Heute Nachmittag kam ein Paket an. Meine Freundin zu mir: Mach es auf, es ist für dich. Als ich es geöffnet hatte, war ich zu erst etwas schockiert. Meine Gedanken waren, hoffentlich bekomme ich diese Dinger nie angezogen, da ich die von Bekannten DL's schon kenne und gleichzeitig, wann steckt sie mich da rein. 😱 Sie meinte nur, freu dich nicht zu früh, ein zweites Paket für dich ist noch Unterwegs, das wird ein schönes Weihnachten werden. Das wäre dann alles für mich, wenn ich am Wochenende mal wieder bockig bin oder sie einfach mal wieder eine Stunde ihre Ruhe haben möchte. Einen gewindelten Freund kann man halt nicht bei allen Sachen gebrauchen. 😅 Man muss dazu wirklich wissen, mein Schatz macht die Wäsche, Putzt das Haus, füttert die Hunde und geht Gassi (gut, ich auch), usw. 🙈
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I create a rules for DD/lb in several categories. I would appreciate any feedback. Wrninig !!! My english is not very good :D !!! I hope you like it at least a little bit
22/7 diaper training is a more flexible approach to 24/7 diaper training. It's not related to the number of hours spent in diapers but rather to the integration of diapers into daily life !
22/7 involves wearing a diaper all the time but with flexibility and freedom !
on some days you will wear a diaper 24/7 and on other days less...compared to 24/7 where the diaper is worn permanently without excuse, 22/7 gives you the possibility of not wearing a diaper in situations/ activities with specific criteria to be defined !
the 22/7 is suitable for people wishing to create a healthy balance between the experience of wearing a continuous diaper (which relates to private life), and social life
22/7 means you wear a diaper the majority of the time, but it's not as rigid and strict as 24/7 !
you have to have specific rules for situations where even if it is uncomfortable you still have to keep your diaper on or situations where you really don't wear one, (but situations where you don't put one on are rare) , for example: I don't wear a diaper to go to the doctor, nor to play sports, and at the conservatory I force myself to wear one, but sometimes I tell myself no (it will depend on what I have to do and my outfit)
if you remove your diaper for your reasons, you absolutely must put one back on as soon as the activity in question is finished!
unlike 24/7, where the diaper must be worn continuously without exception, the 22/7 allows flexibility but with a limit: no exception (time when you are not wearing a diaper) must be extended, and these exceptions must still be quite rare! Situations where you have to remove your diaper must be a rare and one-off exception, you must under no circumstances remove it for the whole day for example!
for health concerns about the skin of your buttocks, with diaper training 22/7 you have the right not to wear a diaper for 45 minutes or less per day (on the sole condition that you keep your buttocks exposed) to let your skin rest!
(I already know that I have already done diaper training 24/7 for 1 year) but I prefer the 22/7 because this model is ideal especially if you have an active life (I am a musician), but you want to live in diaper daily you like that!
I find that 22/7 allows you to have a good balance in your adult life, I also find that it is a lifestyle that allows you to meet your needs while doing diaper training!
Yesterday I decided it would be good for my baby to have what we call a “Baby Day”. We talk about these a bit on our website but I thought you all might enjoy hearing what one looked like for us which was prompted by one of our Tumblr friends asking about it anyway.
The quick intro to a Baby Day is it’s a full 24 hour period where he is treated nearly exactly like a baby. We find they are great for stress relief and easy to do on a free weekend day every month or so. I decide when they happen so they’re always a surprise for him and although they’re quite a lot of work for me, I do find it sort of fun having to care for him and play more of a real mommy role for a day.
