Women are not victims are patriarchy. They're co-authors.
The facade of helpless victim needs to end. As if a woman never set another woman up to get assaulted by a man, as if a mother never harmed her own damn kids, as if women don't don't possess a fucking lick of evil within themselves.
Refusing to coddle grown women isn't misogyny, by the way. Grow up.
The whole "if we don't fuck males they're gonna Handmaid's Tale us" argument directly contradicts "men didn't give us our rights, we fought for them". You either have the power and strength to resist males and fight for your liberation or you don't. Stop depending on the government or the arbitrary mercy of males to give you the kiddie rails you apparently need to be a free woman in society.
Another heterosexual humiliation ritual in which women attempt to “bash” men by publicly admitting to sleeping with them. No wonder men have humongous egos, why wouldn’t they? You can resemble the Mucinex Man monster, stink from not wiping properly, make empty promises, and women will derail their lives for you.
Women give up everything in the hopes that men will fulfill fairytale promises. We will call men ridiculous for believing pornography accurately reflects reality, but let women forever be influenced by Disney films they watched as children. Just as women aren’t comparable to the adult actresses being paid to perform fantasies, neither are men going to be Prince Charming.
Women are going to continue auditioning themselves and pledging allegiance to users, so ignore the blame game they participate in once it inevitably ends. Remember this is a bonding activity that women in relationships partake in, seeking to normalize such behavior. If female socialization is to be undone, no more making light of terrible life choices, or publicly announcing stupidity.
As Solanas once wrote, men will:
"swim through a river of snot, wade nostril-deep through a mile of vomit, if he thinks there'll be a friendly pussy awaiting him."
Yes, and male-attracted women are no better. She will:
risk cervical cancer, STIs, and STDs,
mess up her hormones with pills, insert copper in her uterus,
go through excruciating torture like abortions, pregnancy, and childbirth,
put up with abuse and sexual harassment from her spouse, spend the best years of her life pampering a man child, shortening her own lifespan to lengthen his,
litter the world with walking time bombs, spawn criminals and rapists at worst and covert misogynists at best onto earth and creating a world where herself, her sisters, and her daughters live in fear,
pollute the world with so many needless males so as to render human life disposable to oligarchs, making all of us easily exploitable because they know the male-attracted female will just keep churning out more cannon fodder,
submit to males and endlessly toil away to maintain the status quo of male power structures, dragging other women down with her, so on and so forth......
no fr ive had numerous female friends and family that blew me off years refusing to go out or do anything together then turn around and suddenly start playing friendly now that they have kids they want a free babysitter for.
talking about how it takes a village to raise a kid when what the mean is they can't actually afford to have kids and think me being 1. a women and 2. childfree means im just expected to help them raise the kid i deliberately didnt have. I dont caaaaare that motherhood is hard im not doing their work for them, they can actually stop expecting every female friend, cousin or niece to do free labour. especially when they refuse to ask any men to look after the kid, including its own damn father.
Ahh that's fucking gross. Give them the cold shoulder totally. No woman around my age that I'm close to has had kids yet, but I'm just waiting for it cause I know it's coming.
The thing about people is that they believe what they want to believe, or what’s most convenient for them to believe at the moment. There is very little use in trying to convince someone that they are wrong about something. The best teacher is experience. One of the most difficult lessons you can learn is how to step back and let other people take a fall even if you know that the path they’re on will cause it. It’s a lonely life, watching other people walk themselves into pain and suffering. But there’s not much else to do on this planet. Only thing to do is make yourself as comfortable as you can in this game, if you opt to stay in.