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Deep Down, You’re Feminine

I think we all know that there is a strong sexual attraction to girliness, crossdressing, being sissies, etc.  A one-handed scroll through your tumblr should tell you that.  But that’s definitely not the entire story, is it?  You know that deep down you have a spark for femininity that is more intimate than the feeling in your panties.  Maybe I speak more for myself and less for the rest of you, but I have a feeling that our mutual love for femininity is more substantial than eroticism alone.  There’s an urging, a longing, maybe a passion for sugar and spice and everything nice and not as much interest in snails and puppy dog tails.  Far beyond the nursery rhymes, though, I’m guessing you sense it in your being.  You’re girly.  Plain and simple.  You’re feminine and wish so much to openly express less than the stereotypical manly expectation.  It’s not a sexual release from manliness.  It’s a personal release from a guise.  You just want to be feminine you–in the open, anywhere.

I’m sure that I sound like a broken record, but I really believe that it’s okay for men to be girly.  I’ve written plenty on it before and I’m sure that I won’t stop anytime soon.  Being girly is more than a sexual adventure or a whimsical fantasy.  It can be those things too.  Yet, being a girly boy is also an essence of inner truth that can be experienced more fully.

I hope you girly boys believe that it’s okay to be girly.  Even if it’s a struggle, just don’t forget that you’re special and never alone.

Hugs and kisses from your friend,

CandieHart    

So start dressing

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Not Outside Yet?  That’s Okay

We all crave for further expressions of our feminine natures, something more than a few inconspicuous feminine items.  We want to take our femboy selves outside, maybe at night in something deliciously feminine.  Then, into daytime with the sun shining down on our cuteness.  Maybe into public places or around friends, dressed unmistakably as a woman would.  We want a greater sense of who we are and a better sense of acceptance by the people with whom we would share a fuller vision of ourselves. 

I think many of us would like to be as girly as we could possibly be outside the comfort of our homes. Maybe I speak for myself and not everyone, but I think I can say this all for at least a good portion of we passionate seekers of femininity.

There’s no doubt that so many of us girly boys are on varying levels of outward expression (wow! i use that word a lot).  Even the ways we try to express ourselves are so very different.  Then, there are also our levels of comfort for when, how, and where we express our femininity.  For some girly boys–and this can include myself in some ways–going outside in a girly fashion is outside the comfort zone.  It’s too bad that some people claim that as being cowardly.

It made my heart happy the other day when I saw a meme on “National Coming Out Day.”  It read something to the effect of “Not ready to come out?  That’s OK.” 

I want you to know that it’s perfectly fine for you to experience your femininity in the comfort of your home.  Never feel like you are less than worthy by staying private.  If the timing is ever right, or when the timing is right, you can make that bold step then–and it might even be in heels!  Who knows?!

My favorite part of you is that you share in our mutual love and admiration for girliness.  No matter where you are on the spectrum of public expression, you inspire me–and I hope I do you too..  If this means letting yourself go all girl inside your home, private, alone, and in secret, then go for it and don’t be ashamed.  This girly journey needs to be a comfort trip, not a stress-laden one. 

Much love to you all,

CandieHart

Yes i am. Yes i do