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When it All Comes Together

I’ve been working on a remodeling project in our house and all the preparatory steps involved in the process are painstaking.  For several days now, all of my work has been prep-work without much to show for the hours of labor, except for paint splatter on my Keds.  But it’s all starting to come together.  The walls, the windows, the door, the counters, the floor, etc. are all beginning to pop.  

There might be many days when you feel like nothing more than a man living out a bizarre fantasy with your hidden thongs and shaved legs.  You may wonder if all those girly clothes you’ve been collecting over time can ever create anything special on you.  Has your practice in walking, talking, and gesturing feminine been for nought?  Perhaps you wonder if all the small girly gidgets will mean something.  You know what I’m talking about.  Those little items that you want or need in girly styles–the bracelets, watch, rings, phone case, wallet, key-chain, sunglasses, belt, socks, slippers, pens, satchels/backpacks, etc. etc.  Not a single one of them are in the styles meant for men, but you have them; and you wonder if you’ve blown your money on them.  Then, there are also those days you dare to wear a bra, encase yourself in pantyhose, publicly treat your feet to cute shoes. or apply a bit of makeup. Is it for something or nothing?   

All of the mismatching in androgyny, the sporadic self-dares, the occasional practice, the clothing, lingerie, shoes, jewelry, grooming, and gadgets, don’t always come together in the sweet girly melody that we wish that they would.  Yet, you should be okay with that.  Because girly boy, when it all comes together, you will definitely pop!  You will sparkle the way you were meant to shine. 

Boys who aren’t girly can have a certain sheen to them when they’re all put together.  It’s more like a paint in an egg-shell finish–glossy enough to look crisp, but flat enough to appear reserved.  Not you though.  You’re a girly boy, a princess, an effeminate man, maybe a sissy.  You are meant to be dazzling–to sparkle in a dim egg-shell painted room.  Maybe for you it all just needs to come together.  Somehow, I believe it can for you.

Light up the world, girlies!

CandieHart 

more standing around in beautiful lingerie, just staring into space.  It’s supposed to be mood-inducing!

You Gotta Do Something!

I couldn’t stand it any longer.  Maybe it was after getting back into posting captions and writing so much about being girly.  Maybe it was all of the encouragement that many of you have returned in my direction.  Whatever it was, I had to go all girl–not a stitch of male clothing, no matter how gender neutral it appeared.  So, that’s how I dressed today (or yesterday by the time of this posts).

It was very casual; androgynous really.  But it worked for the urge.  Panties and a non-padded compression sports bra.  Women’s guide pro pants and a women’s ¾ length raglan T-shirt–both from Eddie Bauer.  My ladies’ no-show socks and Adidas Adizero running shoes (black with dark pink trim) completed the clothing options.  A few leather bracelets and a wee little spritz of my wife’s perfume capped it off.  All of this, after some womanish body grooming. 

It was tom-boyish enough that I didn’t worry about public scrutiny.  The only concern that I had was possible bra lines or a VPL in the rear-clinging, no back pocket, pants.  The shirt was baggier than what I would wish, but it was cute.  In all, it wasn’t necessarily an all-girl look.  It was girly enough for me and I needed it…badly.  And you know what?  As far as I could tell, no one even batted an eye.  I’m still trying to decide if that is good or not.  There seems to be a part of me that wishes for just a little “second-glance criticism/laughter.”

As I mentioned, it wasn’t drastic by any means, but it satisfied a craving.  I believe that’s something that we feminine boys need from time to time–a day out, being girly, acting girly, dressed girly.  It’s helpful to be more than a secret panty wearer, even if only on rare occasions.  Sometimes, you have to get out and be girly.  That’s it.  You just have to glam it up some.

Have a wonderful day, my friends,

CandieHart