Hi. IDK if this is allowed to be asked on this blog. But, I've been manifesting my sp on and off since 2022. He did the things I affirmed for, a while then when there were some inaccuracies in the 3D I started wavering and he showed up that way as well. Then I actively stopped affirming for like 3-4 months as things were going really good between us. Then when he wasn't texting me so much or any deviation from what I wanted instead of affirming again, I tried to force things in the 3D and it led to a huge fight between us and we're in NC for 3 months now. Usually, I'd affirm a lot after a fight and go talk to him on my own. But this time I wanted him to initiate it because even if it were my thoughts that made him act that way the things he said were hurtful. Usually when affirming I'd always see us together and in a loving light. But this time I'm not seeing that and I think I'm still holding onto the anger of what he did to me. I'm affirming that He's always been madly in love with me, I have always been the love of his life, and He's always been doing everything to be with me and that we've always been happily married. I did try Nadi Shodana and Ho'oponopono to reduce the anger I felt for him. It did help. Then a month back I had a random visual where he and I were married and in bed and me stroking his hair and talking. I could feel his hair and he turned and kissed my mangal sutra and I kissed him back on the forehead. After repeating that scene for a while, I could see him lovingly again. I am going to persist in affirming through the day and affirming in the night. Please do let me know if I'm going wrong if I am being stubborn for waiting for him to contact me.
I'm going to be short and to the point.
What do you want really? To be in a relationship with this person right?
Focus on that. That's all you need to do. Leave all these and just focus on your end goal. Don't be thinking how long you've been trying to manifest him or his texting or fighting. This is all just irrelevant stuff that you keep bringing in your reality which in turn is not letting you actually manifest him into your life. You are the reason why you're not together rn. But that's alright. You can choose rn to change the whole story.
You guys are together rn. You guys are so fucking happy with each other. He loves you beyond reason. That's it. That's all you need to be focussing on. Nothing else just that. Read this post as many times as you want. Let it click for you. Manifestation is just that easy. It's already done and that's it. End of story.
here’s a little thingy i recently found out about
✨the 369 manifestation method✨
what u do:
1. write your desire 3 times
2. write your intention 6 times
3. write the outcome 9 times
what it does:
you remind urself of smth you want to happen and influence your brain to make decisions that help you achieve your goals
What do you want?
Now that you know what you want, how will it feel once you have it?
Persist in that feeling. Sustain the state of the wish fulfilled.
3D conforms
Troubleshooting:
"What if I don't know what it feels like?"
Persist in knowing it'll happen. I did this when I've never fallen in love before, I did not try to conjure feelings of being in love because how the hell would I know.
"Nothing's happening."
You didn't persist enough. Random but I made a script of my dream man on May 6th, 2021. Met my bf on May 17th that year and that's when I literally had a fling in between not working out. You think if I had stopped affirming, ruminated on rejection, not finding anyone, and thinking LOA is a scam would get me to where I am today? Again, persist.
"I been at it for X amount of days/months/years"
The problem here again is persisting. I know because if you truly had your desire, the 3D wouldn't affect you, you wouldn't be counting the days and the more you don't have it (which needs to stop honestly and will only reinforce your lack).
"How do I generate belief or get to the state of the wish fulfilled?"
There's so many methods out there and no real straight answer. Affirmations, visualizing, SATs, subliminals, scripting, been seeing the term "vaunting" or "rampaging." Vision boards. I think affirmations is the most simple and bare bones way, it doesn't require as much focus and effort as say, visualizing or scripting if you're lazy about writing (or typing). It's a personal journey in finding what works for you.
"Why's it so hard?"
You're making it hard when you look to the 3D for confirmation. When they say YOU are the confirmation, it's because it all starts with you, you decide whether you have it or not. Now, I know literally there's no physical or tangible 3D evidence so you're probably like "well how am I gonna tell myself I have it when I clearly do not." WELL! That's why use your imagination. Instead of waiting for the 3D, you need to allow yourself to experience the feelings associated with your desire or just know you have it. You want a partner because you want to feel loved, beautiful, etc? Well either allow yourself those feelings and dwell in it through your imagination or if that's too hard, just knowing and feeling certain it'll happen is fine. Honestly, it all starts in allowing yourself to have your desire before it's even there yet (in the 3D).
You have to live from your imagination. Successful people got to where they are today because they ignore all odds and 3D circumstances. We say persisting, but you know, it's all the same in having a dream, staying determined, don't give up, keeping your eye on the prize, being stubborn.. LIKE FORREAL, do you think the Scrub Daddy guy gave up on his business because no one wanted to invest on Shark Tank?! Do you think people of this community got their desires by dwelling in lack and victim mentality?
