"Peek-a-boo"

Remember all those times you saw this Emily Vancamp pic and imagined how amazing it would feel like to wake up like her and get ready for the morning? Trust me, it would feel even better you're finally euphoric seeing a girl looking back at you after being well into transition.

You Can be a Boy and be Girlish

If you’ve followed my little tumblr long enough, you have probably noticed the theme of being “girly” and not so much with becoming a girl, hormones, operations, etc.  There is a reason for this.  I’m an advocate for girliness among men.  I do, in fact, make captions about becoming girls, but those are not as frequent and done to add some diversity. 

Listen to me on this: It’s perfectly fine for a boy to remain a boy and also want to be girly; and all without becoming female.  I see that it is often portrayed that it has to be an either/or.  For example, you’re either a boy or a girl; you either want to be a boy or you want to be a girl.  And I ask, “Why must it be an either/or?  Why can’t it be both/and?“  Why can’t I, or anybody enjoy being boys with girly instincts, passions, and desires?  Why can’t I be both boy and girlish?  Just because I love panties, cute shoes, and bras doesn’t mean that i have to hate being a boy or that I must undergo treatments to become a girl.  It also does not mean that I’m a pervert or a sexual deviant. 

I relate with sissies, but that doesn’t mean that I crave to be sexually assaulted and humiliated either.  I also have the utmost respect for people who transform their gender either partially or completely.  But that’s not me, that’s probably not most of you, and that’s probably not a majority of men who have girlish desires.  One size does not fit all.  We are all so much more than any “either/or”.

At this moment, I’ve got the man look going on.  Put me in flanel and I’d look like a lumberjack.  And chances are that if you saw me out and about, unless you noticed my women’s shoes or a VPL, then you’d think I was the typical man’s man–a stereotypical alpha male.  To know me, however, is different.  I am male with passions for girliness.  Being a girly boy suits me just fine.  I am both/and, not an either/or.  I deserve the space to feel that way–and you do too.  Respect me that I am a human being who is open to exploring a softer side of who I am.

I feel like this has become more of a rant than anything.  I don’t mean for it to be.  I mean for this to be an encouragement to all of you boys out there who enjoy girliness, even if, and especially if, this pretty part of you is a secret.  Don’t let anybody fool you into believing that you are lost or a coward because you are both a boy and a girlish person.  And if anything else, you’ve got my support and friendship.  I appreciate you for being you.

Much love to you all!

CandieHart

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