Holding Women To A Higher Standard Is Part Of My Feminism. No, You Don’t Get To Just Do Whatever You

Getting very sick of trans-identified men making creepy, voyeuristic media about the violence and suffering that women and girls experience at the hands of men.

Yes, gender ideology is the denial of female oppression. TRAs hate admitting this.

top 3 reasons why we don’t need female-only bathrooms:

3. this man has put on a dress, make up, injects hormones and has undergone surgery. maybe he has even castrated himself! and you want him to go to MENS bathroom! that’s unsafe for HIM!

2. you and your dad/brother/uncle/boyfriend use the same bathroom at home. yes, public multiple stall toilets are totally the same.

1. come oooon why can’t people just pee in peace😒you’re weird if you think that’s even a problem.

lmao wtf even these people really do live on a different planet

“Self harm is cool actually”

looking back on it, my enjoyment of m/m fan fiction kickstarted the whole thing. i think it’s a case for a lot of autistic women who feel kind of out place:

the “i’m so gay” phase, the tumblr ideology (bc it’s tied with fandom), the scared of men irl and just genuinely being weird about them, all while just actually being a normal straight girl

i just wonder what my life would be like if i never got sucked into tumblr 2010s world. if i never believed so strongly all those harmful beliefs tumblr perpetuated about gender, sexuality, anxiety, self love, etc. where would i be! who knows i might be married by now.

but oh well, we move on and are living fully now!

ive been trying for weeks to find the right way to say that, the way people my age (20s) nowadays, especially those who are very lefty in their ideology, speak about having children is fucked up

ultimately i think its just fucking rude and an overcorrection to the whole "women bear the children" part of living in society

honestly i can understand being scared of the biological parts of child bearing, i sure am, but acting like a spoiled brat and being all "i would never want to give up my freedom, i dont want a screaming pooping demon in my house, blah blah blah" its like ...its just a baby... its a little human. like you once were.

maybe yeah raising a child wouldnt fit in with your lifestyle.... but i sincerely doubt it, since these kinds of people dont do much with their lives it seems except be online and buy toys for themselves even though they're grown adults.... maybe yeah they shouldnt have kids then. just wish they would be less RUDE about it - and dont demonize women who do want kids!!!

im starting this blog as a safe space for my own refuting of gender ideology and other extremely tumblr/popular liberal-lefty ways of thinking that i dont agree with anymore now

doesnt mean im a conversative. doesnt mean im some frothing at the mouth ideologue. just want some common sense brought back.

so much of modern liberalism is propped up by the most logically unsound arguments ever.

but they act like the smart ones with all the answers. always talking about "we're on the right side of history"

hmm yeah, easy to claim when you just never talk about the times you weren't...

i don’t not believe that the suicidal ideation is real but it needs to be intervened with in the way you’d intervene if it was rooted in any other mental health issue, not, ‘we’re going to freeze your puberty for awhile then give you alternate hormones’