@slutwifeworld This is no coincidence. She dresses like a slut. She likes men staring at her. She likes flirting with men.
You like her dressing like a slut. You like it when men stare at her. You like it when she flirts with men.
Stop delaying. You want her to be a slutwife. You know that she wants it too. So bring it up to her already. Tell her to go all the way. It is what you both need.