Women Are Just As Responsible For Their Roles In Upholding The Patriarchy As Men Are. They Should Not

Women are just as responsible for their roles in upholding the patriarchy as men are. They should not be given a pass by talking about how they were just "brainwashed" or conditioned into their beliefs.

Men and women have both been handed a belief system about EVERYTHING, including our roles in society and the ways we ought to treat each other, and once you're an adult you're 100% responsible for unpacking and unlearning all harmful programming and making good decisions. If you're not responsible, you're not a grown-up. To hold men accountable for this and to give women a pass is to say that men are sovereign, intelligent beings with free will, capable of reason and making a choice between good and evil, and women are not. It reduces women to status of robots with no free will, who are slaves to their programming, or to the status of mental children. It puts women on a level BENEATH men. We hold adults responsible for their actions. It's children who we point to and say, "They don't know any better, they're just doing what they've been told. Give them a break."

You know all these harmful patriarchal attitudes we waffle on about all day, like the idea that women should wear makeup and shave or that females are inferior to males? When you see a post with a thousand comments by women telling a girl she's ugly and needs to begin "looksmaxxing," you're seeing that self-hatred abusively being instilled into another young woman in real time...by women. It's happening right in front of you. It OFTEN comes from other women; THIS is how it's perpetuated!

Or when you hear about boy moms who abuse their daughters while favoring their sons, setting that girl up with a sense of low-self worth that she'll be looking to balance her whole life (probably with manipulative men or self-harming behaviors), you're seeing the message that "𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘯𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘦" inflicted on one of your sisters - BY A WOMAN! Quite aggressively too, I might add!

If you saw a person abusing a child or beating a dog with a stick, you wouldn't tell yourself, "Well, they've probably just been taught to do that" or "Well, this OTHER group hurts kids and beats dogs far more often so, I guess I'll let this one slide," would you?

Hold abusers and agents of the patriarchy accountable wherever and whenever you see them. Shut it down. If you're against all this shit, act on it when you see it. No matter what individual you're standing against in any given moment, when you push back against these messages you're standing FOR women and against the patriarchy.

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1 month ago

You wanna talk about women’s space? Men have always been in your space, women. You ALLOW him in. You let him into your bedroom, your home. You bring him along when you’re trying to hang out with your friends. Women bring their male supervisor to monitor the conversations and kill the whole vibe.

She’s bringing him into her space. You let him come into your pussy.

This is true for a lot of feminists. A lot of feminists out there love dick. They grip onto it tightly. You tell them to leave men and they hold on extra tightly to dick. It’s amazing, it really is. I’m not sure what they’re fighting for. I’m confused. I’m totally confused.

So of course they’re going to be entitled to go into the restroom, because you have no fuckin’ boundaries. You fear men being in the restroom, you fear your children going into the restroom in case a man is in there… but a man is in your house right fuckin’ now. He’s in your space, right fuckin’ now.”

Black Obsidian (former youtuber)

2 months ago

you have to rid yourself of the idea that everyone whose nuance threatens yours belongs to The Other Side. a good way to start doing that is to accept yourself as a culturally informed subject whose internality, too, is constructed of ideas that are worth critiquing, and will be forever


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1 month ago

Let me just say people who want to be smart, people who want to think critically, people who want to be knowledgeable will always find a way. someone using chat gpt to write an essay they didn't care about in the first place, isn't eroding their critical thinking because that's not a skill they were ever interested in improving.

Everytime a new form of media or tool gets presented, everyone has this idea that we've "fallen" from the previous intellectually "pure" era, I had teachers that would complain about our access to Google because we should all go to the library. The culprit always shifts tv made people dumb, google,video games, YouTube, tiktok, chat gpt etc. Every few years someone is like *this* is the moment intellect died and *this* is the tool/media to blame.

You guys give people too much credit. A lot of this discourse assumes there are tons of people who engaged critically with every task, and then chatgpt ate their brain 😔 The truth is most people are just trying to get the task out of the way and move on to watching tiktok or a livestream for 5 hours. BE FUCKING FOR REAL for just a millisecond.

My dad was the only one who on his street that went to the library when he was growing up, his mates would listen to the radio enjoying the shade under a mango tree. Did the shade and radio give them a lobotomy that stopped them from wanting to read books? I'm confused.