That's all I gotta say. 🫳🏻🎤
Listen your mindset NEEDS to match the self concept your embodying. Whether that’s being chosen, you need to start adapting the beliefs in every aspect of your life that YOU ARE CHOSEN. When you are thinking about yourself and who you are, you need to see yourself as chosen and produce thoughts that version of yourself would have. When you think about your person, you must think of them from the version of you that is chosen, by them and everyone else. You must collectively embody the full state of your new self concept.
Hi Spencer here, I wrote on Twitter about wanting to do a change your life challenge.
Anyone is more than welcome to do the challenge with me! and please give me updates.
The whole point of this challenge is to change your life, mindset, appearance, and self concept.
This is my version but i highly suggest you make your own
but you're free to use mine!
A year from now, your life will be completely different.
You will have your apartment, you will have the SP, you will look different, and you will be content; but you have to have discipline
I don't care if one person does it with me, but I don't like to gatekeep, and I love helping people.
Morning: The first thing you do when you wake up is tell yourself:
"I don't care about the old story; the old story can't hurt me; the old story is irrelevant and dead."
spend the next 10 mins doing your routine. you can affirm script just decide or swift your awareness to one topic of your choice.
you can do beauty, mindset, and self concept and then go about your day. if you feel like thinking about something just say
"I don't care about the old story; the old story can't hurt me; the old story is irrelevant and dead."
For money I want you to throw away everything you know about money and create your own opinions about money.
Tell yourself, "Money is so easy; money is never that serious."
Every time you look at your wallet or bank account, try not to get upset about what you see! The goal is to be content with what you have, but in the back of your mind, know that you can get endless amounts of money.
We are also not going to affirm for a certain amount of money. Just tell yourself that "I always receive money in my bank account."
When you affrim for a certain amount of money, you're going to be hyper-focused on the number.
Afternoon:
For self concept I want you to affirm " My mind is a friend to my body'
"I have the power to create the life I want." "I am becoming a better version of myself one day at a time."
Then take a break and go on with your day. I also want you to stop consuming information on Twitter and being online. Be anti-online and create a self-care routine. I suggest taking a 3-day break on Twitter and then come back; Twitter isn't going anywhere.
night time: i want you to sit in a quiet room and write down a goal list of your choice and either script, visualize, innner convos, and spend any hour doing it. think in the past tense and do not give the old story life.
for beauty affs :
"Every day I notice improvements in how I feel about myself."
"My attractiveness increases every single day."
"Everyone notices and appreciates my good looks."
and that's pretty much iit! the goal is to build a routine and stick with it. enjoy and give me updates. kisses xoxoxo.
Lazy girl who? I am in my productive era🦋
I have been on this long journey of trying to figure out how to find beauty in productivity and not do it just because “i have to”. Here are some tips to make your everyday life magical:
🔹Invest in a planner. IDC what anyone says, but i love waking up in the morning and organising my day. Planner helps me in organising my mind, laying out in advance what i have to do for the day, building habits, making time for fun activities etc.
🔹Make a monthly vision board instead of yearly. If not vision boards, just have a mental idea of all the goals you have to achieve for yourself to “be that girl”. Build habits accordingly, and give yourself small challenges. For example, if you want a healthy glowing skin, challenge yourself to drink 8 glasses of water everyday for 7 days and build it accordingly. Baby steps✨
🔹 Act as if you’re filming a YouTube video. If you’re like me, and you find exercising boring, what you can do is, pretend as if you’re filming a YouTube video for your subscribers. Sure, it sounds silly, but it works for me and makes me excited to do it.
🔹 Try to journal as often as possible. It doesn’t have to be elaborate. It’s something to help you keep focused on your goals and not distract you. 
🔹 Romanticise your life. This could mean anything for you. From dressing up early in the morning just to stay inside, (i mean wheres the rule that you can only dress up when you go out?) to buying cute scented candles for your room. However, it’s ur creativity your choice. I personally use apps like STOIC to record my overall day highlights at the night.
🔹 Affirmations and other manifestation techniques. Ofc, this is so important. This is what my whole blog is about.
🔹 Keep your weekends off and just unwind yourself from all the work you’ve done through the week and unwind yourself. Spend those days with family and friends.
In the end, remember not all your days are going to be 10/10 productive and it’s okay. Take baby steps. 3 months from now, you’ll thank yourself.
Manifesting a Celebrity SP ☆
This is my personal advice for manifesting an SP that happens to be a celebrity!
the reason I say "happens" to be a celebrity is because loa does not see fame or superiority in celebs. the law sees everything WITHIN. What does this mean? That the celebrity you are trying to manifest is nothing more than a regular soul to the law, just like you and me.
You need to understand that just because someone has a following, fans or publicity doesn't make any difference and doesn't make it any harder to manifest them. Below, there will be a list of steps you can take if you want to manifest a celebrity SP, whether you just want to get noticed by them on social media, befriend them or be in a relationship with them.
