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My Love-Affair with Femininity

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Don’t we all cherish a little self-spoiling from time to time?  I know of no human who would resist an occasion to feel a sense of luxury and ease.  We’re not made to be busy all the time.  We’re not made to be what people expect all the time either.  Sometimes we only want to be at ease and find comfort in ourselves and in our place and time.

I’ve had a long-running love-affair with being girly.  This affair is my release, my escape, my moment in sweet luxury.   

Life as I know it doesn’t afford me the pleasure of being Candie.  I can pretend to be Candie, play at it, and dream.  I can write about it, be artistic in it, and share thoughts on an anonymous blog.  Yet, because I’m committed to “life as I know it”, my delightful girl-on-the-side must remain as an affair.

I suppose that you understand where I am coming from, even if you are more open than myself, transitioning, or perhaps just now sampling in femininity.  I’ve tried to put a stamp on why I love girliness so much.  It’s not worth the stress to wrestle with the why’s.  It’s too woven in my heart to get anxious about that.  It’s enjoyable, it’s peaceful, it’s comfortable, it’s sexy, it’s me…it’s me.  The more I linger in femininity, the more I long for it.  The more I dress, the more I appreciate it.  It’s beyond lust.  It’s more of an intimacy.  That all seems strange since I don’t have any concrete desire to leave my “life as i know it”.  Maybe, just maybe, I’m cheating myself of some real happiness.  Perhaps my little love-affair is what is cheating me of something else?  However, what I do know, is that I greatly adore feeling pretty, soft, and even demure.  I cherish my affair with femininity.

Tempt me with panties, bras, cute sneakers, and adorable casual outfits.  Lure me in with pretty dresses, heels, and lingerie.  Seduce me with bikinis, leggings, capris, wedges, makeup, jewelry, and fabulous, flowing, hair.  Let me feel the soft caress of silk and satin, the pleasure of yoga pants and sports bras, and the cool breeze underneath skirts.  Make my eyes dance with love for your embrace.  Femininity, take me away to your hypnotic realm of mystery and luxury, that I may immerse myself, if even for a moment of a time, in all of you.

Much love to you all!

CandieHart   

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Me looking too skinny.

So adorable and that set!👙💓💖🥰😍

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