— Nipuna Mehta (via @nipsyyy)

A while back my pharmacist saw my deadname on my profile and accidentially called it out, he corrected and deleted my deadname from the system so only my preferred name shows up now. There was a crowd of people behind me, so as he hands over the pills he apologized, in equal tone and volume as when he called my deadname and lied saying it's been a long day and he didn't mean to call out -his own- name. I quietly told him it was fine and he didn't need to do that for my sake.

His response: "No, it's my name now."

I went to the pharmacist yesterday, his nametag is my deadname. He informed me he's immigrating and in the process he's changed his first name to my deadname to have an English sounding name. That's why he's now able to get a reprint of his nametag to be my deadname. And repeated, with the intense seriousness of someone who is going to die on this hill: "It's mine now. Not yours. I'm taking." His tone indicated that decision is final.

Bro literally deadnamed me once, and has committed to flat out stealing my deadname. It's his now. Legally. Officially. I over heard his co-workers call him by the name.

This is so delicious and simple, chefs kiss

if i went back in time i don't think i'd change a thing even if it was fraught with danger and i had to constantly fight through i'd do it all over again because it led to you

We always talk about how autistic adults are adults, and that's true. but shoutout to the autistics that :

age regress

pet regress

don't feel human

are age stunted by trauma

who feel like a teen/child for whatever reason

who want to be a child again

age sliders in a system

littles in a system

middles in a system

[Jambound] The Wolf & The Lamb

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"Lamb, tell me a story.

There was once a pale man with dark hair who was very lonely.[...] He took an axe and split himself in two. Right. Down. The middle.

So he would always have a friend?

So he would always have a friend."

—Kindred, League of Legends

Im sorry but it is so funny how people outside of tumblr view us. Like why are the tiktokers treating tumblr like some professional ass website you need to do extensive prep before you begin posting on. And the follower farming advice is so fucking funny to me when this is the website where people actively hate getting new followers

Maybe if he was a little less fuckable we wouldn’t be in this mess

I'm glad to have finally figured myself out, it was a war and a half.

Happy Pride Month to everyone 💞

I'm back by unpopular demand to say thank you lesbians for existing. Happy Pride Month, my fellow lavender menaces.

T4T lesbians. GNC lesbians. BIPOC lesbians. Lesbians who knew they were always queer. Lesbians who figured it out as adults. Lesbians who are still questioning. Lesbians who came out before graduating high school. Lesbians who came out later in life. Lesbians who can't or won't come out. Baby dykes and old dykes. Arospec lesbians. Acespec lesbians. Poly lesbians. Married lesbians. Single lesbians. Long distance lesbians. Lesbians who are roommates. Lesbians that don't realise they've been in a relationship for 7 years. Uhaul lesbians.

Butches I love you. Femmes I love you. Studs I love you. Stems I love you. Futches I love you. Kikis I love you. Blue jeans I love you. Transfems I love you. Transmascs I love you. Stones I love you. Pillow princesses I love you. Dykes I love you. Lesbians I love you.

I have definitely missed some types of lesbians, and for that, I apologise. I'm always open to learning new words and ways lesbians understand themselves. Just know I love every kind of lesbian.

I'm a little sad that one of the few bars that didn't feel hostile towards lesbians and queer people who aren't a very specific type of cis gay man has closed, which is why I felt like I needed to make this post.

I'm angry and it's all I'm ever going to be.

I should of known to stay away from you