Soriku Headcanon:

Re blog if HelgaxArnold was your first ever ship (before you knew what a ship was)

Working on gay KH earrings. Thoughts?

I agree anx honestly I don't have many issue with Sakura. I think shes happy being a housewife and Sarada and disappointed but understanding of her home situation. Heres The thing, I think a lot of peop, myself included, don't like how hinata handles Boruto and Narutos situation. Hinata knows that Naruto constantly being absent and missing birthday hurts her son and we can see that Boruto is gaining THE self esteem issue from it. She never calls Naruto out on it and always just tells boruto to be more understanding. I think she's not a bad mom, not even close. But that doesn't change the fact the shes allowing Naruto to act this way with no input on her part. Shino has done more to stand up for Boruto than her.

Mothers: Hinata,Sakura

First of all, what the f*** is wrong with being a housewife? What is wrong with a woman dedicating her life for her family? Her kids? Kids–who are a part of her! Family which she along with her husband so carefully built!

Secondly… It is not just the mother’s responsibility to raise a child… The father is in their too… So you might as well say that they are both responsible for spoiling a child.

Thirdly, it is not possible for a parent to control a child’s emotion… You think that Boruto’s behavior is because of Hinata and Naruto raising him wrong?? Then what about Himawari? Why is she so beautifully polite…

Fourth! A woman who is a housewife is not useless and weak, have you ever tried to raise a child? No, so then shut up about who is a good mother. So again hats off to a mother who is a housewife

Fifth!!!! As a 21st century person, you f***ing talk about how a woman lets her child cook??? You think Sakura’s a bad parent? Is that why Sarada turned out to be so polite??? So much capable?? So much respectful to her elders? You say Sakura is a bad parent just because she chose work?? Are you living in the 80′s??? A feat—a feat for a woman who has to raise a child all by herself (Sasuke is absent for most of the part, we’ll talk about that later!) jumbling work and responsibilities for the community yet coming home to talk to/lecture child about friendship… Have you ever done that? No, then shut that filth for a mouth of yours…

Hinata and Sakura are not f***ing weak to be become housewives or neglectful to be a working woman, they have their priorities defined in a different way!

These are the types of arguments that make me realize what kind of a world we all live in-where women are criticized for what ever they do…

p.s. it is supposed to be “off” in the second panel’s first line…

Cutest thing in existence!

thor and loki ponyo au – based off this scene [x]

Yes! I agree LZ is not a soft lil meow meow that needs to be coddled by WY for not returning his feelings.

Wei Wuxian, Feminism and Autonomy

The title sounds way fancier than this is going to be. So sorry for that. But this is a thought I've had for a while not and i just got double-triggered. So I'm listening to this MDZS podcast that i really like while reading mdzs fan fiction. The podcast is "Podcasts are Forbidden in the Cloud Recesses" and the fan fiction is one of those cast watching the show ones. Which is one of my favorite genres for this specific media. So I'm having a good time. But then the podcasters make the same point the fan fic does as I'm reading it and it just really pissed me off? Thats the preface for this whole long-ass rant.

So Wei Wuxian in my opinion Wei Wuxian has all the worst parts of being a heroine grafted onto his character and no one seems to care. Like I know the fandom feminizes him a lot because the author does and its part of his character. But I'm talking about like how he is written and how we are supposed to engage with him as readers.

Ok so, i don't understand people who don't understand why Wei Ying doesn't know Wanji likes him. That's it that's the whole premise. Because here's the thing it is very common in media for girls to have to tolerate shitty men and look past their flaws to love them. Its commonly expected for female characters to either fix the guy or learn to look past his flaws or change themselves in some way. Its also really common in media for the problems of dating and protective sex and dealing with sex appeal to fall on teenage girls. They are the ones who should flirt less, they should dress more modestly, and they should date less to be more appealing. And I see this same mindset with Wei Ying in the Fandom and in the novel.

Lan Xichen and Nice guys

This idea came to me one day when I was rewatching the untamed and I got to the Gauyin temple scene. The one where Xichen goes on this long-ass speech about all the things Wanji has done for Wei Ying. I'm watching this scene and I think "is this how it goes in the book? Because if so this is really fucked up." I hadn't read the book in a while so I hopped online (this is before the official novelization) and re-read the last like thirty-ish chapters for fun. And it's actually worse in the book. The entire speech is how Wanji has sacrificed so much for Wei Ying and how he hasn't been grateful and hasn't noticed his brothers feelings. How long Wanji has pined for him and how he's too selfish to notice. And its just a really gross speech to me. Because it implies that Wanji is owed Wei Yings affection because he has done these things. That Wei Ying is a bad person for not noticing Wanjis feelings and returning them. But here's the thing, Wei Ying doesn't need to return shit. Like he should be thankful for Wanjis help, that's fine. Be he is not obligated to fall in love with him cause of it. And frankly, most of the kind things Wanji did either happened out of Wei Wuxians view or after he had died. And I realized that Xichen doesn't really care about Wei Ying? Like he see's him not as a person but as a thing that will make his brother happy. He only encourages their friendship because to makes Wanji happy He doesn't take Wei Yings feelings into account at all. The moment that friendship comes with heartache for Wanji Xichen stops supporting it and caring about Wei Ying. He calls Wei Ying Wanjis biggest mistake just cause he doesn't seem to like Wanji back despite how nice he's been. To Xichen them getting together is something that has to happen and if it doesn't its because Wei Ying is the problem for not liking him faster or as much. Which brings me to:

