It's something that you do every day. Persistence is like riding a bike. You fall down -> You get back up and continue riding your bike. You don't accept "falling" down as your final destination.
And just like that, you only accept your desired outcome. Because you and your desire are ONE.
So instead of complaining that you "fell" down, get up and be confident.
If you are into complaining then "complain" about actually having it.
Forget assuming you don't have it; start assuming and affirming that you do! Beacuse in fact you DO!
REMEMBER that you are the conscious creator of your reality
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i was manifesting my sp, and it was the beginning of my loass journey, he had a gf, which i also manifested, (everyone told me he didnβt and i persisted into the fact that he did, due to a gut feeling and well he did π what a surprise)
at the time iβve been manifesting for a month and i saw little to no movement, which made me fold and text him first, which i still believe was inspired action (or whatever itβs called), basically i texted him, that is how i found out he had a gf and i dropped manifesting him and focused on school. this mf texted me, about two/three weeks later, he no longer had a gf and was so obviously into me.
all the affirming if done right doesnβt go nowhere.
so the moral is, the month i affirmed and meditated and did the whisper method and all the other ones, payed off, he was in love with me, he texted me just like i affirmed, he came up talked to me just like i affirmed and he wanted to come up and talk to me many times, but ended up not doing so as well, so there is always movement, to this day i have no idea who his gf was, no idea how they broke up or anything, but one thing i can tell you is that whatever youβre doing HAS to reflect, as long as your inner world is changing your outer world will too.
i see a ton of posts regarding manifesting an sp, and it seems to be a big struggle for some so i thought iβd share a success story on how i manifested mine a few years back
At the time, my sweet 16 year old lesbian self found myself really obsessed with this insta famous girl. i wonβt name drop but she was highly popular on the internet around this time and i wanted to at least be her friend so badly.
i would say i βattemptedβ to manifest her into my life for a solid 9 months before i found a 30 day sp challenge to which i decided to try. And it worked.
But it wasnβt necessarily the challenge that worked, it was me. And this is crucial but..you are the method.
Now what did i actually do?
i began imagining random scenarios where we were texting, interacting on social media and overall had eachother in our lives. i remember specifically feeling like there was no movement and i felt particularly bored while living in the end. there was no sign it was near, or feeling that i was doing anything right, i just kept persisting and i did it nonchalantly. i would occasionally affirm but it was mostly visualization whenever i thought of her.
2 weeks in and her close friend mutualed me out of nowhere, within a few days i was added to a gc with my sp and she followed me and we became close friends and still are to this day:,)
i didnβt ever make the first move, i didnβt even take any inspired action. Everything fell into my lap.
and that technically wasnβt the only sp ive manifested into my life. So many people i used to daydream about befriending iβve either dated, or eventually became friends with. i would like to think of it as devine timing bc i wouldnβt want to have known them any sooner or later.
to conclude: manifesting an sp is something ive never had resistance towards because people are so emotionally fluid and constantly changing. you can have the person of your dreams or the person that blocked you.
itβs your universe baby.
Don't forget to take care of your self concept : everything comes from there.
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Manifesting an SP is fun and it is the reason why a lot of people find LOA or start to practice it. The thing with SPs is that many people claim they canβt manifest them, there is a lot of stigma and misinformation around the topic and as someone who has made many mistakes when manifesting her old SP and is currently manifesting an SP, I thought Iβd share my tips and create this post β kind of Manifesting an SP 101. If you donβt believe in loa, please leave, this post is not for you, unless you are here to learn more and not be hateful. Keep in mind all those tips are given from my experience! If your opinion is different or another coach told you something else then you are free to follow whichever advice you wish to follow!
α‘£π© THE BASICS.
It is crucial that when manifesting anything we understand the law (of assumption). The law states that our mind (4d) creates the reality around us (3d). Whatever you persist on in your mind, as thoughts, as visuals, will become true and will reflect in the 3d. We manifest anything by acting as if / living in the end, basically we think as if, as if we were rich, as if we were confident, as if our sp asked us out. It is recommended to think as if 24/7, but to people who are new to the law it can be difficult, so I would try to think favourably as much as you can, work your way up from thinking favourably 50% of the time to 100% of the time. It is important to persist in our desire, whatever we put our attention on will show up in our reality.
