You don't need a patron deity for your practice to be valid, nor for you to be worthy of a deity's time and attention.
a grimoire can be defined as a book of magical spells and invocations; sometimes used interchangeably with "book of shadows" but you can call it whatever you want.
a grimoire can be handwritten or typed, there is no wrong way to construct your grimoire. (for example, my grimoire is typed in a one note document but also stretched across many, many different notebooks and composition books)
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the gods understand your disabilities, mental health, and neurodiversities.
they understand if your disabilities, mental or physical, prevent you from being able to go outside.
they understand you even when you cannot articulate what you mean during prayer or cannot find the words to express gratitude and love.
they understand if you can't spend much time or stand still at their altars.
they understand if executive dysfunction keeps you from making offerings or doing a lot of active practice.
they understand if you have to take breaks and hiatuses from practicing to focus on yourself and your mental or physical health.
they understand if you lose focus during meditation/trance work or cannot do it to begin with.
they understand you and are with you when you cannot get out of bed for mental or physical reasons.
they understand you and are with you during times when you cannot care for yourself or love yourself.
the gods will always understand, love, and accept us for who we are. we are all valid, and we are seen and heard by the gods, even when it feels as if we are alone. đ
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first thing in the morningâtake three slow deep breaths (air/sky) more grounding than immediately checking a phone
notice your feet on the ground taking root when you stand up for the first time of the day, take a little stretch (earth/land)
wash or splash your face to get alll the way awake. then chug a big glass. (water/sea)
appreciate any trees, plants, dirt, or clouds you see
place both hands on your heart to feel your own heat and warmth. feel your heart beating. âi am aliveâ (fire)
wear or carry a rock, hagstone, crystal, talisman, or amulet
in times of stress or dissociation, rub your thumb in small circles on the back of your other hand to ground and soothe. (clockwise for attracting an intention, counterclockwise for banishing)
color magic with clothing
add cinnamon, lavender, or peppermint to coffee according to intention if you donât want to drink tea
stirring tea/coffee according to intention
sometimes i pick a little affirmation for the dayâ âmay i forgive myselfâ âthe universe is within me/the wild is within meâ
visualizationâinhale a bright light and let it fill your lungs, exhaling clouds of negativity
or create a shield with breathing. with each breath, imagine a bubble forming around your body, then your aura, growing with strength.
cleansing shower at the end of the day (intending it to cleanse my aura makes me more motivated to take one, idkw)
if taking a bath, add a dash of moon water
sniff lavender essential oil before bed
look at the moon, talk to it. remind yourself that itâs the same one your ancestors knew.
I original made this post on reddit, but I thought it relevant to post here too. Iâve spoken about some of this stuff on my page already but a little reminder never hurts.
This is in no way a comprehensive list, these are just things he has expressed to me over time that he would appreciate me sharing with others.
1. Lucifer will never approach two different people in the same way.
Lord Lucifer, unlike some other deities or spirits, is extremely in tune to human psychology and will manifest to each human in a very personal way. He will intentionally take a form that communicates something very specific to you, he will utilize your fears, dreams, and the things you do not yet know about yourself to make himself known to you. To me, Lucifer has appeared in a variety of forms depending on the context. Sometimes he appears as a young human man with black hair and blue eyes. Sometimes he appears as an older man with blonde hair and red eyes. Sometimes he appears completely inhuman, like a serpent, a dragon, a raven. Sometimes he appears like a garden, or a planet, or a mountain. All of these forms are used to communicate different things. An older Lucifer is meant to communicate how ancient he is. When he appears as a planet or mountain, heâs communicating how gargantuan he is, a serpent to communicate how subtle, sneaky, and manipulative he can be. Donât be all too surprised if he appears very differently than he did yesterday.
2. Lucifer really despises begging.
This was something he made clear to me right away. Do not beg Lucifer to manifest, do not beg him to pay attention to you, he hates it. Itâs okay to be genuine and express how much you may need him for whatever youâre doing, or to want to be recognized. But do not beg for him to appear as if you were a peasant begging for food. You are a sovereign in your own right, you have every right to a response, you are important and worthy enough to be in his presence. Act like it. Do not grovel and beg him to have pity on you. Absolutely show respect and gratitude. But do not act like youâre âso luckyâ that heâs paying attention to you.
3. On the same note, self degradation is a big no no
Beyond just talking down to yourself, Lucifer hates people who fish for compliments. If youâre constantly calling yourself ugly, Lucifer isnât going to be the one to reassure you that youâre pretty. Sure, he can definitely be the one to give you a little extra confidence, he gives me compliments all the time. But if you degrade yourself enough times, heâll start to agree with you. Yeah, you are ugly. Heâs not going to give in and shower you with the compliments youâre looking for. A large part of this journey with him is finding our own power and confidence. Youâre preventing him from doing his job any time you degrade yourself. And if youâre preventing him from doing what he was created to do, then heâs going to start ignoring you.
