I Want So Badly To Be More Offline But The Women In My Phone Need Me

twitter hiding my post because i said the word cis 😭😭

Crash (1996) | Dir. David Cronenberg

ok i've been called a sex freak tranny too i get where you're coming from but like also please be more careful with extremely vague posts about Problematic Kinks

no. people's openness about what two consenting adults can do in private has no bearing on how likely they are to be child abusers or close ranks about child abusers & thinking there is some correlation is a sign that your stance on sexual abuse is mediated more by disgust reaction and aesthetic associations than by structural analysis. there is a pretty hard and obvious line between not condemming consensual sex acts between adults and being a pedophile and thinking that it's some sort of spectrum or slippery slope there imo speaks poorly to your conceptualization of why SA is a bad thing.

people love to say that X or Y kink Normalizes Abuse, but, like, actually think about communities where sexual abuse is 'normalized' in society. is the problem with the catholic church that it's too pro-kink? is the problem with US professional gymnastics that it's too pro-kink? is the problem with the amish that they're too pro-kink? was the problem with the british entertainment industry in the 1970s that it was too pro-kink? is the problem with the prison system that it's too pro-kink? &c. &c. &c.

sexual abuse doesn't happen because people are degenerate perverts and everyone is too accepting of that, sexual abuse happens because society is full of institutions that give adults structural power over children and men structural power over women. giving credence to the former, even in the form of thinking you have to be "super careful" about perverts, is a straightforwardly reactionary position.

wake up

deny yourself

4. phone in bed

our type of girls rule!!!

This is a card handmade by our 8 year-old tomboy friend, as a thank you for Ivan’s help building her new playhouse (which includes a pulley system! and a movable ship’s wheel!). Ivan’s name is written in flames inside the card, and our tomboy friend enclosed three photos of herself fishing and climbing ropes. We LOVE this kid.

Were you lucky enough to have a butch or femme buddy or role model as a kid?

(photo credit: Mél Hogan, a.k.a. one of the queer geniuses behind No More Potlucks)

butch patriarchy kink will fix you btw

Lesbian Lesmand theater scene for people with their third eye open

thoughts on the word nostril because i hate it

i think lily-rose depp needed more screen time

can’t believe those conservative wellness weirdos are rubbing beef tallow on their bodies… that’s the shit they fry french fries in at steak ‘n shake

i feel like it's so backhanded to interact with writing (human writing) on tumblr and then turn around and use ai bots. ai literally vamps all the creativity on the internet and bases its responses OFF FANFICTIONS (without permission) HUMAN MINDS CREATED. without like plagiarism repercussions although i'm not sure fanfiction could get that serious, but still; stealing. not only that, but ai is just bad for the environment. in this time where ai is wedging itself into unnecessary corners of our life, we should be supporting actual writers and not these leech machines.