I'm busy ... finally getting my mojo and finishing off journals, diaries and other lifestyle aids for my chosen clan - Gothic and Alternative - if that wasn't clear. Links and examples coming soon, so forgive me in the meantime for posting less relevant stuff, just getting my creative juices flowing and feeling a bit more confident as i step out ...
These do make me giggle ... so sweet
That’s it let the whispers compel you to edge your mind away or maybe they don’t have to. Maybe you’re already rubbing or stroking to the idea of submission. Maybe you’re trying to empty your mind and let more of The Void in. Maybe you’re already starting to crave submitting to it. All it takes it just one more edge. Just one more to get closer. One more to empty your mind. One more to surrender your mind and body. One more. One more.
This is a nice variation
When I used to go out my mother used to say " that's not a skirt it's a belt!"
This rings the changes
Isn't this just soooo sweet.
It would be SUCH a shame if a dominant older woman spanked me… I definitely WOULDN’T enjoy myself…
Yes I'd happily have it as a weekend and holidays house, complete with bat roost to feed off ignorant male tumblr blogs who randomly messaged you with inane questions. Mind you it might not be kind to the bats
What are you feelings about mommy domme play?
TL;DR ... to each their own, no judgment
Thank you for the question.
I'll disambiguate it a bit.
Mommy domme in my real life experience is often with littles with whom there's a definite style but also obviously subject to boundaries and scene negotiation. I've enjoyed gentle participation at events with contemporaries of mine who have little in their care. It can be quite sweet, but can also be more sexual and it's not an area I'm comfy or interested in, if that's the case.
Online ... mommy domme again can be quite sweet, but to me seems to have a lot of repetition that for me just doesn't work. If you're my submissive I expect you to know to drink enough water, manage your life, and own your own situations. I'm a busy professional person and parent to four adult children, I really don't have time to micro manage you. If mommy domme means just the more nurturing side rather than sadistic, strict or sensual then that's fine but for me I'm very sensual and a lot of submissive or dominant play is in line with that.
I am however very picky for myself in who I talk to, I'm in the position I can be. Sometimes I talk to people who obviously get an initial something then either back off, or apparently can't or don't want to make any effort themselves. I'm not sure if this is a personal maturity thing or mindset on their part, or perhaps a general preference for subs with mommy domm leaning.
There are, apparently, lots of people on tumblr who seem to enjoy the nurturing micromanaging role, so if that's what you're looking for I'm sure you'll have plenty to approach.
Be safe, sane and consensual always.
Oh these are just lush. Nudges partner and looks meaningfully at how many shopping days they have before Christmas
“Omg, I love these! They go up to size 6X AND they have pockets?! Wow!! But do you have anything longer?”
Sure do, no problem!!
“YES these are great!!! But what about.. longer?”
I gotcha!! Comin’ right up!
“Now that’s what I’m talkin’ about!! Well, these prints are really cool and all, but I gotta ask- do you have anything in a different material?”
Never fear, cotton is here!!!
"Finally! A cotton skirt with the same huge pockets! Dare to dream~" /scene 🖤witchvamp.com🖤
Oh my this was so relevant this weekend, and the narcissistic, irrelevant and boring opinions from people who used to have a claim on my life. No more, I've forgiven them, moved on, and have no real thoughts of them anymore except as a fact just happens to be a small part of my story...
Gothic. Creator of lifestyle aids for the gothic/emo woman or girl. I identify as strongly dominant female, active in my alternative and BDSM community in the southwest UK. 45. Bi. I have a partner but am poly, i currently have 2 others sub, one who i see in real life, one is a female sub online. If you're interested in submitting then ask away, politely, it doesn't mean you'll get an answer. See links coming soon for Amazon products ... be good ...
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