Detailed Trans + Nonbinary Flag

Just a little reminder:

[pt. Just a little reminder: / pt end]

Those who actively choose to harass and suicide bait rq users are NOT welcome here. Yeah I don't like radqueers either, but that does NOT give you an excuse to continuously harass them and tell them to off themselves. That is taking it way too fucking far, and does nothing to actually help. In fact, harassing somebody is only going to push them further into that mindset and lower the chances of them being willing to hear you out.

What you SHOULD be doing is properly educating them in a calm and civil manner as to WHY Radqueer is inherently harmful. And if they choose to not hear you out or refuse to educate themselves then so be it, that's their decision and again, isn't a sign that you go harassing that user. Just block them and move on. It takes 5 seconds to do so.

It's saddening that I even need to state this, and frankly at this point I'm close to not associating us with anti-radqueer spaces. Especially when I see folks who blatantly choose to treat others as though they are horrid monsters that deserve to die rather than living beings that could still be learning and growing.

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TL;DR: Stop continuously harassing rqs and telling them to kts. It's disgusting as fuck and does nothing to actually help folks.

I'll probably be turning the comments off for this post and turning off anon for now, as I really do not want to deal with arguments on this post rn, as well as the reason that I don't want extremist antis to come into my notes telling me that I'm "becoming a radqueer" or that I'm "a radqueer sympathizer" just because I'm anti-harassment.

paxiqueer

a queer stance that is inherently anti-radqueer but also inherently anti harassment and pro recovery. because APPERANTLY we need this /neg /targeted

it's emoji code, should you want to use it, is 💬🤝!!

beliefs:

radqueers should be viewed as innocent until proven guilty, and this goes per individual/system, not per the entire community

no one should be harassed for their beliefs as it doesnt fix anything and simply hurts people (what is considered harassment under paxiqueer is here and will get updated via suggestions)

recovery and compassion, not othering and blind hatred.

active support for radqueers who consider leaving the community

treat those, even those you dislike, how you'd like to be treated.

ask, question, talk to, before deciding something or someone is bad

inherently pro:

arissomei, atypical dysphoria and support for those with atypical dysphoria. even those radqueers think we wont tolerate

ALL paraphilias

alterhumanity, nonhumanity, believing all systems right to exist

mogai, aspec identities, contradictory identities (lesboys, bi lesbians, etc.), radinclus (the user doesnt need to be radinclus, just okay with it)

open-mindedness

psych criticalism, knowing psychology exists to help people while being aware it is flawed

safe amputation/severing of nerves for BIID, only as a last resort (due to the risks that come with it)

educated kink, informed consent, SSC, RACK, using kink as a safe way to cope

recovery, recovering radqueers, ex/former radqueers, those who got groomed into it

support for ALL trauma, healthy coping

past abusers who regret who or what they used to be and want to grow better

education

it is inherently anti:

harassment

any form of prejudice/preconception

radqueer ideologies, specifically transids, transitioning to stuff that would harm you or other people, coining MUDs, pro/comp/neu contact paras, etc.

"fults"

safequeer, exclusionism, transmeds/truscum, radfems of any kind.

believing anything is inherently a gateway to the radqueer community, thats not how that works.

xenosatanism and everything it stands for

self harm (including emotional/psychological), harm towards other people, "hypoharmful"

nccnc, minors in kink (ghosting through the tags or blogs is okay but do not engage with it for both you and the adults' safety I beg)

victim blaming, fake claiming

believing any disorder is inherently abusive or dangerous, including but not limited to npd, schizophrenia, aspd, bpd, pedophilic or zoophilic disorder, etc.

it is not set on:

shipcourse

syscourse

tagging @blankqueer @egoistboy @autumnmoon-morrison @acetrappolaswife @anti-radqueer-zone