotional connection. Subconsciously, by letting yourself get carried away by these insecurities you prevent your personal growth. You don't want to look in the mirror and see your most vulnerable and insecure areas. But in doing so, you're left not knowing what areas on you need a trim, a new dye job, a little touch up, etc. You're stunting your growth. When you enter a romantic relationship, it's important to collaborate with your partner-open up, communicate, set boundaries, and recognize when it's time to let go if things aren't working. In your case, you are having a hard time with this process. What things did you like about the relationship? What abilities could you have explore that your insecurity prevented you from doing? What things were part of your immaturity as a person and not the other person's fault? You need to let go of that control. You have to recognize what you can control and what you can't. If things don't have a solid foundation, you have to let it go. Don't hold on to something that is going to bring you down and only cause you more pain in the long run. It is when you begin to see it from this perspective that you will finally be able to free yourself from those weaknesses that hold you back in your romantic relationships. Currently that blockage to your potential in being vulnerable makes you resistant to change and keeps you stuck. That is what you need to work on. These patterns are built and if they continue they can be reinforced. When you set boundaries, and accept that certain conflicts and processes are necessary in romantic relationships (and must happen no matter how reluctant you are to let it happen), you will finally break free from this stagnation. Studying about emotional intelligence, and communication as a couple will help you get out of this stagnation! I highly recommend Steph Anya's videos, CinemaTherapy and other YouTube channels of licensed professionals who offer help in these areas.

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Welcome to my FIRST TAROT GAME! I will be answering free questions to the first ones that meet the requirements. If you want to participate read the rules and fill out the form! You have until this Saturday at 2:00pm EST to participate. I will be answering the first questions on a first come, first served basis.

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hi! i’m p.p 18 pisces rising! i have no placements in aries. my question is why am I struggling to find love? i have never dated anyone before but i have had crushes and heartbreaks. the ppl i catch feelings for often take advantage of that fact and i have reached a point where i am incredibly jaded about love due to the unhealthy disappointing and unlucky experiences i have had,, ty lots 💓

Why is PP struggling to find love?

What stops you is that you are very guarded. It's as if you shut yourself off and remain quite distrustful of others. You may also have high standards. Which I understand, because I do the same thing lmao (twin where have you been~ /jk). Never lower your standards though! And as I was saying, that distrust forms an emotional distance from others. The high priestess appeared reversed, and based on the context of your reading, maybe that distrust comes as a defense mechanism from bad experiences and is blocking your intuition. You need to learn how to stop them from having an influence in you to the point they no longer block you from connecting with others in a more healthy way. You may have inadvertently built a wall without realizing it. The reversed star in your spread seemed very saddening to me, the disappointments have been difficult for you. It is not bad to have high standards or to be careful with others, in your case it seems that your disappointments have tinted something that may be innocent, and instead of having standards and just being careful, you turned distant and distrustful. You need to open up without lowering your expectations. Imagine yourself as if you were someone using a brush to dust off a painting—it is not a bad thing! You're just removing the dust to take advantage of the use that beautiful paint can have in a room. The best way to do this would be if you become more emotionally independent and learn to be more compassionate with yourself and also with others (but this comes second lmao). Without lowering your standards. Just between us, your cards have a lot of color so there’s a hopeful future for you, there was just one gray card and it was a good one. You have a really softer side deep inside, don't let it get all dust up!

★   Hello!   First   pac!   Let's   find   out   what   your   crush/person   of   interest   has   to   say   about   you   to   their   friends.   Take   a   deep   breath,   and   choose   the   pile   that   draws   you   in   the   most.   This   include   2   sections:   are   they   talking   about   you   to   their   friends   and   what   are   they   talking   about.

disclaimer:   this   is   a   general   reading   it   will   be   as   close   as   possible   to   your   situation   but   it   will   not   be   accurate.   take   only   what   resonates.   if   you   want   a   more   accurate   reading   you   can   book a reading!

PILE ONE

the sun, 3 of wands rx, the chariot

Oh, your crush is definitely talking about you to their friends, but maybe not in the way you're hoping. There is mixed energy here. On one hand, they say positive things, things that make them feel happy or hopeful. Or what things attract them to you: your style, vibe, that day you wore a certain color. Maybe some memory or experience that they have with you that they treasure.

But they’re unsure about the next steps or like what to do next. It may leave them feeling a bit let down or underwhelmed, because things haven't progressed as they expected. They're hesitating, maybe overthinking things, which is holding them back from taking action and are just stuck. It’s like they’re feeling things out, thinking about past moments with you, but they’re not ready to make any big moves. They’re holding back for now, so while they’re talking about you, it’s more them trying to understand their own feelings than taking real action.

WHAT ARE THEY TALKING ABOUT TO THEIR FRIENDS?

6 of swords rx, page of swords rx, 3 of pentacles rx

Your person is talking to their friends about feeling uncertain and stuck when it comes to you. They might not know how to move things forward and could be venting about things feeling off or disconnected between you two. I am inclined to think that it is the first one. They started to see you differently and it is being reflected in what they talk about with their friends.

For some of you, they say things they find attractive about you, but maybe with some reservations. They’re likely confused or unsure how to communicate their feelings, which is why they might be saying things that are unclear or even holding back. A few of you have trouble being expressive so they think you have a huge wall and it is making them have a hard time approaching you. They’re not sure if you’re both on the same page, or if things can really work long-term.

Elements & Signs: Aquarius. A lot of air and earth elements. Your crush might be very anxious, or an overthinker. Your crush has a hard time expressing themselves emotionally or dealing with their emotions. You two might be sending each other wrong signals and creating confusion and miscommunication.

