I learned from my mother how to love
the living, to have plenty of vases on hand
in case you have to rush to the hospital
with peonies cut from the lawn, black ants
still stuck to the buds. I learned to save jars
large enough to hold fruit salad for a whole
grieving household, to cube home-canned pears and peaches, to slice through maroon grape skins, and flick out the sexual seeds with a knife point.
I learned to attend viewings even if I didn’t know the deceased, to press the moist hands of the living, to look in their eyes and offer sympathy, as though I understood loss even then.
I learned that whatever we say means nothing, what anyone will remember is that we came. I learned to believe I had the power to ease awful pains materially like an angel.
Like a doctor, I learned to create from another’s suffering my own usefulness, and once you know how to do this, you can never refuse.
To every house you enter, you must offer healing: a chocolate cake you baked yourself, the blessing of your voice, your chaste touch.
WHAT'S YOUR SIGN?
PISCES - THE SEX ADDICT(2/19-3/20) EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor Energetic. Predict future. BEST kisser. Always get what they want. Very Attractive Easy going. RARE Find. GOOD when found. Loves being in long relationship Talkative. Romantic. Caring. NOT one to give up. 16 years of luck if you repost.
GEMINI- CRAVES A LOT OF SEX (5/21-6/20) Outgoing. Lovable. Extremely energetic. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser. EXTREMELY adorable. Good personalities. Loves relationships.Addictive. Loud. 16 years of luck if you repost.
TAURUS- THE ONE U CAN’T TOUCH & SEX ADDICT (4/20-5/20) Coldest motha fucka on earth. Outgoing, Loveable, the best in bed, strong, artistic, caring person, The MOST Irresistible of all, popular, Unpredictable, STUBBORNN, 16 years of luck if you repost.
ARIES - THE PLAYER (3/21-4/19) Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners ... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of luck if you repost.
AQUARIUS - THAT NIGGA (1/20-2/18) Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Very caring person ! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great at telling Stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to. 12 years of luck if you repost.
CANCER - HARD LOVER (6/22-7/22) Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being In long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Normally not a Fighter, but will if neccessary. Someone loves them right now. 2 years of luck if you repost.
LEO - THE SEX MANIAC (7/23-8/22) Very talkative, outgoing and popular. Nice to everyone they meet. Wild and ravenous in the bed and everywhere else. Beautiful smile and personality. Strong intuition. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, Fun and SEXY. Have own unique appeal. Irresistible lover. Most caring person you’ll ever meet! However not the kind of person you wanna mess with...they will kick your ass... u might end up crying... 10 years of luck if you repost.
VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER (8/23-9/22) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. EXTREMELY SEXY. Predict future. Loves being in long relationships. Has lots of friends. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Also not a fighter, but if they have to, they will also knock the lights out of you if it comes down to it.Cool. Loves to own Geminis’ in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of luck if you repost.
LIBRA - THE PIMP (9/23-10/22) Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.
SCORPIO - THE VIRGIN (10/23-11/21) Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Best kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. ONE OF A KIND.Gorgeous Smile.Not one to mess with. The best sexual partners in the zodiac. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of luck if you repost.
SAGITTARIUS - THE ONE (11/22-12/21) Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying! Caring and kind. Smart. Loyal. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.
CAPRICORN - THE SEXY ONE (12/22-1/19) Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always Wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Sweet. Loud. Loyal. Beautiful. Goofy. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. Loves to smile. Beautiful laugh. Patient. Cautious. Bit of naughty.The one and only. 7 Years of luck if you repost
💫CHARMING AWAKENING 💫
I need you like Earth need the Sun. Without you, there would be no life. You warm me like no other. For me, you are my star, the one who keeps me alive and going. Thank you for existing.
There are a variety of opinions on this subject, but I wanted a definitive list of must-haves after years of personal experience and discussions with Men about what they like and want.
1. Lose your ego. In this moment, you are a cocksucker; embrace it. You will choke, spit up, and be covered in throat slime. The Man you’re servicing may treat you roughly, even rudely. Accept it. You’re a cocksucker with only one function: pleasing him. Do it without pride.