So for us we always start it in the morning where I tell him I’ve decided he’s getting a baby day today. He woke up at around 10am so I told him and he said ok (he can object but only if he has a good reason to why it’s not possible). He knows the rules of a baby day now so we didn’t need to go through them but for your benefit the key elements are:
- Thick ABDL diapers for the next 24/7
- No toilet usage (normal for him anyway)
- No walking or talking with adult words
- Baby clothes & pacifier in most of the time
- I’ll take care of his every need (bottles to drink, meals, checks, changes, etc)
I let him take off his night diaper and go for a shower and when he returns I’m ready with a little kings diaper. I change him into that and dress him in a cute dino onesie. His hands go into locking padded mittens and today he also gets spiked training booties making sure he has to crawl.
Finally he gets 2 ducolax tablets, his first bottle of the day containing milk, and a pacifier. This is a normal adult sized one but if I find him without it in we do have a gag version as well. I like using ducolax tablets on baby days as we find the impact and timing of them varies so unlike suppositories it’s less predictable and more a babylike loss of control.
He then crawls into our living room and I put the TV on for him. It’s kids tv for him but as he’s not very regressive it’s normally more elementary/tween tv which I allow. I also leave another bottle of water with him which he must drink by lunchtime (1pm).
I leave him be and catch up on some laundry (boring I know). At lunch I call him through to the kitchen, help him onto a chair and place a bib around his neck. This meal is going to be baby food and I feed it to him just like a baby, it’s actually kind of fun especially making him a bit messy and teasing him. He doesn’t enjoy it so after 2-3 pouches we’re done. He must also finish a whole bottle of water before he can leave.
After lunch I do a diaper check and it’s wet but nowhere near capacity. He returns to the living room but I do allow him 3 hours of adult game time on his playstation. So the mittens come off so he can do this. I set a timer on my phone for 1 hour and use this to remind me to go check him. By around 3:30 it’s time for a change as I’m not sure his diaper will last another hour.
We have a dedicated changing table but as it’s a crawl away and he’s just wet I change him on the living room floor. He gets a new bottle of water and has 1 hour of gaming left so I leave him to that.
At 4:30 I come through and tell him it’s time for his afternoon nap. He has a crib which we use for this and Segufix restraints which I use to secure him in place. Lights out for the next hour, I’m not sure if he sleeps but when I return I can tell that the ducolax have been working 😂
I check his diaper even though it’s not required and unlock him from the crib. He uses Devrom tablets so the smell isn’t very bad but it is noticeable so I add some plastic pants over his diapers. We have a rule that he has to stay in filled diapers for 1 hour after I detect it which is especially important after ducolax as often there can be a few waves 💩
TV is on again but this time I watch as well, it’s amazingly engaging. He’s on the floor and I do hear him “use” his diaper some more 🙈
It’s probably about 6pm now and it’s time to freshen him up. It’s over to the changing table this time and I get to work. His diaper is well used but I have disposable gloves and in less than 5 minutes he’s completely clean and into a dry Little Kings.
I leave him to his own devices while I make the evening meal. This time he still has the bib and I feed him but it’s adult food. I’m eating as well so this time it’s less playful so mine doesn’t get too cold.
After dinner we watch some Netflix shows together, during which I feed him a bottle of milk, before it’s his bedtime at 10pm. Diaper check reveals a fairly wet diaper and I’m 50:50 about changing him but instead opt to just add a cloth diaper cover and plastic pants on top. He’s again restrained in the crib and I go back to watching TV.
I check on him at about 1am and he’s fast asleep.
The next morning I get up early around 7:30am and go through and wake him up. On baby days I expect him to be messy in the mornings but he’s not. By releasing the straps on one side I get him to spin over exposing his diaper bum. Pulling down the diaper I can insert a suppository (using a disposable glove) before I secure him back in the crib.
I read my book in bed and speak to a few people on here before letting him out at 10am, completing the full 24 hours.
And that is a baby day, it sounds like a lot of effort but I feel like I still get most of my day free, I enjoy caring for him and they’re good for his mental health so overall it’s well worth it.
We would love to hear in the comments if any of you also have baby days with your partners and what you do/don’t do differently?