Ladies, Encourage Your Men To Be Girly

Ladies, Encourage Your Men to be Girly

I share often that my wife is tolerant of my dressing girly, often supportive of me in my girliness, and sometimes encouraging.  We have a great relationship and my girliness does not hinder that.  I wish that it enhanced it, but I don’t think I can make that claim.  Less frequent are the times when my wife suggests that I be girly.  Most of the time, she accepts it when she sees it.  Rarely though, does she propose that I put on feminine clothing.

There have been those moments when I dressed and we went out.  There’s a whole episode of her buying me a pair of Keds and us walking around the mall together without a stitch of male clothing on my body.  It was a fantastic evening!  And there are have been some times when she bought me something girly for “fun”.  But perhaps the best moments are when she asks me to wear something feminine.  Again, it’s very rare, but it has happened.  “Why don’t you put on a bra and some panties, get comfy, and let’s watch a movie together?”  Now, that was an incredible night in more ways than one!

There are certainly times when I wish my wife would be more forthcoming in asking me to wear something girly.  I fear to push it, though.  I don’t want to scare her from it and I’ll take what I can get.  I’ve expressed many times to her that I have no desire to be a woman or even to try and pass as a woman.  Even still, I don’t push it.  Perhaps someday, she will be more suggestive.  

I’d like to say something to the cis-gendered girls out there, if by chance any of them actually follow my blog: Encourage your guys to embrace the feeling of girly clothing.  Encourage them to wear bras and panties, sexy lingerie, cute shoes, and anything else that can bring out their girly side. Suggest late night romps as girlfriends, propose a shopping trip and insist that he must wear all girl’s clothing, or have a girly spa-like day filled with leg shaving, pedicures, makeovers, etc.  Prod him to accept his feminine feelings, emotions, and actions. Make it fun for him and for you too. You’ll be surprised what embracing femininity could do for him, for you, and for your relationship. I think that you’d also be surprised that outside of his girly moments that you encourage, he’ll still be the man you love.

Girliness is happiness.

CandieHart