I hate the way people talk about sex. I hate the way sex is seen by people. The fact that they think sex is about dominance and submission. That it is a relationship of dominance and submission.
Sex is – or at least should be – about exchange, trust, affection. Not about one person dominating the other. Sex is something that has all the potential in the world to be beautiful, but human beings prefer to turn it into something dirty, repulsive, dishonest, selfish, violent. This makes me extremely disappointed.
Tell me you never met a terf without telling me
Most kinksters I have met have been more understanding and accepting than any terf.
You shouldn’t have to convince someone to say “yes.”
The happy ending the BoJack writers gave to Todd Chavez is the most respectfully-written neurodivergent character arc to date send tweet.
Suggestion to women: stop wearing makeup
Suggestion to feminists: stop wearing makeup
Suggestion to radfems: stop wearing makeup
Benefits:
Girls will see bare faced women
Society will be less accustomed to expecting women to wear makeup
A male CEO will not have your money in their pocket
Your money will be in your pocket. You can buy weed with that
Your skin will feel better without harmful chemicals on it
Eventually they'd have to stop making that shit
Less microplastics in the ocean
Less animal testing
You'll have more confidence in yourself
Probably will make capitalism feel bad or something
Proving my point🥱
Most kinksters I have met have been more understanding and accepting than any terf.
I finally got my headphones
You know what that means: DISOCIATE WITH FULL MUSIC ON AND IGNORE MY LIFE PROBLEMS
sorry if this is a rlly rlly dumb question but i’ve heard a lot of ppl talk about men who were falsely accused of rape getting their lives ruined by the accusations, and i wanted to know your thoughts on this.
I’m here to take all questions, as long as the person who asks them is willing to listen and learn. So I hope you listen closely.
The most commonly cited figure says that 5% of rape allegations are false. This figure comes on studies done on college students, of which it is reported roughly 90% do not report their assault to the police. So, if we take the number of rapes that occur and the number of false accusations, that means false accusations occur at a rate closer to around .005%.
So then we must ask, what makes a rape allegation deemed ‘false’? The classic example in popular media is “young girl regrets sex, claims rape”. However, we’ve found in research that simply isn’t the case. What’s more common is a teen girls parent finds out she’s sexually active and files a rape claim, that qualifies as a false claim. Also common is grown adults caught cheating, rape claim filled, often then redacted when the truth comes forward. That counts as a false claim. You know what counts for the majority, though? Let me give you an example. In one case, the police determined that a rape had to be a false claim because people had seen the accuser let her eventual rapist help her take her ski boots off. This classified her claim as a false one. The police saying your claim is false gets it classified in those same fake rape accusation statistics.
So how many false rape claims lead to convictions? A study found that of 216 complaints later classified as false, only 6 led to arrest, and of those 6, only two faced charges. And then those charges were overturned. There is simply no evidence to support the idea that false rape accusations routinely result in serious consequences.
So then how do false rape reports compare to false reports of other crimes? Let’s run some numbers. Over a 25 year period, 52 convictions were overturned due to false rape claims. In that same 25 year period, 790 convictions were overturned due to false murder claims. So that means you’re about 15 times likelier to be falsely convicted of murder than of rape.
So in conclusion, false rape claims aren’t this massive issue people pretend they are. Additionally, if a man you know is acting very concerned that he’s going to get falsely accused of rape, you probably want to avoid being alone with him…these men don’t fear lies, they fear the truth of their actions. They fear accountability.
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