This. It’s Not Cute To Only Want To Date Older Men As A Minor. It’s Not Coquette To Starve Yourself

this. it’s not cute to only want to date older men as a minor. it’s not coquette to starve yourself for a “better body”. and the worst part is that the entire girl blogging community has become known for these things. it’s not just feminism, it’s ethics. as a 18 year old, those things might be normal (although they shouldn’t be), but some forget that younger teenagers flock to girl blogs as well. i myself was a victim of this as a 12- and 13-year old.

i’m under the opinion that if you feel so compelled to post about dating older men and ed’s (as well as sh-positive posts, but that’s a story for another time) then you should mark your blog as nsfw. you might not THINK younger users are seeing your blog, but they ARE.

at the same time, we need younger teens to know that these posts are not and should not be the norm. when everyone on your main feed is an ed blog it is incredibly easy to fall into the vortex of those behaviors too.

this turned into a rant, so i’m sorry, but this is a genuinely important topic. as someone who has been influenced by girl blogs—which took a long time to recover from—i am disgusted at how prevalent they still are.

idk if my frontal lobe cortex is developing, but has anyone else realised how gross and weird the obsession with dating old men, eating disorders, the lolita movie and book, and other pieces of media that idolise pedophilia are within the girlblogging community? The way that some girls on here are so obsessed with looking weak and wanting to find an older man to look after them is really damaging the feminist movement.

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loveeletterlesbian

8 months ago

today i was sick

today i was sick but i came to see you. couldn't imagine even getting out of bed--my head felt so heavy but my heart must've betrayed me because i got on the bus and i went to a place where i don't really belong. i tell myself i don't belong--until i see you.

and i felt bad for possibly making you sick too, because it's the worst thing in the world and i love you the most. but the moment i touched your skin i think all my worry went away. you felt so soft in my arms.

no idea, no idea, no idea how you feel. i can't read your mind, all those runes i wish to uncover. i don't even know if the way you hold me is genuine. but i know i'm lying to myself every time i reread our memories and say it was never anything at all.

because if i sink into you for ten minutes straight how can it be just friendship?

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loveeletterlesbian

4 months ago

Kiss, marry, kill: mean, I forgot that you existed, and Coney Island.

kiss mean

marry coney island

kill iftye

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loveeletterlesbian

7 months ago

"Kiss me till I lose myself in you."

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