HOW TO TURN ON WOMEN

The Meaning of Existence

by Les Murray

Everything except language knows the meaning of existence. Trees, planets, rivers, time know nothing else. They express it moment by moment as the universe.

Even this fool of a body lives it in part, and would have full dignity within it but for the ignorant freedom of my talking mind.

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Dear Santa,

I know that I'm probably on your "naughty" list this year. I'm very sorry and I'll try to do better next year.

I'm not writing to you asking you to bring me toys, although a Lovesense Lush would be wonderful.

But...If it is at all possible, can you please bring me a werewolf/wolf man like the ones in the stories that I read, so that I can live out my filthiest fantasy experience. Even just one time?

Thank you Santa...I'll make sure I leave you cookies and milk by the Christmas tree.

Merry Christmas

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Happy International Woman's Day

How do I give in to my husband's wife sharing fantasy?

My husband wanted to share me with his best friend. I was very much against it on moral grounds. He was nice enough and treated me well when he was over at our house. He had flirted with me a few times but always restrained and subtle, more like pleasant flattery about my hair or how I was dressed than anything sexual. My husband asked me once if I thought I would hate having sex with his friend. I told that I most likely wouldn’t hate it actually doing it but I would hate how I felt about myself for doing it.

I’m not a religious girl but I am spiritual and having sex outside my marriage didn’t sit well with me spiritually. He told me several times that I had his permission to cheat and therefore it wouldn’t be cheating, perhaps that’s true, but for me it would still feel like cheating. Sometime after that, he asked me if there was anything I wanted to do that I hadn’t been doing where his friend could accompany me.

I knew he was trying to find something that I’d find acceptable to go somewhere or do something that would have me spending time with his friend in hopes it would lead to something. I really did miss cultural activities like art museums, theater, symphony concerts, it was really a long list. He’d never refused to got with me but over the 8 years of our marriage, his lack of interest and enthusiasm meant I went less often with him. I did do those kinds of things by myself or with a girlfriend but gradually went less and less often.

So I told him that yes, if his friend wanted to go to an art museum with me, I would go. His friend wasn’t all that knowledgeable about art but he was curious and most importantly, he listened to me. He was genuinely attentive to my thoughts and feelings. That’s how it began and we did things like that more often and before too long, we were dating. What I mean my dating is that he took me places, we talked and laughed and I let him kiss me.

After a few dates where he kissed me, I found myself getting sexually aroused when we kissed and at some point I came to the realization that I wanted him to seduce me. I wanted to get myself into a compromising situation and just let things proceed gently but inevitably into letting him take complete advantage of me. I didn’t want to have to take responsibility for actually making a decision to allow him to have sex with me.

He must have known what it would take. He took me to an opera performance out of town. The only part of it I really planned was I bought a new nightgown, tastefully but alluring. That’s how I gave in to my husband’s wife sharing fantasy. One small step at a time. I feel something like that might work for you, assuming it’s something you really want to do.

How does it feel to share your wife?

Open relationships and non-monogamous arrangements involve consensually and ethically engaging in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners. Here are some dos and don'ts to consider:

Dos:

Communication: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and expectations with your partner(s) openly and regularly.

Consent: All parties involved should provide informed and enthusiastic consent to ensure that everyone is comfortable with the arrangement.

Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and rules that everyone agrees upon. These boundaries may include rules about safe sex, emotional involvement, or time management.

Respect: Treat all partners with respect and kindness. Respect their feelings and emotions, and be considerate of their needs.

Safe Sex: Practicing safe sex is essential to protect everyone's health. Discuss and agree on safe sex practices with all partners.

Regular Check-Ins: Continue to communicate and check in with your partner(s) and yourself to ensure that the arrangement is working for everyone involved.

Seek Support: Consider seeking support or guidance from a therapist or counselor experienced in non-monogamous relationships if you encounter challenges.

Don'ts:

Don't Cheat: Non-monogamy should always be consensual. Cheating or breaking established rules can lead to trust issues and harm in the relationship.

Don't Assume: Never assume that your partner(s) are comfortable with a particular situation or arrangement. Always ask and discuss.

Don't Neglect Existing Relationships: If you're in a primary or existing relationship, make sure to prioritize and nurture it. Non-monogamy should enhance, not replace, your current relationship(s).

Don't Ignore Emotions: Emotions like jealousy, insecurity, and fear can arise in non-monogamous relationships. Don't ignore these feelings; address them with open communication.

Don't Rush: Take your time in exploring non-monogamy. Rushing into it without proper communication and preparation can lead to problems.

Remember that non-monogamy isn't for everyone, and it's essential to find a relationship structure that works best for you and your partner(s). What's most important is that all parties involved feel comfortable, respected, and fulfilled within the agreed-upon arrangement.

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