Wanjis Trauma is not Wei Wuxians Problem

I was inspired to actually get this down because of that double hit. So here's what happened I'm listening to the podcast and they just started talking about how sad and repressed Wanji is. How he hasn't learned to express himself or learn about sex and how sad that is. That WEi Ying is being the loud annoying little brat he always is. And Wanji, baby boy just can handle it. So he lashes out and is super rude and dismissive. But ohhh he's just so horny its not his fault! And at the same time in the fan fiction, they get to the scene where Wei Wuxian flirts for some free loquats and Wanji gets jealous and looks away. In the Fan fic they have older wei wuxian apologize for flirting because she should have known better? That pisses me off. Enough to make a long a tumblr rant. So much of the fandom assumes the responsibility of putting work into the relationship on Wei Wuxian. Of course, he should feel bad about flirting in front of Wanji. He's his future husband. Even though at this point Wanji as been nothing but cold, distant, authoritative and dismissive. Wei Ying has zero reason to believe he is jealous and even if he did;t that's not his problem! The idea that Wei Ying needs to learn to be less of a flirt fort eh sake of Wanji feeling comfortable is bullshit. Wei ying doesn't owe him a damn thing. Its just so common for people and the author to rush to defend Wanji was being repressed and unable to express himself. While Wei Ying is called selfish and thoughtless for not being willing to sympathize and make concessions for him. I understand that Wanji changes after the time skip. He realises that Wei Ying isn't obligated to like him or act a certain way. But at the same time he still doesn't full give Wei Ying full autonomy in their relationship in my opinion. Because he doesn't confess first. He's so afraid of rejection or Wei Wuxian liking him out of obligation that he decides to help him but not confess. He decides that if Wei Wuxian falls for him it should be by choice (I'm assuming, its actually really unclear to me). But first of all that doesn't happen! Xichen gives that stupid nice guy speech. and second, that's still fucked up. If he actually respected Wei Ying he would be upfront and tell him and deal with the fallout after that. Instead, he just helps wei ying out and while burying his feel feelings and hopes that is enough. How could Wei Ying not feel shitty after hearing that? I don't know. I just think it's reasonable for Wei Ying to be hesitant to like Wanji based on how he's been treated. It's true that both of them have issues with communication but those issues started with Wanji. He's the one who showed that he's so blindly rigged in his ways and refused to admit out loud how he felt to start with.

Side Bits

I completely forget the scene where Xichen tells his family back story to Wei Wuxian until just now. Thats so fucked up and manipulative coming from him. It's just meant to make Wei Wuxian feel bad for leaving Wanji and explain some of his behavior. No one pulls Wanji aside and explains that Wei ying spent years on the streets and then in a toxic household where the matriarch openly hated him. So he has low self-esteem and genuinely thinks his life is worth less than others. No one was like hey he's bubbly and loud because there's no other option for him. Like in the book the only people that advocate for Wey Ying are the Wens and Sometimes Yanli.

After Fenmiin and Madam Yu die they and the land Jiang Cheng gets so mad and sad he starts to choke Wei Wuxian to death. He stops and starts crying but that's so messed up. Like Wei Wuxian also closed a second pair of parentel figures just now but his body I still used as a means for a man to let out his sadness. Like he's still just a vessel for someone else's emotions. I think this actually happens a lot with Jiang Cheng. He has a habit of blowing up at Wei Ying in a way that is implied to be deserved or not that bad. But just doesn't feel great to me based on everything else I've written about.

Wei Wuxian is only able to clear his name and live a semi decent life because he gets with Wanji. Wei Wuxian success is not based off his talent or smarts alone, it is mostly based don't he fact that Wanij is willing to vouch for him and help hide him. Like I know part of it is Huasiang helping him but he would not have gotten far without Wanji helping him. Not only that but Xichen is only willing to help them even a little in their research because of his brother. And that's just a little annoying to me.

By the end of the story Wei Wuxian has no financial autonomy. Which isn't a big deal because this is ancient Chinese vampire times so as the "wife" he wouldn't have much anyway. But still not great.

