“Sit down and shut up, men don’t have oppression to speak on, so men speaking on their problems is always and in every circumstance speaking over women/in opposition of feminism”
is just an extension of
“sit down and shut up, men are supposed to be stoic about their problems”
from toxic masculinity,
but this time dressed up dressed up in twisted-pro-feminism reasoning that doesn’t actually address the underlying problem with the attitude of societal repression of men’s emotions and discussions of things by which they’re negatively affected (be that by oppression or not).
The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.
The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.
The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.
The “get stuff done while you wait” method.
The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.
The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.
The “break the task into smaller steps” method.
The “treat yourself like a pet” method.
The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.
The “put on a persona” method.
The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.
The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.
The “wait for a trigger” method.
The “do it for your future self” method.
The “might as well” method.
The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.
The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.
The “make it easy” method.
The “junebugging” method.
The “just show up” method.
The “accept when you need help” method.
The “make it into a game” method.
The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.
The “trick yourself” method.
The “break it into even smaller steps” method.
The “let go of should” method.
The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.
The “fork theory” method.
The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.
Lupins and Indian Paintbrush!!!
let's rest with mama
I love how sashiko patterns grow.
Before, I’ve patched on the inside, but with jeans I’ve found that they can become a little too tight after multiple patches. Besides, I really like how the fraying edge of the patch adds to the effect.
For some reason the versions of this where he gives two salutes is being deleted and replaced with a version with a quick cut to a cheering crowd so I’ll just share it here 🙃
them and their product placement drinks
Lighting your hot colleague’s cigarette is almost as sexy as stealing stealing it.
Sam Rockwell and Eric Bogosian, not sure of the year... I fucking love this picture. 🔥
Reblogging for *ahem* posterity.
they forcefemming luigi so straight men will be incentivized to learn about why the us healthcare system is broken
This is just incredible.
the mythology of Ronan Lynch
“Andrew kissed him like this was a fight with their lives on the line, like his world stopped and started with Neil's mouth.”
Fandom consumer. Parent. Spouse. Xeriscape gardener. Rabbit hole enthusiast. 40-something. Neurodivergent (ADHD). Bisexual/pansexual. She/her.
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