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You Can be a Boy and be Girlish

If you’ve followed my little tumblr long enough, you have probably noticed the theme of being “girly” and not so much with becoming a girl, hormones, operations, etc.  There is a reason for this.  I’m an advocate for girliness among men.  I do, in fact, make captions about becoming girls, but those are not as frequent and done to add some diversity. 

Listen to me on this: It’s perfectly fine for a boy to remain a boy and also want to be girly; and all without becoming female.  I see that it is often portrayed that it has to be an either/or.  For example, you’re either a boy or a girl; you either want to be a boy or you want to be a girl.  And I ask, “Why must it be an either/or?  Why can’t it be both/and?“  Why can’t I, or anybody enjoy being boys with girly instincts, passions, and desires?  Why can’t I be both boy and girlish?  Just because I love panties, cute shoes, and bras doesn’t mean that i have to hate being a boy or that I must undergo treatments to become a girl.  It also does not mean that I’m a pervert or a sexual deviant. 

I relate with sissies, but that doesn’t mean that I crave to be sexually assaulted and humiliated either.  I also have the utmost respect for people who transform their gender either partially or completely.  But that’s not me, that’s probably not most of you, and that’s probably not a majority of men who have girlish desires.  One size does not fit all.  We are all so much more than any “either/or”.

At this moment, I’ve got the man look going on.  Put me in flanel and I’d look like a lumberjack.  And chances are that if you saw me out and about, unless you noticed my women’s shoes or a VPL, then you’d think I was the typical man’s man–a stereotypical alpha male.  To know me, however, is different.  I am male with passions for girliness.  Being a girly boy suits me just fine.  I am both/and, not an either/or.  I deserve the space to feel that way–and you do too.  Respect me that I am a human being who is open to exploring a softer side of who I am.

I feel like this has become more of a rant than anything.  I don’t mean for it to be.  I mean for this to be an encouragement to all of you boys out there who enjoy girliness, even if, and especially if, this pretty part of you is a secret.  Don’t let anybody fool you into believing that you are lost or a coward because you are both a boy and a girlish person.  And if anything else, you’ve got my support and friendship.  I appreciate you for being you.

Much love to you all!

CandieHart

PS–Happy ThanksGIRLing Day!