Meng Yao and Wei Wuxians mothers and meng yao and Wei Wuxian are talked about in similar terms that are interesting. So both of them are "tainted" by specifically who their mothers are. Men Yao because his mother was a sex worker and Wei ying because his mother was known to be a highly wanted and playful woman. People both assume they are going to be exactly like heir parents and treat them as such. Which affects how they actually interact with people. MEng Yao knows he can't appear greedy or even like he's ambitious because he knows that as a son of a sex worker, everyone will think he's naturally greedy and manipulative. And he is those things. But they made him this way. he had to no choice but to be a sneaky asshole because the moment he showed any ambition it was either immediately squashed because of his status or people were like I know it. He is sued by his father in the same way his mother was. Wei Wuxian on there other hand has three people in his life who treat him a certain way because of his mother. Fengmain lets him get away with a lot and is openly affectionate to seemingly make of for his relationship with his parents. He doesn't spoil Wei Wuxian as much as he doesn't really expect anything of him? He just wants to see Wei Wuxian happy doing whatever he wants. He assumes Wei Wuxian is a wild and free spirit because his mother was and thats not fully true. On the other hand, Madam yu and Qiren treat Wuxian almost like a temptress. He's just a reflection of his moms wild, playful and seduction personality to them. They both think he's someone they have to actively control and suppress lest he get all the attention and make people behave inappropriately. Its that same notion I wrote about way earlier. How girls have to be the ones to control themselves and their appearances so as to not tempt the men folk with their ankles.

In Conclusion

Fuck the Patriarchy, Learn Necromancy.

Ok but like sailor moon has the exact same problem and I don't have to deal with people taking shit about it on Tumblr every time I look it up on Tumblr. Also I dont think it's a problem personally but I'm just saying.

u guys realize people hate reimob mobrei NOT because of the age gap right? it’s because one character is AN UNDER-AGED CHILD and the other AN ADULT? “Age gap” is not the main problem here, because two consenting ADULTS can choose to date each other whether there is an age gap or not. a CHILD and ADULT is gross. It’s not cute, just because the characters aren’t real does not negate the fact that you are fantasizing about a child hooking up with an adult. 

Ummm. I read this manwa for the same reason I watch criminal minds or kamisamA no iutoori or anything like that. I want go see what happens to characters and how they'll get out of situations. I'm not here for the "epic romance" or anything like that. And if some one is I personally don't think that my of your business. As long as they know it's messed up then to each their own. Also for those you throwing out the word fujoshi... I don't think it means what you think it means or at the very least you a generalizing a whole group of very diverse people. Also their are males fujoshi. Also also sonr click on a tag just becAuse it's trending, see something you have to context for then trash the fans. Seems like a bit of a dick move. And if for everyone else whose has read the manwa the way through and still agree... why? Just stop reading it... It's not for you buddy.

killing stalking has been trending once a week for the last month or so and i fucking hate it. the latest chapter was apparently the vulnerable abuse victim getting literally raped by the murderer and everyone was making jokes and memes of it or talking about how romantic it was

why do you guys hate gay men so much. why do you support media like this. why are we only palletable to you when we’re being tortured and raped

what the fuck is wrong with you

Kinneporsche x Mo Dao Zu Shi crossover au. Wei Wuxian as Porsche

Lan Zhan as kinn

Zichen as tankhun. They're both so dramatic and sneaky. Like I feel like if xichen was a little less reserved. There both captains of thr ship

Suzhui as Kim. Lil cute badass nerds

Jin ling or jingyi as Chay. It's honestly hard to choose they both have so much potential.

Qiren as Korn

Now heres the tough choice

Nie huaisang as pete

Jiang cheng as Vegas

Or

Nie mengjue as pete

Meng Yao as Vegas

Remember with that second one they can't also be Arm and the other body guard which i think would fit them to

The plots should remain the same with little changes to add some mdzs flavor to it.

I think D.C broke a part of me?

I saw tommy kissing Buck and started laughing manically. I had full on PTSD style flash backs to Timothy Drake, Bernard, and Connee Kent. Like we're gonna go with the worst of all worlds again? I know everyone else is like " Yay! bi Buck! Buddie is next".

I'm over here in tears cackling. Girlies I think this is it. Which is still technically a win. But I'm getting real tires of technical wins.

I'm probably just being negative buttttt just on case... cackling.

Tumblr Moving

Hi, I moved all my anime stuff to this https://www.tumblr.com/blog/tabyktowtw

area. I’m starting to two new tumblrs to keep things organized. One is anime stuff and the other is shipping and yaoi type stuff. Sorry for being so non-descriptive, I'm a vague person that like long discussion. I’mg going to post my latest anime thing here but it going to be the last one.  Never shall the yaoi/shipping stuff and the anime stuff meet, except when I want them to. I’ll make another post about where the yaoi/shipping stuff is when I actually decide on it.