2. Tease him. Men love teasing and edging at the start of a blowjob. Their balls tighten and the juice within begins to churn in the anticipation of what is to come. Lick the head, especially the underside. Flick it with your tongue. Gently stroke the shaft with your hand every so often. Smile.
3. Eye contact. As you take his cock into your mouth, look up at him. A guy loves fucking holes, but eye contact makes you more submissive TO HIM and tells him that he is your Master.
4. No teeth. Obviously there will be some Men who like teeth running along the shaft of the cock, but that’s rare. Avoid it as much as possible. One trick is to extend your tongue out of your mouth slightly, providing protection from the lower teeth (and also opening the throat) as the cock slides in and out of your mouth.
5. Deepthroat. Not everyone manages to master deepthroating, but this is a skill that can be learned through training. Get a dildo and train your gag reflex. Push yourself. You can improve. Men want deepthroat, and you’re their cocksucker of the moment. Learn it.
6. Don’t forget the balls. A Man’s balls are the most sensitive part of his body. Why would a cocksucker neglect such an opportunity to please a Man or heighten his pleasure? Cradle them in your hand while sucking. Roll them around gently. Occasionally take your mouth off his cock and swirl your tongue over them. One added advantage of this is the more direct exposure to his testosterone-laced musk that concentrates around his balls, which will send you deeper into subspace.
7. No blueballing. Once you start to suck his cock, you’re in it until he squirts his last drop of cum. No complaining about aching jaws or a lack of interest. You’re a cocksucker (remember the first commandment) and you’re expected to do your job TO COMPLETION.
8. Moan and dirty talk. Moaning while sucking cock serves two functions: (a) it tells the Man how much you love the size and taste of it, and (b) the vibrations of your moans rising up from your throat stimulate his cock. You can occasionally tell him how much you love sucking his cock, but don’t overdo it! SHOW HIM you love it with your smiles and enthusiasm!
9. The Man does what he wants. It doesn’t matter what he wants to do, roll with it. He’s the Man and you’re his cocksucker. If he wants to throat-fuck you, fine. If he wants to slap his cock on your face or tongue, don’t object. This especially goes for his cumshot. If he wants to cum on your face, let him. If he wants to cum in your mouth ...
10. You must swallow. Nothing upsets a Man more than seeing a cocksucker spit out his cum. It is an ugly and disrespectful rejection of his virility and Manhood. If you don’t like the taste, swallow it anyway. You will survive. Remember, you’re sucking this Man’s cock in order to please him, and his cumshot is your reward for a job well done. Swallow it with pride!
Intimacy is not just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy
10 Clear Signs Your Wife Hates You
It’s a sad reality that love could degenerate into hatred.
When lovers are starting, they never anticipate a day will come when they will start to loathe each other.
That spouse you can’t live without may gradually become your worst nightmare.
Getting to this point is usually gradual.
This is why marriage is hard work.
It’s for two adults, a man and his wife, who would keep choosing each other each new day.
A woman who loved you passionately from the beginning won’t just start hating for no reason.
Something must trigger it.
It starts with anger, and then resentment builds,
Over time, it becomes a full-blown hatred.
Many women have moved the level of deep affection for their husbands to nursing feelings of hatred for them.
As a matter of fact, getting to this point means the marriage is almost over, except steps are taken to address the issues that brought about this.
Have you seen some behaviours in your wife lately that were absent from the beginning?
You can’t stop wondering what happened to your ever-sweet wife.
It has gotten so bad that she doesn’t care if anything happens to you.
And amid arguments, she won’t stop telling you how much she hates you.
I’m afraid to tell you that you don’t need to take that as mere words.
The following are signs your wife hates you.
1. *She stops caring about you.*
When a woman who once cared about every detail about you stops showing she cares, it’s a red signal.
And it would help if you didn’t take it lightly.
Naturally, women are nurturing beings.
When they are in love, everyone knows.
They put in so much effort, and one of the ways they express this love is to show care.