Step 1 ;
• think of WHY you are compatible with this celebrity. Why are you more special than the rest of their fans/followers? You do not have to write this down, but I personally prefer to. You can go totally wild with this one. You can describe physical appearance, personality traits, hobbies/interests, ANYTHING. Be confident! For example; "I'm worthy because I'm beautiful, I have good humour, and I like to play the same videogames/ I like the same songs as *SP*." And NO this isn't being cocky or self absorbed, just list generally good things about yourself, make YOU feel good!!
Step 2 ;
• after you think of/write down those qualities, you can repeat reading it over to yourself, OR you can make affirmations out of it. You don't have to do this for long, just however long you feel is best [remember YOU make the rules!]
example affirmations ;
• "I am so beautiful and magnetic"
• "OMG! *Insert SP* followed me back on insta!"
• "*Instert SP* noticed me because we like the same _____ !!"
Step 3 ;
Most IMPORTANT and last step !!
Take the celebrity SP OFF THE PEDESTAL!! sit back, relax and trust yourself and the universe. Let go of the "how", let go of the "but *insert SP* has so many fans, how will they notice me??" STOP IT! Whenever you think of your SP by their status, you're creating resistance. Think of them as a human, a person with feelings, a person with good days and bad days. Have faith in yourself!
Stay bad, stay blessed 💋
Emoji spell to receive a text/call from your specific person, with them telling you the EXACT words you desire to hear.
‼️ IMMEDIATE RESULTS, NO WAITING ‼️
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‼️ LIKES CHARGE, REBLOGS CAST ‼️
Use for reconciliation, consistent communication, good news, and more. Think of your person, and see it as DONE ‼️ You are a Master Manifestor ‼️
create contacts in your phone with your sp's name/ID pic and create contacts for their connections that you think would be relevant to them. example:
Save your SP's mum as a contact. write her contact as: 💗 Mother in law. (put her actual name here)
Save your SP's friend as a contact. write their contact as: *nickname that feels natural* (put "SP's friend" here.
This is like a golden for SP's, it works like magic!
SUCCESS STORY:
I use to do this with guys I desired and always had success. This teacher would help me with homework through a program outside of school so I had her as a contact in my phone & her son was in the same grade as me, so he would always come to the programs too. I had the biggest crush on her son so I jokingly saved her number as "Future Mother in law" and surprise, surprise, me and her son ended up dating and she basically became like my 2nd mother. 🧜🏾♀️
👋🏻 hello,✨
🧚🏻♀️fairy can you please help me by suggesting some info about Sp , actually i am manifesting steps but i don't know when to jump to next affirmation cuz my manifestation is happening in the delusional world 💗
1st affirmation is { why is he so madly in love with me,why is he constantly thinking about me}
I know you help 🤗✨
Of course, here’s a simple breakdown to help you manifest your SP (specific person) and confidently navigate the process, even if it feels delusional right now:
1. Understand Manifestation Stages
Manifesting works in the “inner world” (4D) first, then reflects in the 3D. It’s normal to feel it’s only happening in your imagination at first. That’s how it starts for everyone. The 3D will eventually catch up when your belief becomes dominant.
2. Affirmation Progression
Here’s how to adjust your affirmations as you move through stages:
• Initial Stage: Build belief.
• Example: “SP loves talking to me.”
• Focus on imagining them reaching out or thinking about you.
• Middle Stage: Deepen connection in your 4D.
• Example: “SP adores me and prioritizes me in their life.”
• Visualize or affirm conversations and actions that align with this.
• Final Stage: Assume it’s done.
• Example: “We are already in a happy, loving relationship.”
• Live as though it’s your reality now.
Move to the next affirmation when the current one feels natural or neutral, meaning it no longer feels like you’re trying to convince yourself.
3. Signs It’s Working
• Feeling calmer and less “needy” about it.
• Random thoughts or dreams about your SP.
• Synchronicities, like seeing their name, numbers, or reminders.
4. How to Stop Feeling Delusional
• Remember: Your imagination creates reality. Everything in the physical world was once a thought.
• Flip any doubts with affirmations: “What I see in my mind, I will hold in my hands.”
5. Key Tips While Manifesting SP
• Stay consistent with your affirmations and self-concept (e.g., “I am irresistible, loved, and chosen”).
• Don’t stress about the “when” or “how.” Trust that it’s already unfolding.
• Avoid obsessively checking the 3D. It’s just a reflection of your past assumptions.
Keep persisting, and soon the “delusional” world will become your physical reality! 💗
Can I really manifest to anyone in the world? Even if I am married or super famous? What about royals, politicians or people with another sexuality? And can I manifest in love with all the men in the world? How do I manifest it in 3d? Thank you, by the way I love your blog and I am very much guided by your experience in the law, success.
You can manifest anyone in the world, the hiring law has no limits!! Just assume that this is already the case, you don't have to do anything else and you will see your reality adapt accordingly. Don't worry about the circumstances, because in reality everything is a projection of your consciousness.
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