4. If you think you know everything youâre already wrong
You will always be a student, regardless of how long youâve been practicing or how mature you are in that practice. When you assume you know and have done everything, you cut yourself off from the possibility of learning more. There is always something new to be learned, and you will be forced to change your mind and evolve. You will never be done learning from him.
5. He doesnât demand loyalty, but he definitely appreciates commitment. He will not trust you if you do not trust him.
Lucifer is the morning star, but he is also the mourning star. He is an entity that has been betrayed and has lost companions time and time again. He is very used to his followers eventually leaving him and going on to do something else. Heâs not going to demand you devote your eternal soul to him if thatâs not something you actively and passionately want to do. He greatly values loyalty and commitment, he wants followers that are going to stick with him through this life and beyond, and he will reward his followers that remain loyal to him. But unless you are truly, and I mean seriously and truly willing to devote your life to upholding his principles, *do not* say you will. Your word is bond, and to betray your word means it is worth nothing. If you go back on your promises, he isnât going to hurt you for it, but heâs also not going to trust you and he is not going to prioritize you.
6. Morality is a human concern. It is your job to define your boundaries, not his.
You need to be very aware of your boundaries and limits before you reach out. Lucifer is not going to be the one to discourage something because itâs mean, immoral, or illegal. It is your responsibility as the human to have morals that you can remain firm on, regardless of if Lucifer himself disagrees or not. Murder and animal abuse are off the table for me. I donât care what the ritual calls for, I am not going to kill a cat or hurt a child. Itâs not Luciferâs responsibility to ensure that I have good morals, it is mine.
7. He will test your boundaries and convictions, he isnât always being serious.
Connected to the last point, Lucifer will mess with you just to test how firm you are in your morals. He will say things he doesnât agree with, just to hear you justify your reasons for believing what you believe. If Lucifer tells me I have to hurt a child for him, it is my job to put my foot down and say no. You are allowed to disagree with Lucifer, in fact sometimes he will force you to. He finds it very admirable when someone is able to hold their ground against him. He will force you to reaffirm what it is that you believe and why you believe it constantly. If he says something heinous, and you truly disagree but meekly agree just to appease him, he will know your will is fragile. You do not have to appease Lucifer. Remain true to yourself.
8. Lucifer does not know shame nor will he reject you because you did something wrong.
Just be honest. Donât lie and donât try to hide it, he can see everything. If I make a mistake or resort to some behaviour I am ashamed of, I can always rest assured that Lord Lucifer will help me approach it with unconditional acceptance. He will not cringe or turn away from your most repressed parts, he will help you acknowledge them and move forward. Having the strength and bravery to say âI know that I shouldnât have done this, and I need help to ensure it doesnât happen againâ is far more admirable than hiding it and running away. You need to be willing to admit when youâre wrong and ignorant so you can be given the tools to grow and get right.
9. Please experiment
This was one of the points he stressed the most. Stop asking for permission and just do it. Maybe itâll work out and maybe it wonât. As a God of Enlightenment, Lucifer is most excited by the pursuit of knowledge. That sometimes means failing. Before you ask someone else if Lucifer likes a certain offering, just try giving it to him. He prefers when his followers learn from experience rather than just following the advice of others. âWill Lucifer like it if I-?â Maybe! âWill Lucifer be offended if I-?â Ask him! âIs it okay if I-?â Who knows! Try it out and record your results.
10. Worship yourself above all else, but leave room for empathy.
âEmpathy is the greatest tool of intellect. In order to understand oneself they must first understand the world that created them, and the people who created the world. Once they understand the people who created the world, they can begin to change themselves, other people, and the world.â
- Lord Lucifer
Above all else you should be honouring yourself and treating yourself as divine. However, do not forget that every other human you share this Earth with is also just as divine as you are. The goal isnât to become a narcissist or to think youâre better than others. Understanding how your actions impact others and being able to empathize with their experiences is essential to spiritual enlightenment. Learn from others, continue to seek knowledge from unexpected places, and do not ever turn your back on humanity.
11. These things take time. Consistency is key
Try to get to a place where your rituals actually become *rituals*, things you do routinely every day until you donât even have to think about it anymore. If youâre working on mantras or enns, say them while you doing something you do every day like showering. Youâre not going to have that breakthrough right away, youâre not going to see results right away. Part of the commitment of the Luciferian path is patience. Some things can only be understood in retrospect. Donât rush anything.
