I Am So Sick Of Guys Asking Me If I'm A Boobs Or Ass Kinda Girl As Soon As They Find Out I'm Gay. Like

The person I reblogged this from is super cute and deserves to have a nice day

from Birds of Prey! 💕❤

How to Deal With Being Overwhelmed

I heard this tip from a professor I had over the summer and I find it super helpful whenever I have something big that’s stressing me out. 

1. Place your hand directly in front of your eyes. Imagine that in your hand is everything that is stressing you out at the moment, whether it be tests, relationships, personal issues, etc

2. Breath in for a count of 4, and as you do so, move your hand farther and farther away from your eyes in a straight line until it’s as far from you as possible,

3. Hold for a count of 4. Take note of where your hand is now, how little space it takes up in your field of vision. Focus on other things in the room; the color of the walls, the shape of the furniture, the sounds going on outside.

4. Breath out for a count of 4. Your hand is everything that is stressing you out, and everything else you can see is the rest of your life. The things that are stressing you out right now can seem so immediate and overwhelming, but remember that it only makes up a small fraction of your life, and there are so many things left to look forward to. 

5. Repeat as needed. Remember, you’ve got everything well in hand.

huh so much wlw content seems centered around this idea of looking perfect and quaint and it feels so wrong to me. i hate seeing art of two skinny girls w full faces of makeup barely kissing in a pastel color palette. when i thought i was straight so much of my time was consumed by thinking “do i look good enough for others?” “am i digestible?” and that exact concept is.. the same shit just flipped on it’s head. i don’t love girls cause i think they’re ~stars twinkling in the evening~ i like them because they’re funny and loud and strong and real human beings and so much more than your aesthetic

Strawbabies 🍓

yes um I was tagged by @utmostcontraire so here's this!

rules: answer 20 questions! tag 20 bloggers you want to get to know better.

1.name: reagan

2.nickname: none, feel free to give me one!

3.zodiac sign: scorpio! rowr

4.height: 5'7"

5.languages: English, limited Gaeilge

6.nationality: Irish-American

7.favorite season: definitely Autumn

8.favorite flowers: pink carnations

9.favorite scent: my great grandmas perfume, Angel

10.favorite colors: red and black

11.favorite animal: rats!!

12.favorite fictional character: harley quinn!!!!

13.coffee, tea, or hot chocolate: hm. hot chocolate.. for now.

14.average sleep hours: typically 9

15.dog or cat person: dog

16.number of blankets you sleep with: 2 as well as flannel sheets

17. dream trip: back to Ireland

18.blog established: I forget but I think 2019

19.followers: I'm gonna guess around 15?

20.random fact: I'm a lesbian. girls r life. :)

so the whole 20 people thing.. only gonna tag a few.. aha

@motleyfolk @treesinger @tresapphic @shinystuffinmypockets @normalizefemalebodyhair @smol-and-shiny @wlw-sinner @billionstars @mxdwestwxtch @opalines @babeywlw @fizzledlines @potoh @imthegaygirl

a beautiful love

Aw, this is cute.