Dangerousangleofadream - Femdom

The masculine urge to do her laundry, wash and wax her vehicle, clean her house, mow her yard, then take her shopping and take her out for a nice steak dinner to thank her for the privilege of serving her.

Humiliated shoplifter

I couldn’t believe how ashamed of myself I felt.

I was hopelessly tied up, my hands locked in handcuffs behind my back, my feet bound together with cord, the woman who had captured me sitting, looking down at me with a satisfied look on her face, my backpack containing all the items I’d taken from the store under her control now, as was I.

“I’ll give you credit,” she said. “You put up a fight, sweetie, you really wanted to get away. But no shoplifter has ever gotten away from me, so I really couldn’t let you be the first.”

Somehow, I didn’t feel any better. The woman had chased me out of the store, and I had run behind the shop trying to get away. She’d caught me, and her strength and determination had worn me down to the point I’d ended up on my back, straddled by her, looking up into her very pretty but unwelcome face, and she’d forced me to surrender. Humiliation had gripped me as I rolled over at her command and got straddled again before she handcuffed me. I hadn’t known at the time she was going to do it, but she bound my feet, then bent my legs and forced my feet to my hands, securing them together with cord.

“I want the cops to see just how I caught you,” she explained, finalizing my bondage before sitting only inches from my blushing face. “All tied up, like a little package, ready to go to jail.”

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Breaking His Ego!

It may sound cruel, but it's really not. It's necessary.

In order to shift to serving her, the way she wants him to serve her, all of his resistance to her authority must be removed.

Every time he has resistance, hesitation, or questions her, this is his ego rearing up and interrupting the flow of power exchange.

It's a deterrent to her truly feeling the fullness of her authority. His ego must be broken if he truly wishes to become hers.

Every woman is different, which means, this process needs to occur, even if he's been trained in the past.

It's a deeply psychological process, in which he learns to let go of any control, and develop and complete level of trust in her.

It's beyond his control if he's to be hers, this process must happen. It usually ends in tears, especially the first time, as he lets go of all his illusion of how his service is meant to be, and adapts to her version only.

When he cries, it's tears of surrender, of recognition, that he belongs to her now.

All his fantasies are left behind, and are only entertained if she decides to entertain them.

Otherwise it's pure service to her.

She gets to explore and direct the relationship, where she wants it to go, her way, and with no male ego to stop her, but rather, a male that 100% supports her.

No more hesitations or topping from the bottom. No more subtle hints of his " ulterior motives" for rewards for submission.

Submission is the reward.

Once his ego is broken, she will feel completely different, and completely in charge.

She will cherish him from that point forward.

She will recognize the value in his submission. She will understand that he needs her loving authority, to fulfill his purpose of serving her as her loyal and dedicated slave.

It's a stronger bond than marriage.

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Punishment Ideas

In power exchange dynamics, punishment refers to an action the Dom takes, usually negative reinforcement, to deter the submissive from breaking rules or from forgetting expectations.

But… what do you to for punishments? Have no fear. I’ve compiled a list, broken down into non-physical and physical punishments, to use as inspiration for your dynamic.

PHYSICAL PUNISHMENTS

- Spanking

- Caning

- Bastinado

- Figging

- Paddling

- Predicament bondage

- Kneeling in rice

- Holding hands in ice water

- Holding ice

- Forced cold shower / bath

- Tickling

- Clips and clamps

- Nipple / genital weights

- Walking on rice, pebbles or leggos  

- Coconut rope

- Tightrope bondage

- Slapping

NON-PHYSICAL PUNISHMENTS

- Writing lines

- Lecture

- Corner time

- Time-out in room

- Loss of privileges (phone, internet, video games)

- Loss of privileges (bathroom, utensil or hand use)

- Writing essay related to the transgression

- Being gagged

- Mouth soaping

- Being reduced to human furniture

- Being made to hold an uncomfortable pose 

- Being ignored / loss of speaking privileges

- Being locked in a cage or closet 

- Orgasm denial

- Orgasm torture

- Using a chilled or heated dildo

- Being made to sleep on the floor 

- Loss of furniture use

- Wearing humiliating or ill-fitting clothing

- Humiliating body writing

- Holding tongue

- Boot-licking

- Household chores (laundry, cleaning, dishes)

- Earlier bedtime

- Being made to scrub bathroom with tongue or toothbrush

- Being forced to perform a boring task (counting marbles, picking up grains of rice) with no other stimulation

- Being blindfolded and forced to listen to hated music / movie / show

- Hold coins against the wall without letting them slip

- No junk food

- Food denial for a day

- Being forced to walk on tiptoes

- Being made to wear uncomfortable shoes

All punishments should be negotiated, and within the limits / boundaries of all parties involved.

A note on masochists: Masochists are not impossible to punish. You just need to be smart about it! Not all masochists like all kinds of pain. Use that. If they like sting, save thuddy toys for correction. But if all else fails, there are dozens of non-physical punishments you can use to discipline them without encouraging them to act out to get their masochistic needs fed.

are you gentle with your new locked boys? how do you not scare them off as you click the lock shut?

I am gentle with my newly locked boys, but by that token, I’m gentle with all my boys. I live to hold their hands, rub their backs, kiss their tears and whisper in their ears. They don’t run away when the lock clicks shut because they can feel my warmth, my affection for them (oh, and they know I’m the only one with the keys).

Tonight I had a newish boy over for dinner. I made him lemongrass citrus salmon with ginger glaze and dumplings. After dinner we cuddled on the couch and I traced the outline of his chin and jaw while nibbling on his ear and running my hands through his hair for an hour or two. I asked him to tell me all about his greatest triumphs and fears while I tweaked his nipples under his shirt. He didn’t get unlocked and he won’t be for another week but I think he left feeling appreciated and loved.