Maintenance Spankings

Maintenance Spankings

As part of the corporal punishment plan I have created in our wife-led marriage, maintenance spankings have become a weekly event.

They will happen spur of the moment, without forewarning and never scheduled, to keep him guessing when they will occur. This also allows me to choose when they will happen, as ensuring that I'm in the right frame of mind, (never mad but feeling sadistic) is important for my enjoyment.

He surrenders himself to accept pain and discomfort at my will, and for me, the surrender is just as important as the spanking itself.

I make him fetch the spanking implements so that he is actively collaborating in his own punishment, a highly submissive act. I have a very strict rule that he is to never, ever, touch with his own hands any equipment used for punishment. I keep them locked away in a duffel bag unless they are being used on him. When he fetches the implements, he carries this bag by the handles with his teeth while his hands remain clasped behind his back.

Bending over, putting himself across my lap to be spanked is another highly submissive act. By doing so, he is already ceding most of his power to me. Although far from severe, the leather paddle I use induces a nasty sting that is quite unpleasant.

I never swing any punishment implement without the intent of causing pain. We don't do funishments anymore, as I worry mixing pleasure and pain in spankings could turn him into a pain slut. I never want that to happen as I really love using spankings as a punishment and it would ruin it. Our discipline sessions never include warm up strokes for the same reason.

By remaining in position over my knee, he is accepting that the punishment and pain will continue, again, a highly submissive act. The spanking ends only when I decide, and that is usually when I feel he has reached contrition and total submission, often in tears.

Aftercare is then lovingly applied by putting him to my breast to suckle me, as we find that dry adult nursing is a great way for us to bond.

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There are various benefits to maintenance spankings in our Wife-led marriage. They include:

1. First and foremost, they create and maintain the inequality that our dynamic is based on, at fairly regular intervals, constantly reminding us of our proper places and roles in the relationship. They leave him feeling completely submissive, ceding all his power to me, and giving me the absolute authority to rule over him. In essence, a total power exchange.

2. It ensures that I will harbor no resentment against him for any micro-aggressions he may have committed recently. He may have shown slight disrespect, disobeyed me, forgotten to complete a task or ritual, or lacked proper submission at some point throughout the week. If he has done something to disappoint me, it ensures he is properly punished for it, allowing closure in the matter and my total forgiveness. No need to give him the silent treatment because I'm mad at him anymore.

3. It acts as an emotional release. Most males aren't very good at expressing their emotions, and being spanked to tears can be an excellent catalyst for helping him to release any tension or stress that may have built up, before they become toxic in nature. He seems to be happiest and at peace with himself after a recent spanking and he is so respectful to me.

4. It prevents more severe punishment. By giving him a milder taste of the pain he would endure from the strap or the cane, it reminds him that he needs to behave himself, sparing him from such drastic corrections being needed. A little spanking goes a long way to keep him obedient.

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Ken’s jealousy was growing, as my relationship with his cute wife was blossoming. While he was always polite and respectful to me, I could tell he was increasingly having a hard time moving to the guest room when I visited.

On a recent sleepover, after making love with Jenny for several hours, I decided to take a break and visit Ken in the guest bedroom. Despite it being 3:00am, I knew he would still be up, as Jenny was not the quiet type during lovemaking.

Ken was surprised to see me at his door. He felt small and insecure, speaking to the man who replaced him in his own bed. I asked him if he wanted to be more involved in my relationship with Jenny.

While he was unsure of what I meant, he eagerly agreed. I immediately escorted Ken to the master bedroom, where Jenny lay naked on her back. I asked Jenny to sit at the edge of the bed and part her legs. I then led Ken to the bed and positioned him on his knees in front of her, with his face just inches away from her wetness.

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You know what I’d really like to be doing this weekend? Teaching a boy to cum without touching his dick.

First off, it’s two weeks of daily masturbation with orgasm denial. He’d be instructed to get himself as close as possible without cumming - three times daily. There’s a point to this, I promise. The idea is to increase sensitivity & build up a good head of tension. Just regular ol’ chastity can work, but it’s far more effective with daily edging. Regular chastity might take a month or more to reach peak sensitivity. I’m too impatient for that, lol.

The daily edging is always accompanied by gentle stretching. A plug or a dildo that’s just slightly larger than what he’s used to. Once he stops feeling the stretch, move up to something bigger. And yes, I do mean that in the middle of a session. The constant slight burn helps to keep a boy from cumming by accident. (Honestly, the stretching isn’t strictly necessary to get a hands-free orgasm. I just like the idea of a boy getting fucked up the ass by something bigger than him & cumming everywhere because of it.)

So fast forward two weeks. I’d prefer to do the Main Event on a Saturday so that we can just go ahead & make an afternoon of it. I’d start by stripping him down & kissing him - paying special attention to the neck & underside of the jaw. A naughty boy might have to have his hands tied behind his back, but a good boy could keep his hands on my breasts instead. I’d probably leave a couple of little love bites on the dear boy’s neck - I’m terrible about that. Anway, I’d eventually move on, leaving a trail of kisses down to his definitely-hard-by-now nipples. The really excellent thing about the two weeks of edging & denial is that Everything becomes more sensitive. Even boys who don’t usually get a lot out of having their nipples sucked can hardly stand it. So I’d do that for a while, & use the opportunity to get the boy laid out on his back. (A bit uncomfortable if his hands are tied behind him, but that’s his fault, isn’t it?)

Once he’s on his back, a good boy just needs to bring his knees up, maybe wrap his legs around my waist. A naughty boy would have to be further restrained, of course. A good, sturdy spreader bar fastened just above the knees should do the trick. I don’t particularly like strapons for the first time around. I prefer a hand-held vibrator with a realistic shape. Having it in hand gives me better control, I find. The vibration isn’t always necessary, but quite useful for stubborn cases. The first thing I do with the vibe is slowly thrust it as deep as it will go. If my boy’s been stretching himself like he was told, the toy should go all the way. If it doesn’t, or if he tenses up too much, then a good spanking may be required to get things back on track. Once the vibe’s in good & deep, I like to leave it still for a few minutes. Give the boy some time to relax, build some more tension. If he’s very good, I might let him suck on my nipples in the interim. Then, once he’s just about gotten used to having something in his ass, I start moving. Slow strokes, at first. It’s all about finding the angle which best hits his prostate. Sometimes this can take a while, but it’s worth taking the time to figure out properly. If you just start banging away, sure, you’re going to hit the mark sometimes…But anything worth doing is worth doing correctly, & an anal orgasm comes from prostate stimulation. Once I’ve found the right spot, I’ll concentrate on that, & slowly build up some speed. The real key here is to use the edge of the head to sortof gently scrape across the prostate with each thrust. I like to thrust in hard & pull out more slowly. By now, his cock is probably hard, bouncing uselessly on his belly. I love the sight of it.

Eventually, I may have to turn the vibrating motor on. If that’s the case, I’ll press it hard against the prostate, & then thrust more shallowly. With all this lead up, there’s basically no way that can fail to elicit an orgasm. It doesn’t always result in proper ejaculation, though. Sometimes you’ll get a dry orgasm instead. That’s always surprising for the boy, but I’m not deterred. I’ll just keep at it until I get what I’m after. Depending on my mood, I might not even stop then. Overstimulation is such a cute look, & a vibe up the ass is a great way to achieve it.

By the time I’m finished, even a naughty boy will certainly have done well enough to deserve a treat & cuddles. (◠‿◠✿)

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