12. Heâs a therapist.
He will make you cry, he will make you remember things youâd rather forget. He will make you aware of all of the factors and childhood experiences that have made you the person you are today. Your locked box is now open, there is no secret he does not know, no fetish or fixation he hasnât seen. Let him help you. His goal is to make you aware and give you the tools to change.
13. Talking shit about other Gods, angels, spirits, or religious will not gain you points with him.
Lucifer is in many contexts considered to be a separate entity than the biblical Satan. He doesnât care about Christianity or Abrahamic religion and its followers, and he gets bored extremely fast when people assume he wants to participate in complaining about Christians all day. Donât get me wrong, he does at times get agitated by organized religions and the way they have historically suppressed knowledge and freedom, he doesnât agree with the biblical doctrine, heâs not a fan of the church, he doesnât necessarily like or agree with the Abrahamic God, and you might catch him throwing some shade from time to time. But he also doesnât have a great hatred towards that God or his people either, in fact Iâd say he is largely apathetic. He despises spiritual slavery, supremacy, and the doctrine that dominates Christianity. But to actively hate God or religion would be to allow them to have power over him. That power would inform his decisions, it would control him. Lucifer does not care enough to shit talk angels, nor will he encourage you to spend your precious minutes ranting about Christians. His philosophy with me has always been âforgive God and move on.â Do not forgive out of righteousness or kindness. Forgive so you can no longer be controlled by your hatred. This doesnât mean be complacent or nice for the sake of being nice. When you see injustice, call it out. But donât obsess over a religion youâre not apart of and a God you donât worship.
14. Bigotry is a huge turn off
Lucifer is the God of liberation. He is the lord of the liminal, the atypical, and the rejected. If you hold any kind of belief that places one human below another, heâs really really not going to entertain it. It doesnât matter what kind of discrimination it is. Racism, homophobia, transphobia, islamphobia, antisemitism, fatphobia, ableism etc. He doesnât care. Lucifer truly values diversity and appreciates those who have been hated the most. He is a God of the minority, and he holds the greatest solidarity with those whom society has outcasted. The queer, the freak, the insane and the obscene, Lucifer is the patron of. If you see those who are different than you as lesser than, if you reject the immense diversity of the human race, and if you look down upon others because they are too weird, or too difficult to understand, Lord Lucifer is not going to take you seriously at all.
15. Say thank you
Lucifer likes recognition. If youâve recently received some blessing that you think came from him, some kind of recognition or thank you is appreciated.
I think thatâs it! These are all the major things weâve discussed most recently and have remained consistent in all the conversations Iâve had with other Luciferians. Lord Lucifer is an incredibly patient and truly wonderful presence in my life and I hope the same is true for you! Ave Lord Lucifer and Hail Thyself!
Botanical illustrations taken from 'The Flowering Plants, Grasses, and Ferns of Great Britain' by Anne Pratt, Edward Stepp.
Published 1905 by F. Warne.
New York Botanical Garden, LuEsther T. Mertz Library.
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Play tarot klondike solitaire while listening to music as a creative way to sort the cards in order before reshuffling them again.Â
Can also be used as divination, as source describes, for a grand total of one part game, one part cleansing, and one part divination!
The Gods donât find you embarrassing. The Gods donât care about seeming cool and professional for the approval of others.
Make that fucking aesthetic photo collage for Aphrodite with cute pics you found on Pinterest .
Dress up like Hermes and go for a damn walk.
Collect random stones you think are cool and put them on your altar.
Put that photo of that cartoon character that reminds you of your deity on your altar.
Make that Minecraft temple to Hekate, domesticate those damn Minecraft wolves for Cerberus.
Make your deities in the sims!
Write soppy melodramatic poetry for Dionysus that no one else will read.
Make self insert fanfics about your favourite Gods and write them all as your best friends. Let them interact with your edgy ocs.
Create an AU where you and your Gods are all characters from your favourite anime.
Record silly little songs for them
Make them paintings that are full of clashing colors and weird forms.
Draw them a fursona
Wear that bright yellow outfit for Apollon.
Put on a dramatic makeup look for Aphrodite.
Call your closest deity that silly little nickname you have for them and let them call you one too.
Share your special interests with your Gods. Design your God as a pokĂŠmon or a crystal gem, or a sonic character.
Those losers that try to make you feel bad for being passionate will never have what you have.
In the words of the Great Lord Hermes: âEvery human I have ever liked was at least a little bit cringeâ
BE CRINGE. BE PROUD. THE GODS LOVE YOU.
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