α‘£π© EIYPO
EIYPO stand for Everyone Is You Pushed Out. It all comes back to the concept that the 4d creates the 3d. Whatever you assume to be true is true. If you think all the time that youβre annoying and ugly and everyone hates you, thatβs your reality. If you think that xyz is a bitch, then theyβre a bitch. Whatever assumptions you have about yourself will be reflected in the 3d by others and their view of you, whatever assumptions you have of others also will be reflected in the 3d by them.
α‘£π© CIRCUMSTANCES
Circumstances are different for everyone, the most important thing in this small section is that they do not matter. Loa is limitless, you are the creator and only you can limit yourself. Circumstances can vary from being in no contact with your SP to your SP telling you they hate you or them being in a relationship. Itβs all the same, it all doesnβt matter. Your current 3d is the reflection of your current or past assumptions.
α‘£π© THIRD PARTIES
When it comes to SPs we can deal and often do with 3rd parties, that can be their partner, their ex, someone they are into or someone they arenβt dating yet, but are talking/going out with β again, itβs all the same. Our reality is the reflection of us, of our inner world, the third party is no different, theyβre often a reflection of our insecurities, fears or doubts. The best way to get rid of them is to simply ignore them. That is how I manifested a third party away, by not acknowledging it, not dwelling on it, not spiralling about it. What you focus on you persist on, whether you want it or not, if you persist it will show up more in your reality.
α‘£π© SELF CONCEPT
Letβs start with what is self concept, itβs you basically, assumptions you have about yourself, who you are, how others see you, how fast you manifest and if you can. Self concept is basically a set of beliefs and assumptions you have surrounding yourself. Do you think you deserve your manifestation? Many will tell you self concept is a must to manifest an SP, I will tell you it depends. If you have a low self concept when it comes to love or yourself, then yes you need to work on it, if you have a low self concept when it comes to manifestation, then itβs optional, it depends if you want it to come in fast or not.
α‘£π© VERSIONS OF PEOPLE
Important thing that I missed on my first SP journey was what version of them am I manifesting? I was manifesting a fuckboy, a cheater. Basically all the bad stuff I heard about him, I took as facts. Before I assumed that he was that way I didnβt really see that side of him, because I havenβt manifested that version of him yet. So whatever your SP has shown you, whatever assumptions you have about them now, you can change them. Think about it really, how do you see them, do you think theyβre above you? Do you think they could never like you? Do you think theyβre an asshole? Change the bad assumptions you have about them. You get to select the version of them, you select the version you experience, so manifest them to be your ideal person. (i usually just affirm βtheyβre my ideal personβ, your mind knows what it wants and if youβre not sure create a list in your notes app or on paper!)
Honestly nothing else comes to my mind atm about SPs, except for the basics: donβt check the 3d, persist and ignore the 3d (continue to think as if) even if itβs showing you the old story, your movement should show up in 2/3 weeks, if there isnβt any and you have been manifesting an SP for years youβre probably doing something wrong, I cannot tell you what, you need to look inward and be honest with yourself. Remember you are human, you will feel all sorts of ways when manifesting, donβt let your feelings cloud your judgement and discourage you β feelings do not manifest only dominant thoughts. Also I do not condone manifesting abusers etc. Fuck abusers, please seek help if youβre in a relationship with a person who may hurt you or has physically or emotionally. You are not responsible for your abuse or trauma. I love yall, have an amazing day!
So I've been using the 369 method but on one of my manifestations, I realized that I wasn't writing it in past tense. It seems small but I think writing in future tense is contributing to my resistance/wavering
ok i stopped manifesting my sp bc i suddenly just Didn't Give A Shit so idk what to post here now lol
Lazy girl who? I am in my productive eraπ¦
I have been on this long journey of trying to figure out how to find beauty in productivity and not do it just because βi have toβ. Here are some tips to make your everyday life magical:
πΉInvest in a planner. IDC what anyone says, but i love waking up in the morning and organising my day. Planner helps me in organising my mind, laying out in advance what i have to do for the day, building habits, making time for fun activities etc.
