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Self-Affirmation

We all want that external assurance that being girly is okay and we also long for the affirmation that it’s fitting for us.  I have to admit that being girly is not always natural.  Sometimes I feel like I have to force it.  Yes, I want it and have a passion for it.  I am also male with male responsibilities, and male-like expectations.  Because of my location and elements, being boyish is most natural, even in my frilliest of panties.  So, cultivating a girly “personna” doesn’t always come easy.  It goes against the pattern.  Any bit of acceptance and encouragement goes a long way to motivate me to be more like CandyHart.

As much as we would wish for someone to give us such affirmation, we should also know that this falls upon our own bra-strapped shoulders.  We have to be our own “femininspiration.”  Like getting up to our own alarm clock…on time…not on the third snooze…we have to take the initiative and push ourselves to be girly, act girly, talk girly, and as it is safe for us, to dress girly.

Even with my understanding, tolerating, sometimes playful wife, I don’t get the femininspiration that I wish I could get.  So, I can’t expect it or count on it to come from her.  That’s not her responsibility anyway.  She’s my confidant, my partner, my friend, my intimate counselor.  But, she isn’t my coach of girliness.  That’s up to me.  And, it’s up to you.  You have to be your own femininspiration.  You have to assure yourself of your own girly potential.  You have to affirm to your own heart your girly place.  You have to do this.  Any encouragement helps, but it’s your panties–it’s your choice and being.

You can do it, friends!

CandieHart

God I just love her posts.❤️🥰

I Don’t Care…I am Proud of You!

I cannot say it enough, because I have doubts about how often you might hear it: I’m proud of you for being a girly boy. 

I don’t care that I don’t know you.  I don’t care if you’re white, black, bronze, skinny, chubby, short or tall.  I don’t care if this girly nature of yours is in the closet or blatantly in the open.  I don’t care if your sense of girliness is more fetish and fantasy than passion and reality.  I don’t care if you plan to transition or if you’re happy to be a male.  I don’t care if you like feminine things that I don’t.  I don’t care if you’re straight, gay, bi, or a wanna-be lesbian.  I don’t care if you’re a weekend crossdresser or a weekday panty wearer.  I don’t care if you look like a hefty lumberjack in a dress or a Greek athlete in a unitard.  I really don’t care. 

What I do care about is that you are a special human being with emotions and character; that you believe that there is something phenomenally wonderful and unique about being a girly boy; that there is a deeply rooted passion for the girliness you keep stored away. What I care about is for you to know that I am so very proud of you for being feminine.  That might not mean much coming from a total stranger, yet I have to say it.  And whatever you do, don’t ever give up.  Especially, don’t give up on you.

Spread the love from your sweet, loving, proud, girly friend.

CandieHart 

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Even the sun was jealous of her beauty☀️

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