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I’m Thinking About You

In the most non-creepy way that I can, I want to say to each of you that you are truly and always on my mind.  I can’t stop thinking about you.  I obviously know so very little about you, but because we share this girly passion, you’re constantly on my mind.  I can’t help it.  I know your struggle.  I haven’t just entered into it, I’ve been living in it my entire life–and I don’t know that it will ever be free within my lifetime.  So, I create captions and write thoughts out because of you.  It’s a release for me and it’s an open diary for you. 

I want so desperately for you to know that you are just fine the way that you are and that being girly is okay.  The problem that sits at the root of your struggle is not you.  The systemic problem is our culture’s dualistic gender bias/expectations.  IT’S NOT YOU. 

I realize how much of what I write must sound like a broken record.  I’m laughing right now thinking about how many of my posts seems to be the same thing over and over again.  But I also know that not every caption or blog lands in the right hands all of the time.  So, if even 1 post lands in the lap of a sweet, skirted, pantied, feminine boy, then that would make me happy.

I think I’m rambling.  I just love you, my girlies, and I want the best for you in your life, mind, and spirit.

CandieHart 

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