What a nice housewife!
U can be a soft top. U can wear pastel pink and flowers crowns and be the softest motherfucker on the earth and be a top, be a dom even. Stop making the words top and dom synonymous with masculine and aggressive.
Basic punishment ideas that are not spanking! You can of course use these in combo or stand alone.
Underrated kink stuff: casual bdsm. Watching a film together but the sub is gagged and bound. Playing boardgames but the sub has a vibrator strapped to them. Cooking dinner but the sub has a plug in their ass and their nipples are clamped. Hanging out together reading a book or something but the dom has their hnds between the sub’s legs. The possibilities are endless.
La nurse joint l' utile à l' agréable en caressant son patient sur sa couche pendant qu'il tête ses seins.