Here's something that's true always no matter what : The average human will choose McDonald's for the mind over putting in real effort. People choose ease, people choose comfort. Do couches destroy muscle, do cushions destroy physical fitness. Should I blame memory foam for the fact that you haven't jogged since highschool PE or are those just your personal choices....

Blaming tools and "ease" for the lack of people's interest in learning is tired as fuck like. The doors have never been more open JSTOR is right there, we are drowning in free pdfs, there are documentaries everywhere. You can get free courses and resources from the top universities in the world, there are full university level courses on youtube for free.

There's no crisis of intellect here, I think a lot of you are just shocked at how many people never gave a fuck. I saw a grown man with a beard reading the hunger games in public, it's been hell out here for a long time.

4 weeks ago

The way most feminists believe women have no agency sure resembles the "I'm literally JUST a girl 🎀" thing to me, in spite of how much they claim to hate and reject that sentiment.

Yeah, and it's one of the reasons why I stay on the outskirts of radblr. Too much of radblr and it's choice "feminism" is bad for a womans health.

It's basically just a place for whining about the patriarchy and yet pretending there's nothing at all that can be done about any of it. It's a brainwashing arm of tumblr for women who are tired of liberal feminism. A new trap of fake feminism.

"We know wearing makeup is a way of performing for men and that it has harmful health effects, but don't listen to those mean women who say you can choose to stop! It's too haaaaaaaard cause like we were brainwashed, so that means we don't have to try and stop."

"We hate men but of course we need to keep fucking them! OMG my poor vag needs a man, like, psychologically or something. How can those mean separatist radfems say I should quit men even though I keep talking about how dangerous they are?!"

1 month ago

you can't say you don't respect someone's opinions because they post big titty anime girl hentai anymore. The woke mob cancels you, they call you a puritan, etc. When they're clearly an unserious individual


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3 months ago

how can i be successful woman?

become a con artist


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2 months ago

I'm getting kind of sick of people saying things like "you have to be careful, predators are masters of disguise" because in my experience the reality is that most people will bend over backwards to make excuses for and defend very obviously creepy behavior from men. Middle aged men will make crude, sexual comments about underage girls all the time and usually the adults around them will laugh and brush it off, and if you say anything against it they'll accuse you of being dramatic. People will overlook obvious red flags that a man is a predator and then when the guy is finally arrested for child porn/rape they want to pretend like there was no way they could have known. It seriously pisses me off.


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3 weeks ago

Honestly the 'women should have a right to choose' thing is baffling in the same way that it was when pro Makeup and Shaving Women said it. The BPers and separatists have no political power they're not personally going to destroy the male fucking industry and take their boyfriends from them by force.

They know we have no power. They just hate being reminded of their cognitive dissonance and not being coddled.

2 months ago

As Solanas once wrote, men will:

"swim through a river of snot, wade nostril-deep through a mile of vomit, if he thinks there'll be a friendly pussy awaiting him."

Yes, and male-attracted women are no better. She will:

risk cervical cancer, STIs, and STDs,

mess up her hormones with pills, insert copper in her uterus,

go through excruciating torture like abortions, pregnancy, and childbirth,

put up with abuse and sexual harassment from her spouse, spend the best years of her life pampering a man child, shortening her own lifespan to lengthen his,

litter the world with walking time bombs, spawn criminals and rapists at worst and covert misogynists at best onto earth and creating a world where herself, her sisters, and her daughters live in fear,

pollute the world with so many needless males so as to render human life disposable to oligarchs, making all of us easily exploitable because they know the male-attracted female will just keep churning out more cannon fodder,

submit to males and endlessly toil away to maintain the status quo of male power structures, dragging other women down with her, so on and so forth......

if she thinks that, at the end of the day, there'll be a friendly dick to pick her and call her special.


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2 months ago

I see willingness to engage with conflict as one of the ultimate signs of trustworthiness.

you can’t trust someone who fawns or freezes or falls into hysterics at the slightest hint of a conflict, or who equates conflict with abuse. Their “support” only lasts up until the point where they feel their interests don’t entirely align with yours, which upon reaching they will abandon you like the cowards they are.


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