PILE TWO

ace of cups, the wheel of fortune rx, 5 of cups

They’re definitely feeling something, but they’re super confused and conflicted. They like you, but their mind is all over the place—way too much overthinking and frustration about what to do. (uhmm, messy). Instead of talking to their friends, they’re keeping it to themselves and trying to sort it out alone without making any real moves.

For a few of you, they are even sad about it.. i felt their sadness through the cards. It’s like they’re emotionally stuck, and they’re not ready to open up or share what’s going on. If they mention something they're likely weighing the pros and cons, maybe asking their friends for advice. It's not all positive - there could be some doubts or concerns they're expressing. They're probably not head-over-heels for some of you, just curious and a bit conflicted.

WHAT ARE THEY NOT TALKING ABOUT TO THEIR FRIENDS?

the chariot rx, 2 of cups rx, 7 of wands (9 of cups rx)

Your crush isn’t telling their friends that they’re super stressed and confused about the whole situation. They are meeeessy. They feel stuck, like nothing’s going anywhere, and it’s making them frustrated. They’re holding back big time, possibly pretending they don’t care as much or acting like it’s not a big deal (Oh my god lmao), when deep down they’re feeling out of sync and unsure of where things are heading.

They’re also really unhappy with how things are right now, but they’re putting up walls, trying to protect themselves. It’s like they’re battling internally between wanting to fight for this and feeling like it’s not worth the effort (this might be the sad energy i was getting). They’re not seeing the results they want and are worried they’re wasting their time, but they’re not saying any of this out loud.

For a few of you: If they're really into you, they might downplay it to their friends. They're not likely to admit if they're feeling vulnerable or scared of getting hurt.

Elements & Signs: A lot of emotional blockage from this person. Water energy through the roof! There’s a lot of overthinking and frustration with this person. Your crush is very reserved and wants to act like they are not affected at all (side eye). For a few of you: Your crush is feeling really sensitive about you and is not a very emotionally stable person. 

PILE THREE

2 of wands, 3 of cups rx, 3 of swords rx

Your crush isn’t talking about you to their friends. For some of you they are. But they are mentioning you casually, not making a huge deal out of it just yet (they are being mature about this). They’re thinking about it but are keeping things close to the chest, overanalyzing everything (geez). They’re not comfortable being open right now and are holding back, trying to stay in control of their emotions. They might have some unresolved feelings or past hurt they’re still dealing with, which is making them hesitate. For a few of you: they might be asking for opinions or subtle advice without revealing too much.

Instead of sharing or opening up about the situation, they’re keeping their distance and focusing on keeping all calm and collected. You know, not letting this agitate them too much bc they are not a child. Deep down, they’re not satisfied with how things are going emotionally, but they’re choosing to stay quiet rather than talk about it with friends. They’re just not ready to be vulnerable or let anyone in on what they’re feeling yet. For a few of you (how cute): they are hoping for a stable and happy relationship.

WHAT ARE THEY NOT TALKING ABOUT TO THEIR FRIENDS?

queen of wands (the lovers), 4 of wands, knight of wands

Your crush isn’t talking to their friends about just how drawn they are to you. They feel a strong attraction and connection (i pulled the queen of wands and the lovers, like, phew) but are keeping it all to themselves (boo!). They’re confused about what they want and are juggling their feelings, trying to figure out if they should make a move or just sit back and play it safe.

Why are they playing it safe? They’re worried about getting rejected or not having a solid foundation if they go for it, which is why they’re hesitant to share anything. They’ve got this mix of passion and doubt, but instead of being open, they’re keeping it all inside and trying to sort it out on their own.

Elements: Aries/Leo. Your crush is giving me fire sign energy! Or this might be just them feeling passionate about you. Or both lmao. I sense earth energy too. They are emotionally complex. Another overthinker, but i think they might just be rational about it. They struggle with vulnerability but are not as immature and out of it as pile 2 (not so sorry for the drag lmao). Again, they still struggle with emotional vulnerability.

hi 🤗

My reading was so cute, loved their reaction! It resonated with other readings that said they will be more in love with me after this, and this makes me so happy. Thank you a lot 💚🍋🍫🧁

Hi there! I’m so glad to hear that you loved the reading and that it resonated with you! It’s wonderful to know that it connected with what you’ve been feeling. Thank you for your kind words! ❣️

hii! i'm mimi she/her! could i pls have a tarot reading from u on who my first/ future girlfriend is? just like anything about her, when we may meet or how our relationship may be. i have never dated anyone before for context but i have had crushes and heartbreak and things never seem to really go my way romantically.. so i'm really just wanting smth to look forward to :3 tysm in advance 🫶

Mimi's future girlfriend

4 of cups rx (the sun), 8 of swords

Maybe you are one of those people who get stuck emotionally, because your future girlfriend will give you that push to get out of that state. She’ll have a bright, uplifting energy that will help you feel free. Like telling you to go for it when you are overthinking it too much. But she’ll also have her own control issues. Like you two may disagree on power dynamics (e.g., possessiveness, jealousy) and/or practical difficulties (she may take over travel/date trips and make you feel controlled), but she will make up for it by being emotionally in tune with you. She’ll be mature and supportive, but also expect you to deal with the insecurities mentioned above haha. She’ll challenge and ground you.

hi. The reading was very good and i hope it resonates. thank you so much again, have a good day/night 💘

Thank you lots for participating! :”) Hope you have a good day/night too~