Every So Often, I Think, And It Might Be So Selfish Of Me, But I Crave To Be Someone's First Choice.

every so often, i think, and it might be so selfish of me, but i crave to be someone's first choice. i want to be the person that someone sees fun things to do and their first thought is to ask me to go with them. i want someone to be willing to inconvenience themselves a little bit sometimes for me as i would do for them. i want to be looked at in a list of people and to have someone pick me out of all of them. i want to be held at the same level as a romantic partner in terms of effort and closeness. i want someone to want me as much as i want them, even though it's not in a romantic sense. i want to be important to someone.

we need to address issues within the aspec community

the aspec communities have some problems that really need to be addressed otherwise we’re going to tear ourselves apart. we’ve gotten enough from the “ace discourse” of 2017, and the effect that it’s had on our communities is devastating. we need to understand each other better and support each other. we need to stand in solidarity. below the cut i’ll be addressing these issues. these are problems that i’ve personally noticed in the community as well as suggestions from others. you’re free to comment your thoughts, of course, but please no discourse. that will detract from the message of this post.

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kbu173

4 months ago

dude u can't just walk in like that

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kbu173

4 months ago

BORN DEFEATED......DIED IN VAIN

HAPPY 50TH ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!!!

Redraw of AmadeuS 1984 movie poster

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kbu173

1 month ago

Phantom of the Paradise poster for my final :)

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kbu173

2 months ago

"there is no platonic explanation for this" when characters hug, care for each other, support them, are worried when they are in danger, smile at each other etc

Some of yall just don't have any good friends and it really shows

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