Tum Kuch Nakhre Hi Utha Liya Karo Mera

What a MOTHER means to me;

Multitask personality who

Overwork to Offer Opportunities to everyone with

Tender heartedness Holy Spirit filled,

Healthy and Holistic teacher and trainer who

Encourages people to take a risk in for them to be

Reliable and Respected by humanity.

MOST ATTITUDES THAT DESTROY MARRIAGES YOU NEED TO STOP.

1. Laziness kills Marriage

2. Lack of Apology (Not being able to say I am sorry when faulty) kills Marriage

3. Lack of trust kills marriage

4. Lack of mutual respect kills marriage

5. Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice, and Anger Kill Marriage

6. Unnecessary Arguments kills marriage

7. Keeping Secrets from Your Partner kills marriage

8. Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

9. Poor Communication kills marriage

10. Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to Your Partner in every aspect.

11. Relating more with your parents or family members than Your Partner kills marriage

12. Lack of inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage.

13. Nagging kills marriage

14. Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage

15. Spending less or little time with Your Partner kills marriage

16. Being too independent minded kills marriage

17. LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending or partying, financial indiscipline, kill marriage

18. Exposing the inadequacies of Your Partner to Your parents or Siblings kills marriage

19. Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together, kills not only marriage but your life

20. Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.

21. Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage.

22. Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage.

23. Not understanding Your role and position , not taking responsibility in marriage as instituted by GOD kills marriage.

24. Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional, financial, and physical needs of your partner kills marriage

25. When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

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Tips for writing plot twists

1. Start with a false sense of security

• The best plot twists work because the audience feels confident they know what’s coming.

• How? Lay down a trail of clues that mislead without outright lying. Create a sense of inevitability.

• Example: A detective follows all the evidence to one suspect, only for the real criminal to be someone they completely overlooked.

2. Plant the seeds early

• A plot twist is most satisfying when it feels inevitable in hindsight. Subtly sprinkle clues throughout the narrative.

• How? Use small, seemingly insignificant details that take on new meaning after the reveal.

• Example: A side character is always conveniently absent during key events—later revealed to be orchestrating everything.

3. Subvert expectations without betraying logic

• A twist should surprise readers, but it must feel plausible within the story’s framework.

• How? Flip assumptions in a way that feels earned. Avoid twists that rely on coincidences or break the rules of your world.

• Example: A character who appears harmless and incompetent is revealed as the mastermind, with subtle foreshadowing tying everything together.

4. Exploit emotional investment

• Twists land harder when they involve characters the audience deeply cares about. Use relationships and personal stakes to heighten the impact.

• How? Create twists that change how readers perceive the characters they thought they knew.

• Example: The protagonist’s mentor is revealed to be the antagonist, making the betrayal personal and devastating.

5. Use red herrings strategically

• Mislead readers by planting false clues that draw attention away from the real twist.

• How? Make the red herrings believable but not overly obvious. They should enhance, not distract from, the story.

• Example: A mysterious object everyone believes is cursed turns out to be completely irrelevant, shifting focus from the true danger.

6. Timing is everything

• Reveal the twist at the moment it has the most dramatic or emotional weight. Too early, and it loses impact. Too late, and it feels rushed.

• How? Build tension to a breaking point before the twist shatters expectations.

• Example: A twist that flips the climax—when the hero thinks they’ve won, they realize they’ve fallen into the villain’s trap.

7. Allow for multiple interpretations

• A great twist makes readers rethink the entire story, encouraging them to revisit earlier scenes with new understanding.

• How? Design the twist so that the story works both before and after the reveal.

• Example: A character’s cryptic dialogue is recontextualized after the twist, revealing their hidden motives.

8. Pair the twist with consequences

• A twist shouldn’t just shock—it should change the trajectory of the story. Make it matter.

• How? Show how the twist raises the stakes or deepens the conflict, forcing the characters to adapt.

• Example: After discovering the villain is their ally, the protagonist must choose between loyalty and justice.

9. Keep the reader guessing

• A single twist is good, but layered twists create an unforgettable story. Just don’t overdo it.

• How? Build twists that complement each other rather than competing for attention.

• Example: A twist reveals the villain’s plan, followed by a second twist that the hero anticipated it and set a counter-trap.

10. Test the twist

• Before finalizing your twist, ensure it holds up under scrutiny. Does it fit the story’s logic? Does it enhance the narrative?

• How? Ask yourself if the twist creates a moment of genuine surprise while respecting your audience’s intelligence.

• Example: A shocking but clever reveal that leaves readers satisfied rather than feeling tricked.

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she walks her fingers along my spine

with the almighty power of fire and rain

a noteworthy performance that reduces me to puddles

i bring her with me

soaking in these currents

How do I give in to my husband's wife sharing fantasy?

My husband wanted to share me with his best friend. I was very much against it on moral grounds. He was nice enough and treated me well when he was over at our house. He had flirted with me a few times but always restrained and subtle, more like pleasant flattery about my hair or how I was dressed than anything sexual. My husband asked me once if I thought I would hate having sex with his friend. I told that I most likely wouldn’t hate it actually doing it but I would hate how I felt about myself for doing it.

I’m not a religious girl but I am spiritual and having sex outside my marriage didn’t sit well with me spiritually. He told me several times that I had his permission to cheat and therefore it wouldn’t be cheating, perhaps that’s true, but for me it would still feel like cheating. Sometime after that, he asked me if there was anything I wanted to do that I hadn’t been doing where his friend could accompany me.

I knew he was trying to find something that I’d find acceptable to go somewhere or do something that would have me spending time with his friend in hopes it would lead to something. I really did miss cultural activities like art museums, theater, symphony concerts, it was really a long list. He’d never refused to got with me but over the 8 years of our marriage, his lack of interest and enthusiasm meant I went less often with him. I did do those kinds of things by myself or with a girlfriend but gradually went less and less often.

So I told him that yes, if his friend wanted to go to an art museum with me, I would go. His friend wasn’t all that knowledgeable about art but he was curious and most importantly, he listened to me. He was genuinely attentive to my thoughts and feelings. That’s how it began and we did things like that more often and before too long, we were dating. What I mean my dating is that he took me places, we talked and laughed and I let him kiss me.

After a few dates where he kissed me, I found myself getting sexually aroused when we kissed and at some point I came to the realization that I wanted him to seduce me. I wanted to get myself into a compromising situation and just let things proceed gently but inevitably into letting him take complete advantage of me. I didn’t want to have to take responsibility for actually making a decision to allow him to have sex with me.

He must have known what it would take. He took me to an opera performance out of town. The only part of it I really planned was I bought a new nightgown, tastefully but alluring. That’s how I gave in to my husband’s wife sharing fantasy. One small step at a time. I feel something like that might work for you, assuming it’s something you really want to do.

I dreamt that we stood outside as it snowed, I felt the chill in my lungs. Then you held me close and kissed me. With your warmth, I never felt the cold again.

Then I woke, alone and freezing, to the clouds weeping outside.

I mean to say, I miss you.