πΉMake a monthly vision board instead of yearly. If not vision boards, just have a mental idea of all the goals you have to achieve for yourself to βbe that girlβ. Build habits accordingly, and give yourself small challenges. For example, if you want a healthy glowing skin, challenge yourself to drink 8 glasses of water everyday for 7 days and build it accordingly. Baby stepsβ¨
πΉ Act as if youβre filming a YouTube video. If youβre like me, and you find exercising boring, what you can do is, pretend as if youβre filming a YouTube video for your subscribers. Sure, it sounds silly, but it works for me and makes me excited to do it.
πΉ Try to journal as often as possible. It doesnβt have to be elaborate. Itβs something to help you keep focused on your goals and not distract you. οΏΌ
πΉ Romanticise your life. This could mean anything for you. From dressing up early in the morning just to stay inside, (i mean wheres the rule that you can only dress up when you go out?) to buying cute scented candles for your room. However, itβs ur creativity your choice. I personally use apps like STOIC to record my overall day highlights at the night.
πΉ Affirmations and other manifestation techniques. Ofc, this is so important. This is what my whole blog is about.
πΉ Keep your weekends off and just unwind yourself from all the work youβve done through the week and unwind yourself. Spend those days with family and friends.
In the end, remember not all your days are going to be 10/10 productive and itβs okay. Take baby steps. 3 months from now, youβll thank yourself.
create contacts in your phone with your sp's name/ID pic and create contacts for their connections that you think would be relevant to them. example:
Save your SP's mum as a contact. write her contact as: π Mother in law. (put her actual name here)
Save your SP's friend as a contact. write their contact as: *nickname that feels natural* (put "SP's friend" here.
This is like a golden for SP's, it works like magic!
SUCCESS STORY:
I use to do this with guys I desired and always had success. This teacher would help me with homework through a program outside of school so I had her as a contact in my phone & her son was in the same grade as me, so he would always come to the programs too. I had the biggest crush on her son so I jokingly saved her number as "Future Mother in law" and surprise, surprise, me and her son ended up dating and she basically became like my 2nd mother. π§πΎββοΈ
Listen your mindset NEEDS to match the self concept your embodying. Whether thatβs being chosen, you need to start adapting the beliefs in every aspect of your life that YOU ARE CHOSEN. When you are thinking about yourself and who you are, you need to see yourself as chosen and produce thoughts that version of yourself would have. When you think about your person, you must think of them from the version of you that is chosen, by them and everyone else. You must collectively embody the full state of your new self concept.
thought iβd post on how i manifest SPs since I am manifesting a new one rn, literally starting today.
i have manifested an SP successfully similarly to this (same SP multiple times, currently not manifesting this old SP).
1. create a playlist
β with songs that remind me of my SP, of their vibe / the vibe that I imagine our relationship has or songs that remind me of our encounters and interactions.
2. create the new story
β this step i missed before and it was a mistake, so now iβm fixing that, how do you want your sp to be like? how do you want them to view you? well, you can make a list (like i do) or keep it simply in your head, now thatβs the idea that we keep, we let go of the unfavourable version of your sp, that version is outdated, the new one is in.
3. affirming
β i have a really old list of sp affs, thereβs like 20 at least, so i will probably be inspired by those and pick a couple affs i like, i like to focus on one thing so i will pick about 2-3 affs for specific stuff such as their personality & their feelings towards me. for me it would look like affirming: βheβs so kind & lovingβ βweβre in a healthy relationshipβ βheβs so in love with me and he shows itβ βhe is my perfect person and i am his.β and so onβ¦ i also recommend affirming for self concept, so affirming you are loved, you deserve the best always, you manifest easily, that manifesting is easy, that sp is easy to manifest etc.
4. subliminals
β i like to include subs when i manifest, i listen to them sometimes when falling asleep and asleep or just when iβm doing something like scrolling on tumblr. i listen to all sorts of sp subs, honestly whatever you want to do, i like to listen to subs that re-affirm heβs into me or that he gives me princess treatment.
5. just know
β letting go of the 3d is often hard, but you have to remind yourself whenever you doubt that 3d looks to you for validation not you to the 3d, remind yourself there is shit going on behind the scenes, remind yourself they are in love or your friend or anything you fucking want.
REMINDER!!!
all those steps are optional, this is just how i PERSONALLY manifest my SPs, you can take one step and leave the other.
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