From constant verbal expressions of their love to showering their husband’s gifts,
They want the men in their lives happy.
They are always ready to go the extra mile to make their husband happy.
If your wife has been doing this but suddenly stops, it’s a clear indication that there’s fire on the mountain, and if you still treasure what you both share, you may need to take deliberate steps to salvage your home.
2. *She stops being intimate with you.*
Whenever you try to make sexual advances to her, and she rejects it constantly, it’s a pointer to the fact that she hates you.
No matter how much you try to catch her attention through your gestures, she’d have none of it.
And no, there’s no way you can force her to do what she’s not willing to do.
Women usually attach emotions to sex, making giving themselves to someone they don’t love difficult.
But she will readily give herself to you when she’s happy and in love.
3. *She stops showing interest in your affairs*
One of the ways couples express love to each other is through the interest they show in their spouse’s endeavors.
If she’s ever-present in every aspect of your life,
She’s always available to support and encourage you at all times.
But she stops showing interest, and she sounds so indifferent when you fill her in on some crucial steps you’re taking,
It shows she has lost her love for you.
And at this time, she’s only putting up with you.
4. *She starts criticizing and belittling you*
Sharp criticisms from people we love hit deeper than from people who know little or nothing about us.
When your wife, who used to believe so much in you and gave herself to ensuring that you become the best version of yourself, starts criticizing and belittling your efforts,
It’s a sign that she has developed a hatred for you.
Everything you do nauseates her.
She makes you feel you’re not good enough.
She taunts you with her words.
To her, nothing you do makes sense.
5. *She starts making decisions on her own*
Before now, you both made decisions together as a couple.
You both consider many factors before you pick the most logical one.
Even to the minutest details, she carries you along.
Of course, this is how a healthy marriage should be.
But now, she makes decisions independently without running them by you.
Sometimes, you get to know when she mentions it in passing or don’t even hear of it.
She starts saying, *“I don’t owe you an explanation.”*
And she is unbothered about your feelings.
She deliberately makes these moves to spite you, and she doesn’t give a damn.
*This is a sign that she hates you.*
6. *She stonewalls*
From constantly arguing with you, she could start stonewalling.
She gives a silent treatment.
When she notices your presence, she leaves the room.
She avoids having conversations with you.
Her response to your questions is always a one-word answer or silence.
She treats you as if you don’t exist.
It’s an obvious sign that your presence disgusts her.
7. *She starts doing the exact thing you hate*
Being with you for some time, she knows what you like and hate.
Once she starts doing those things you hate and she refuses to budge no matter how you talk to her about it,
It’s an indication that she has lost her love for you.
When a woman loves her husband, she does everything to please him. One of which is doing what he likes and avoiding what he hates.
8. *She stops confiding in you*
When she stops discussing essential matters about her with you,
She now seems to you like a stranger and not a wife.
And you observe that her friends and family have become her confidant, which means she has lost her love for you.
When love is lost, trust will surely be missing as well.
9. *She tells you, The female gender is an interesting and mostly emotional bunch.*
When in love, they invest their words, time, and resources, including their emotions.
Most women won’t hesitate to express their love verbally.
However, when your once-loving wife looks you in the eye and tells you she hates you.
Please just know that there is fire on the mountain!
Her words are an indication of how she truly feels.
10. *She starts being unfaithful*
This seems to be the height of it all.
A woman who loves you will do everything to see that the marriage works.
She makes every effort to ensure that her love for you is sustained.
However, when you observe that she starts getting emotionally attached to someone else without giving a damn about how you feel,
It’s a clear indication that you’ve lost her.
Some women whose husbands cheated on them sometimes do this to pay back.
*_Conclusion_*
For many reasons, a woman who once loved you starts developing hatred toward you.
When there’s a misunderstanding in the home, it’s essential to resolve it.
If you allow it to linger, you already give room for resentment.
Once hatred sets in, it’s almost impossible to save that marriage, yet, it’s not impossible to resolve it.
Especially if you both still want the marriage.